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Comments (18)Smittee can certainly sympathize with you . Went in for a cat scan and my left lung collapsed so spent 5 days in the hospital.. The biopsy was positive but they tell me the cancer is inoperable . so now the tough decisions lol Do nothing and enjoy what time I have left or let them work on me and maybe extend my life a year or two??. One oncologist wants to try a new treatment but is not FDA approved so not covered by insurance . Not sure I can afford to be THAT sick lol. May be able to get some help with costs in trade as a "Guinea pig" But would have to drop my regular doctors .maybe even go to another state. That doesn't sound too cheap either lol. Good luck with your problem!!! Always planned on dying but it's sure a LOT different when it's staring you in the eye HUH?? gary...See Morea personal thanks to all of you
Comments (1)Smittee, I am so glad that God came to help you in your time of need. Miracles do happen and praying to God can sometimes work wonders, I have seen it myself, on my own behalf. You have gone thru an amazingly difficult time, in short order. I'm glad your plants did ok, that pales in comparison to you making it thru what you did. I am also going through a serious medical issue with the outcome unknown. I lost a lot of plants through the winter, but it doesn't bother me much because I know it's small potatoes. I have replaced most of them, it makes me feel better to walk around the yard and have desirable fruit trees instead of dead plants. It's my therapy, and it helps. I wish you well, and will pray for you too. Gary...See MoreAsking your opinions again,,,,,,,
Comments (32)Ellen; I agree; having a sounding board is helpful. I love reading everyone's input on the original post & thoughts that follow. Too bad that the one thing we do not have when reading; is the person's voice /emotion; we can only read with the emotion we bring to the post that day. I've read feedback on my own post elsewhere one way; only to go back another day in a different mood & realize that it may not have been written as it was originally read. The best advice I can give you is that none of us are living your life; you alone know what each relationship means to you. We have various people in our life; one person not calling to check up on one of us when sick or injured can hurt more then another friend not doing so. I can see a lot of "sides" with the lunch. On one hand; she should have treated you because you were "down"; I can add to that if you normally work; you're missing income from missing work. Others have said that when we visit someone that's recovering; we don't expect to be fed or we bring food to make it easier on the person. On another; I don't know her financial situation or how much traveling cost. I also think that each paying your own works. Come back in a few days to reread the post; use whatever you can to try to mend the relationship if that's what you decide to do. The way the conversation was brought up could have been better; but at least she said something. A lot of people do not & just move on....See MoreHad my surgery!
Comments (13)Hey Cat- I think courage is defined as doing the right thing even when you are scared....and while I've said folks here can deliver a good buttkicking, they can also be very supportive when you take action to improve your life. Based on DH's latest antics (asking you for money but then loading up his credit card) it's pretty clear that he's JPN (Just Plain Nuts). If being everybody elses piggy bank makes him feel good, well, that's his personality problem, not yours, and you should not feel guilty about it or try to protect him from himself (god knows you've tried often enough). If you had co-mingled finances you would have to find a way to make him stop it, but it sounds like your finances are separate, so his financial insanity does not ruin your credit or bank account (good for you!). And yes, he's probably noticing (albeit unconciously) that you are starting to pull away so he's getting clingy, but don't fool yourself that "things are getting better"....if you went back to the old situation he'd just relax and start ignoring you again. And yeah, being with folks who actually care about you is a whole different world. I was pretty sick a while ago, I told one of my friends, who in turn called another of my friends and they both checked up on me until I was better...it actually brought tears to my eyes, all my ex would have done is carp and moan about having to walk the dog because I was flat in bed....what a witch... You go, girl.....and I mean go, out of there and into a new life....See Morenickel_kg
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