It is a personal choice, for sure. But, we have had hardwood in our kitchen for 32 years without any issue. It is very easy to care for ( we have a light color). I much prefer one flooring throughout a space.

Wood-look tile goes best in smaller areas like bathrooms or a small kitchen, but I don't like large expanses of it. Personally, I think it's smart to put tile in the kitchen, but not wood-look. Obviously my opinion is mine and probably weird.

Tile/grout is not waterproof, and your kitchen floor isn't built like a waterproof shower, so if you constantly spill large quantities of liquids you will also end up having problems with a tile floor.

What kind of spills are you expecting from sinks and appliances?

This is my third house with site finished hardwood floors throughout the house and we've never had an issue. I try not to decorate my house based on a catastrophic event that might never happen ... and I live in quake prone CA!

I have seen wood look tile in a kitchen that was open to other rooms with actual wood, and I thought it looked strange to have two different “woods” together like that. I would either do wood throughout (my preference) or a different tile in the kitchen.

We had wood in our kitchen for 10 years at our old house. We did have a couple of water incidents, one leak of the fridge waterline and a crack in the dog bowl that caused a slow leak overnight. Both warped some boards, it wasn’t visible but you could feel the edge difference with your feet. Within a few months it had dried sufficiently that you couldn’t tell any difference at all. We are remodeling our new house now and put wood throughout the open living/dining/kitchen area.

If you want to do tile look up some articles on transitioning floor styles. I read a good article a while back, I will try to find it. I believe it said to try and have similar colors so there isn’t an abrupt, noticeable change.

How thick is the wood compared to the tile?

If the wood is 3/8" thick, it will butt up to standard tile without a transition. If the wood is 1/2" butting up to standard tile, a reducer is needed.

1/2" wood butts up to natural stone (which is normally 1/2" or 7/16" thick). No transition.

Maybe I misunderstood, I thought she was talking about the “look” of the transition, not how the actual physical transition happens.

Do all wood all over it will give you a continuous look throughout the different spaces. No wood look tile against real wood. Wood is more resilient than you think.

I have had hardwood floors in three kitchens without problems. I have placed small Karastan area rugs with a multicolor Kerman pattern over a pad in front of the stove and sink, which provide extra cushioning where I tend to stand the most. If I spill anything, I wipe it up promptly, and any stains are hidden by the pattern in the rugs. They are pretty and provide a nice splash of color.