Just need to vent about house cleaners
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Comments (7)Rae- DH does most of the work- I have been banned from touching walls because of all the cracks I put in the plaster walls in our last house when hanging pictures. I forgot to mention even though the job is a DIY- because of time constraints DH hung the drywall but we paid some handyman friend of my cousins to do all the taping and patching. We ended up paying him like 1300 bucks to get the job done before my 4 year old's birthday party in November- money down the drain since it has to be done again. I'm glad we didn't paint in there yet though. Years ago before we had kids- we would be fixing up and working together, now its mostly him because of the kids, they are still really little, and they need a lot of attention. Thanks for all your support- I'm really just hitting the wall w/ this renovation. I will never move again! We moved here in May and the whole house needed to be redone- not one upgrade since 1959! It was twice the size of our last house, and the property was 3 times the size, and we wouldn't be able to ever afford it if it had been in good condition. I think we are just in way over our heads- but there is no turning back now. Mo sgal- I really know what you mean by S...L...O....W Rmkitchen- I'm still laughing at the "vent" joke pcjs- thanks for the webpatch tip- I will tell DH Thanks everyone- I think DH will thank you too since I didn't wine to him this time- this GW thing might just be good for my marriage! LOL...See MoreOld House Blues (just venting)
Comments (11)My DH calls it "getting back to zero". We've been in our 82 yr. old home now for 30 years (was supposed to be 2) and I've finally come to terms by earning enough money to do some of the fun stuff myself. I'm in the midst of updating the kitchen, which we did as frugally as possible when we moved in and had a graduate student's budget. At least most of you bought houses that are large enough and have significant architectural details to make it seem worthwhile. Our house is pretty bare-bones and only about 1200 sq.ft., so on every project I have to weigh what is in keeping with the nature (and price) of the house itself. The upside is that it is on one of the best streets in the best section of Pgh., we have a 3/4 acre of wooded yard and lots of privacy & are 7 min. to downtown. But, after hating the house with a passion and with absolute frustration for 20 years, I've finally solved some of the bigger problems and don't want to move. So, console yourselves that when you find you can renovate, you can pull out all the stops. You're not confined to a 9x11' kitchen with three doorways and a picture window over a radiator, for instance, with no room to expand. I've been reading threads on the appliance and kitchen forums and have developed "appliance envy", but new, mid-range appliances are the only thing that makes sense. Besides, I bet I'll appreciate figuring out how to add a 4 drawer cabinet more than the people with the refrigerator drawers, 36" Wolfe ranges and the Subzero refrigerators. Every square inch in this house has been assessed and utilized for storage and convenience, but it's still a pain to entertain more than 4-6 people. At least now I've landscaped the yard so it is a showstopper and have made a conscious decision that I choose to stay here....See MoreNeed To Vent About My Kitchen (House?)
Comments (4)Thanks for all the responses. The drawers are non-dovetail construct with oak fronts and seem to be sturdy. The guide is a wheel that fits in a slot in a bar below the middle of the drawer. Most of the cabinets are 1x2 or 1x3 softwood lumber that doesn't always meet at the corners. Lots of nails showing in the spaces between cabinets. Look like cheap boxes were nailed in place. The side walls are fiberboard and front and backs appear to be venier covered fiberboard. Face frames are oak to match oak drawer fronts and doors. Some of those frames were mitered and others were just overlapped. One was mitered at the reverse angle....See MoreWhat just happened? Vent about mom.
Comments (31)I lurk her every night and feel like I know you all. I may be way off base but I have a 94 year old dad who still lives by himself, drive, shops, cooks and everything except what the cleaning lady does. A few years ago I also, with his blessing, told all his grandchildren, great grandchildren plus everyone else that there would no longer be any overnight visits at grandpas. Everyone was welcome to visit for a few hours but it was just too much for him to plan for dinners and breakfast for overnight guest. I have one niece who thought that it applied to everyone but her. She would show up unannounced with her family and just take over his house. I tried talking to her and was told in no uncertain terms that it was not my business. Well I walked in on one of her visits and she was questioning my dad about his will. I interrupted her and ask just what do you want to know. She again said it was not any of my business she was talking to her grandfather. My dad finally said if you want to know anything you better listen to your aunt she is in charge of all my money and the executor of my will and all my trusts. Turn out she wanted one of his vacation homes. I explained to her his entire estate would be left to her mother and me and if she wanted to know anymore about it she should talk to her mother. Well needless to say that visit ended shortly and funny thing is she has not been back. It really hurt my dadâÂÂs feeling to find out she only visited him because she wanted something. Now I think I know where some of the things missing out of the house have gone but dad would probably given her anything she wanted if she had ask. I know what you mean about you are damned if you do and damned if you donâÂÂt. I am the one that looks out for my dadâÂÂs best interest. After my mother died he handed all their business dealing to me said he just didnâÂÂt want to do it. I give him a monthly report that he signs off on, all very legal, but sometimes I feel like an employee reporting to the chairman of the board instead of a daughter. He told me to sell the vacation home!...See Morelgmd_gaz
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