A tipping question, WWYD?
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Comments (4)Yeah, there should be some "extra" rent that goes towards a down payment. A twist on a "rent to own" would be a lease with an option to purchase, in which case they'd just pay market rent and have the option within a certain period of time to buy it at an agreed-upon price. But it would need to be at a price acceptable to you, which I'm assuming 20% below list isn't. This option is actually more preferable for the buyer, because if the market value goes up they get a good deal down the road, and if it goes down they can not take the option, or negotiate a lower price with you....See MoreNew To Me Kitchen Questions--WWYD?
Comments (14)I also agree on waiting. Get moved in, work around in the kitchen this coming year, noting by that what you'd like changed. Could be you'll want to put in more lower drawers... I can't see enough of the base cabs to tell how many are there. Maybe be looking at tile for the BS (even if just over the stove). I like slab doors - easier to keep clean. Nothing to catch the dust/dirt that'll need cleaned out. How about changing out the hardware? That could make a big difference in the look. Those are things to take time thinking about. You could tie a piece of wire around a few knobs to simulate a handle to see if you think that'd look better. (maybe someone here knows another way to do that). I have some velcro strips that would work - bought them at Walmart for about 6.00 (I used them to hold a bandage on my dog's leg). They're stiff enough to wrap around the bottom of the knob, stick together above it and stay in position. (clip down to a normal handle height). I put a paper towel cardboard on the back of my kitchen faucet to give me an idea how I'll like a new taller faucet in place of the old (leaky) one....See MoreWWYD family etiquette question
Comments (29)Since they obviously feel that payment of some kind was the right thing to do, I would accept the $ graciously, thank them, then do whatever you think is right. Keep it, spend it, donate it, but don't make it look like you're rejecting their "gift" by telling them you're giving it away. I'd simply say that you'll do something special with it. But don't tell them what, unless it's a treat for you and your husband and you can say how much you enjoyed it....See MoreWWYD-nephew question
Comments (26)I'm not gay, so I can't speak for positive, but I have many gay friends. I know I would hate to be dealt with as a charity case or be labeled by my sex life. I think the best thing to do is to cultivate a loving relationship with him, no different than if he had been straight. Having loving supportive friends and family is very important no matter your sexual orientation. Anyone who is an "outlier" (I was one of the only ethnic minorities in my home town growing up) will develop pretty good radar about who is and who is not safe to "be oneself" with. I wouldn't worry too much about that. People "come out" in their own ways, depending on how they feel about sharing intimate details of their lives. Since homosexuality is a non-issue for me, (other than being supportive of my gay friends and civil rights for gay people) if someone does come out to me and my group, it is usually like, "Great, we love you no differently!"...See MoreBunny
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