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Comments (11)saypoint: You make a very valid point for not designing on the fly and I'm making a note of all of those variables to work in our plan upfront. When I worked with an architect for our home remodel, my DH and I did much of the "design" ourselves--just by knowing our existing home and lifestyle and looking at similar homes in the neighborhood and open houses. I literally spent hours driving around the neighborhood taking pictures of houses with architectural features that I liked,poured over magazine and tore out photos and tweaked my designs on graph paper and design software. The outside leaves me stumped how to graph it out as I can't divide it up like I did the house: i.e. kitchen, master bath, etc. I do have a set of plans with property dimensions which is a place to start. I'd even be willing to get some landscape design software (as long as it's not too complex) so I could create elevations--something the designer wouldn't even do. I'm probably most challenged with the backyard--which could be another option to have someone design that and not the front--as the front yard I get lots of ideas from the neighborhood and it's more of a public space. It's pretty much dominated by a huge Sycamore tree and we know we want the pathway to arch from the driveway to the entry and then over to the opposite side yard where we plan to add a gate and bike shed behind the gate. The softscape has always been a challenge between having a northern exposure and the shade from the Sycamore tree--but that is phase 2 in my mind. It's in the backyard, we have the retaining wall and are planning a more complex/$$ patio, possible arbor, rear back area for a patio swing, side yard to have a raised vegetable bed, plus bike/garden shed. Lots going on--without even getting into the softscape. Many of the architects we met with did not impress me with their creativity and though we worked closely with two, they were more in terms of specifying the construction details for our design. Same was true of our kitchen and I did lots of reseach on the kitchen forum and gots lots of valuable feedback in the process. Right now, I'm in the fact gathering stage; though we're also on a time schedule since our patio is so chopped up right now and the kids are tracking in dust and dirt on my new floors. Most pressing is that I have to finalize our exterior paint choice--which is why we've been focusing on hardscape materials to get a feeling for the overall hardscape color scheme....See MoreGood basic book recommendation?
Comments (6)I do old books searches (such as the time life series excellent by the way) now at amazon (used to be biblio find but amazon bought them out) and have a nice collection of older books on the subject. Some on ferns, terrariums, light gardening (indoor - part of time life series) rock gardening (time life series) they are much better then what I can find currently for the most part. (I just went to Amazon, and tried to do a search, didn't do so well, they have changed much. I know also that my nyc local garden club or horticultural society also had a library of these older books.) Here are links I've compiled over the years. (not edited) many wonderful sites. Best Sherry Number one Dutch Vivarium site: http://www.vivaria.nl/home/intro.html Special projects from above: http://www.vivaria.nl/photogallery/photoprojects/photoprojects.html Great site: http://www.victri.net/tanks/vivarium_2005-06-20.html Amazing vivarium site, and how to, nicely videotaped? http://imageevent.com/audiomaster/tincvivarium His first project (from above): http://imageevent.com/audiomaster/40gallonhexagon/ Fantastic driftwood (and I thought the wood I found at Cresent city CA and in redwoods was fantastic) http://www.amazonmoosey.com/swampwood1.htm other wood source (moss on as well) and other products http://www.blackjungle.com/Merchant2/merchant.mv?Screen=CTGY&Store_Code=BJTS&Category_Code=WFWH Amazing strange and highly unusual woods - twisted, viney so on... extremely unusual from around the world: http://ecoterrariumsupply.com/index.php Garden Web Forums (small membership fee but well worth it) http://forums.gardenweb.com/forums/ http://www.aquahobby.com/tanks/e_tank0412a.php#2 http://www.greenchapter.com/view.php?pg=0&tp=0&id=28&vp=pic_100.jpg&vs=11 http://home.att.net/~a.j.calisi/moss.html http://www.kingsnake.com/ http://www.museumrock.com/sculptural_fountains.htm