Desperately asking for prayers for a special little girl.
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Comments (41)I'm just seeing this for the first time and I am happy to hear all will be well. She is a lucky girl to have discovered it in this fashion. Just had a friend (in her 70's), perfectly healthy, complained of a horrible headache while baking Christmas cookies and went to the hospital. She died with two days from the bleed in her brain. Everyone who knew her was stunned....See MoreSay a Little Prayer, Offer Up a Good Thought for Rosie...
Comments (37)sorry the pic is fuzzy, she was moving fast! She keeps very busy eating (but still no yogurt; vickie's family must not be the only non-yogurt-eating critters!), playing, & sleeping. & growing: She likes to sit in my lap while I'm at the computer, & she's already so long that I have to sit on one edge so her back end can rest on the other side of the chair!...See MoreI miss my little girl...
Comments (11)May I ask how much Dad is actually home during daughter's visit? Your 'right of refusal' might work part of the weekend, but I think you may want to really think this one through before exercising it completely or inisting the entire weekend is off limits. The basic clause likely states in place of daycare, sitter, relative blah blah. If Dad is home on Friday evening by say 7ish and still has time to be there and spend enjoyable time with daughter...it may be best to go for having Dad pick daughter up at the 7ish (either your home or a neutral spot). Again, is he off and running early Saturday? Is it noon-ish before he leaves SM with daughter? Dad might have to bring daughter back before he takes off for the day. Where I'm going with this is that the child desires to see her father and even though she does not care to be left with the SM she does say she 'had a good time'. Will opening up your 'right' cause additional friction and 'games' between the situation with the SM? Does the daughter really 'hate' the SM time or is she (like Ima suggested) picking up on your feelings and the stress of others surrounding you when it come to her weekend? You were pretty stressed out earlier this last weekend. Did she feel/sense this building in you/other's in your family and maybe feel she was betraying you? Maybe feel she had to be home because her mom/others really need her there and get stressed/upset/sad when she goes away? In other words, is it possible that unintentionally you/others played a part in her building anxiety? You're not dealing with 'normal' people here. This father and SM are a bit nutty (based on your previous thread postings)...I guess I kinda fear what the nuts will do for 'payback' if you 'win' and stop weekend visits entriely based on the fact Dad is gone 'alot'. There is a chance it may be better to demand your 'right to refuse' and then work with them via the clause initially so daughter is not left for long stretches with just SM but also does go ...yes, it might mean a few weeks/months of extra running for you/dad while the daughter is taken back and forth. I just think you need to step back, look at everything, ask the professionals their opinions (lawyers, counselors, teachers who are aware and famaliar with what's going on) and weigh what might really be in child's best interest. Maybe 'conditions' could be used in bargaining your right to refual? Something along the lines that while Dad is 'gone' daughter can phone you once to let you know she is ok/having goodtime/miserable whatever. Dad can like it or not but since you do indeed have the first right to refuse clause he is under legal means to have to follow the clause. He can't 'deny' notifying you. He can't 'deny' you the 'right' to exercise the clause you both agreed to have included in the court papers. But the clause does not mean the daughter 'must' remain with you entirely, it merely gives you first chance to request in place of daycare, sitter, relative you get the option of the daughter spending the time he's missing from the scene with you instead...how detailed is your clause and how much room does the wording leave open to interpretation aka could drive a semi through the loose wording and loop holes?...See MoreAsking for prayers...
Comments (54)Thank you for prayers and concerns. They were to do surgery Thursday but decided that another test needed to be make and results won’t be back for 5-10 days. I feel so sorry for the parents....they were emotionally prepared to have it done....so waiting is hard on them. i did see the feature on Today but that little one’s SB was in the lower part of his spine, which is a much better place (if there can be)...our baby is at the top and that is the worst place it can be. I have no idea about the cost but it sounded from the clip that it is terribly expensive and insurance doesn’t cover much. We all are putting it in God’s hands...He won’t give them more than they can handle...,but we can never have too many prayers 🙏...See More- 8 years ago
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