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Comments (66)We got two gifts in total. A vacuum cleaner and a pressure cooker. Both most welcome and the pc is still in use. No ’shower’ and only 8 wedding guests. Just parents, siblings and their spouses. DD got married during covid with the permitted 6 guests but a year later we had a party with 100 guests. They requested no gifts, just donations to two charities. The Italian side of the family found this diffcult to grasp and gave a lot of knickknacks they neither want nor need....See MoreMy musings about weddings and marriage
Comments (29)Even though my marriage was over after just under 10 years, I still think we did the wedding just right. We were married at Niagara Falls with just our families. Yes, it was a destination wedding but we weren't requiring anyone to come. We were eloping and if our family wanted to be there they were welcome to be there. We knew it wasn't a financial hardship on anyone except maybe my cheap FIL but my MIL was thrilled because it was the only real 'vacation' she ever had. I don't think she's ever even been to the beach and she is over 60 (and she lives within just a few hours of the beach!) The weather was beautiful and everyone had a good time. We were married outside on the American side of the falls and my parents paid for dinner in a private room at the Red Coach Inn. The kids did the touristy stuff, the adults got to gamble at the casino. My sister was able to bring her dog who is part of our family. It was just a great, fun and relaxing weekend. My cousin had a HUGE fancy wedding and her marriage lasted less than a year. I have never seen so many gifts at a bridal shower. I just feel sad that she wasted that on her first husband since she has a great marriage with her second husband and they didn't do a big thing since, well, it just didn't seem right after the first wedding. Actually I have at least three cousins who had VERY short marriages after big weddings. Our generation just hasn't been very lucky in that respect, no matter how big the wedding was....See MoreWannabe Vegetable Gardener Musings
Comments (60)Just thought I'd update the thread a little... The tomatoes have been pretty much a bust so far this year...the wet, hot summer has been conducive to ripening tomatoes rotting on the vines. The tomatoes coming on the indeterminate vines now that are higher up show a bit more promise being as they look more healthy. I've tried to keep the lower parts of the vines clear. Okra is producing. Zipper cream cowpeas are producing well...the bright spot in the garden, so far!!! Small bell peppers continue to supply us with what we can eat. The cucumbers suffered from Downy Mildew and then the pickle worms arrived...did not get much of a harvest from them, though everything was planted late so didn't have much time between starting production and the time that DM and the pickle worms arrived. Squash struggled and now pickle worms...again, late planting didn't help them. Watermelons are just now setting fruit. Cantaloupe actually look pretty good for the few hills that I planted...looks like we've got about a dozen melons growing. It's a learning experience, that is for sure!!! Where we started...and where we're at today......See MoreWear a Fake Diamond Wedding Ring?
Comments (82)This OP has a sort of similar story to one posted on GW a couple/few years ago. A controlling spouse who, I think, died. And she didn't/couldn't live her "new" life. Then an old friend asked her out. I don't remember what happened. I probably quit reading. Lindsey, I'm here for the same reason as you. My hints are 63,959 today. I don't even try to keep up with them. But a lot of them will be for indirect family so not as important as for my direct family. Still, they all count and for DNA matches it helps to have everyone....See Moremtnrdredux_gw
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