Backgrounds: http://shell.world-net.co.nz/~jenniefield/ http://www.csd.net/~cgadd/aqua/art_other_netmax_styro.htm http://www.back-to-nature.de/aquaristik.htm http://www.chamberlain.dk/?eid=2&seid=&overskr=Background http://www.rockandwater.com/ http://p088.ezboard.com/fboroniaaquariuminteractivepagesfrm14.showMessage?topicID=3.topic http://www.geocities.com/~amazingaquaria/fiftyp.htm http://members.tripod.com/~Tropic_Cove/aquariums/totgb.html http://www.urdls.com/ http://www.blackjungle.com/ Orchidarium http://forums.gardenweb.com/forums/load/terrarium/msg010323113138.html Vivarium: http://imageevent.com/audiomaster/40gallonhexagon Very very large vivarium: http://www.poison-frogs.nl/e0302.html Collection of vivariums from various members from around the world: http://www.wildsky.net/vivarium/evivariu.htm How to make from same sourse above: http://www2a.biglobe.ne.jp/~wild-sky/vivarium/nfrraz050127.htm A variety of vivariuns and other things, parts work some out of date, but useful: http://home.earthlink.net/~kenuy/pVIVARIA.htm Great site, many photos.... how to: http://www.poison-frogs.nl/e03.html Loads of information of all types: http://www.amphibiancare.com/frogs/articles/tropicalterrarium.html http://www.blackjungle.com/gallery/talltank/page1.html Rubber 'lining' for use to safely seal wood so on: http://www.sanitred.com/WaterFountain.htm Source for bowls so on and other products from UK, but have ready made vivariums, so as to get ideas from (unusual shapes as well): http://www.paraquatics.co.uk/paraquatics%20online.html?target=dept_30.html&lang=en-gb Planted driftwood/rocks: http://www.poison-frogs.nl/e0302.html http://www.tropica.com/default.asp Plants (bog so on) and many other things ie substrate material: http://www.azgardens.com/newterra2.php Moss: http://www.mossacres.com/acc_retention_gel.asp Interesting use of 'laterite' for backgound: http://www.aquarticles.com/articles/management/Kumar_Imagination.html http://www.mistking.com/ Misters: http://www.drsfostersmith.com/product/prod_Display.cfm?siteid=8&pCatId=9738 Reptile page/wood so on: http://reptilecity.econgo.com/?BODY=cat/c17274.1.esl&SID=334bf4a308b0 Ferns: http://www.glasshouseworks.com/fernpage.html Misc: Aquarium and many other types (bio) entered in competition: http://showcase.aquatic-gardeners.org/2000.cgi?&op=showcase&category=0&vol=2&id=36 Heating pads for reptiles, misters misc: http://www.pro-products.com/ Lights: http://www.arcadia-uk.com/en/230compactlampreflectors.html Misc products hydroponics you never know what you'll find - fine site: http://www.growhere.com/insectcontrol/wettablesulphur.htm Mosses, algaies and many other things re to aquariums: http://groups.msn.com/LyreTailsAquarium/plantsandalgae1.msnw Amazing and some strange plants: http://home.att.net/~a.j.calisi/plants.html Think I posted before (getting late) huge aquarium/terrarium and many others: http://www.greenchapter.com/view.php?pg=0&tp=0&id=28&vp=pic_100.jpg&vs=11 Links to many other links: http://www.malawicichlidhomepage.com/aquainfo/aquarium_all_links.html...See MoreI think I'm sick.
Comments (25)Is the redness on the area of your buttock that felt so irritated? My sister had a tiny little ingrown hair near her ankle a few years back, which suddenly became very red, with spreading inflammation within a four hour period. Thankfully she didn't wait too long to have it checked out. They diagnosed it as early stage Necrotizing Fasciitis and put her on high dose antibiotics for the strep infection. The redness and swelling went down quickly and she recovered quickly as well. Even if that's not what your infection is, it's just a lesson for us all to better be safe than sorry, and don't wait to go to a doctor if we come down with anything unusual, that isn't explainable....See MoreNeed a Good Book Recommendation
Comments (44)Totally agree with the suggestion of the Kite Runner. Another book by the same author, A Thousand Splendid Suns is excellent. . I have also enjoyed books by Lisa See. She writes about the lives of young Chinese women. Her first book, Snow Flower and the Secret Fan tells the story of footbinding in China, fascinating story. The House on the Corner of Bitter and Sweet (the lives of Japanese Americans as we entered WW2). The Invention of Wings (Susan Monk Kidd) also wrote The Secret Life of Bees. Always look forward to the suggestions here.......See More- 8 years ago
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