No wonder you confused me :) You definately did sound like you had experience, but then again I wasn't sure. I have a 3 year old myself...and when he's 4 I sure hope I'm decorating a nursery again! Cloth diapers pre folded would be ok in the stacker, but like you say, any way to keep them handy would work. I think that peg rack is perfect for them given it's location by the changing table. Look around (ebay etc) they make mobiles specifically for changing tables. I had one, but it's been so long I don't remember what brand it was, but your changing table is the same style as mine so it would work. The mirrors for the back of the door...I forgot to mention...get the cheap ones that aren't really made of mirror glass LOL They have them at fred meyer, kmart, etc. Or if you get mirror glass, just add a film to the front of the glass (that stuff you squeege on to windows to filter light works great). I did that on all of the pictures hanging over DS's bed just incase they every fell (we have earthquakes and a really big one will knock down anything). I read the tip in some wifey magazine for any art hanging in a kids room in glass, since bouncing balls etc can make a glass mess. With this stuff, the glass still breaks of course, but since it's stuck onto the film, it typcically does not fall out or shatter into shards on the floor. I have to share...the remark about the bedding did crack me up. My little guy was so sick he was always vomiting or pooping his way out of his bed, typically several times a night. I got rid of the fancy silk bedskirt and bumper pads pretty darned quickly. He has cotton sheets, currently with either elmo or some hand painted blues clues paw prints on them and uses his down comforter only if I've left the duvet off :) He's much better now, but we still have more barfing than the normal kid so it's still easier to just keep all of the bedding easy and washable!

It's not necessary or advisable to make the room completely dark. They'll learn to sleep better, otherwise they'll always need that complete darkness. As for shades, white Romans are fine as long as they're cordless. Otherwise Roller Shades are always cute. If you want curtains, I'd hang short curtains, as they're more appropriate for a nursery and can't be pulled on or pulled down.

I would get drapes to cover as much of the window trim as possible the same ones on the closet and then just go looking for some soft colored bedding I found one on Bed Bath and Beyond but I can’t show it on here. Just google nursery bedding this is arug that might work now that I know its a girl Just keep everything else soft colors and with the drapes the black trim will be less of an issue. There are some really nice nursuries wth black cribs if you google them

Thank you! In addition to the look i want curtains in the room that are black out as I plan on doing a sheer blind that will let light in but a allow privacy. Since the room is so small and one of the sets of windows isn’t centered i thought the full wall of curtains. Do you think the full wall would look bad? Or just unnecessary? Do you have a picture of cafes in a nursery?