Help, my dog has a mental issue!
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Comments (4)I had a doggie who had this for years and I spent a fortune combating it with various shampoos from one vet, until I got my present one. This one took one look at it, said it was bacterial (like trinigemini said) gave him a script for antibiotics and he lived scratch and scab free until he died a ripe old age. They should all be so easy, and I don't know what I'll do if my current vet ever retires. LOL....See MoreMy dog attacked my other dog :( help
Comments (11)SG, Thank you so much for your insight--I believe you are a true "dog whisperer"! Let me clarify a few things and ask specific training & environmental questions: First I'll say, due to you and Annz' kind help, I believe I have corrected one of my problems. When I designed our new home I made space under the wall cabinets in the laundry rm for the dogs' kennels--next to each other. I thgt I was so smart doing this, but for my dogs' personalities, this may be one big problem. So hours ago, I moved Tiger's kennel to a different room (pantry next to L. rm) and he went right in! So now they will have their own space--away from each other. ~~I am also not going to allow either to sit under my desk while I am working--maybe that made Pepper (the Wheaton) think Tiger was getting special treatment (?). #2: The dogs do know I am TOP DOG for I, also, use their food & bowls to show my dominance--pretend to eat a kernel from their bowls before putting bowl down--pick up while they are eating & touch them/their food while they are eating. Never a problem--never a growl or resistance. Also, when we pass thru a door outside I am to go first, after I have them sit-stay & wait for me. I have them sit/lay/stay on command from time to time during the day to reinforce this too. ~~A trainer I consulted after the first attack told me that they both knew I was top dog but I did things to allow Pepper to think she was my equal--that we were BOTH top dogs. So I've been doing these things for a long time---more strictly for about a yr--but now you'll see NOT STRICTLY ENOUGH. ***Let me be specific in my info and question: When I open a door to let them out, Pepper does bolt out the door ahead of me about 1/3 of the time. I use my correction sound (Ehhhhh) and she immediately returns to my side to sit/stay until I give her the "OK" to move. (Sometimes just hearing the correction sound from me, she stops & returns to my side.) Specifically, WHEN I say sit/stay--she ALWAYS obeys. If I give NO command, she will start thru the door. ~~~Writing this out, I see I'm slacking and creating top dog DOUBT in her mind. So she isn't totally convinced that I am top dog? Or am I teaching her that I AM top dog but if she "assumes a top dog behavior" there is no real consequence besides "re-doing the situation" and moving on? SO, I need to go back to square one and take better control--using a lead to control, give commands EVERY TIME AND be persistent. But is it as "simple" as that? I can & will do these things correctly now but what else am I doing or what else can I do. Surely my "allowing" her to even consider disobeying my top-dog status isn't the only reason she's "comfortable" risking punishment in order to attack Tiger? I believe Tiger knows Pepper is Alpha dog and is comfortable with it. It has to be ME & my behavior that affects Peppers attacks. Hope I've been somewhat clear about what I do & don't do in order for you all to help give me instruction & advice. tks again in advance, CB...See MorePlease Help - Dog Walking Issue!
Comments (3)If he is still constipated, feed him some canned unsweetened pumpkin. (NOT pie filling, just the plain stuff.) About 1 tablespoon per 20# of body weight. Works for constipation AND for diarreah. (not sure how it works for both, but it does.) As far as getting him to go out, relax and don't yank on the leash. Try to coax him with treats and use your high pitched happy voice. Or, if he goes in the car willingly, put him in the car, drive a half a block, then get out and try getting him to go for a walk....See MoreHelp for rescue dog with terrible anxiety/fear issues?
Comments (39)All of you, this thread has been sooooo helpful. I wish I had the time to address each of you individually. Know that your comments are being read and carefully pondered. Lukkiirish, a group gift would be a wonderful idea. I'm an only child, mom is divorced (and dad passed away last year.) My mom, one of six kids, has one remaining brother who lives several states away, and we only see him every few years. Our formerly tight-knit family has dwindled so much. I did find out the name of the rescue organization last night, so I plan to see what they have to say. As we talked about Shortie I was encouraged to hear that Shortie does get excited to see mom and her Man Friend, enjoys cuddling with them, and now has a routine where he enjoys playing for a half hour or so each night. They live a very routine, habituated lifestyle, so that is in their favor. MF has suggested getting another dog might be helpful, too. Who gives up their well-adjusted dogs, though? Part of the reason they went with a rescue was that the dog would be older, past the puppy stage. Now I realize how important that puppy stage really is! Mom said last night how she wishes she could wave a magic wand and say, "OK, you're a real dog now!" She also made reference to wishing there was a dog whisperer in her area. She will be going into semi-retirement starting in the new year, so technically there would be the time for her to work with the dog. I do feel working one on one with someone who could point out specific techniques to help, in addition to what they might be doing to undermine Shortie's confidence would be beneficial. But if the training involved keeping the dog off the furniture, "putting him in his place", or withholding affection, ain't happening! I really don't think that is the style of trainer I found, though. I wanted the gift to be a surprise...but it might have to come down to some conversation......See More- 8 years ago
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