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Comments (49)I thought I would give an update. Since our chat with the neighbor in November, there haven't been any more visits from the police. We're pretty sure that he can't hear the drums anymore, because even on the weekends when we are pretty sure he is home he hasn't called the cops. There's even been one or two occassions where he and my husband have had occassion to chat about something else. Things are much more peaceful, and I'm no longer fearful every time I hear the neighbor close his door or see him outside. The more time that goes by the less and less I believe the neighbor's story about how the cops and the apartment manager all told him that they were going to tell my husband to stop playing the drums. I'm just not buying it. It doesn't make sense that they would tell him that and then not put it in their reports. I only believed it when he first told us cuz he sounded sincere. Now I'm thinking he's just a very skilled liar. Based on his claim that the manager had told him she was going to evict all of us if we didn't settle things, and a few posts from property owners here and on other boards that they wouldn't renew a lease with a tenant that had a lot of complaints against them, I got worried that we wouldn't be offered a renewal. I didn't want to accuse the manager of telling us one thing and the neighbor something else, and I didn't want to bring up his accusation that she was going to evict all of us. But I wanted to make sure that we were going to be offered a renewal when our lease comes up in April. I had mentioned this to my husband, and just yesterday he had something else he wanted to talk to her about. So, while he was there he asked her if there was going to be any trouble with us renewing our lease after all of the trouble with the neighbor. She laughed, said if there was anyone she wasn't offering a renewal to it would be the neighbor, and asked my husband if he'd like to sign the new lease right then. I'm seriously doubting that she said anything to the neighbor about evicting us. So, given the evidence, or perhaps lack of evidence to substantiate the neighbor's claims, we're pretty confident that he's lying his head off. I figure that he realized that he wasn't going to be able to force hubby to quit the drums by calling the cops all the time, cuz they weren't on his side about it. He wasn't going to be able to get the manager to tell us to stop cuz she wasn't on his side either. Maybe he was even told by the cops that if he kept calling them they might write him a ticket for wasting their time after they had told him it was fine. So he tried an approach he hadn't tried before, he tried being nice. And it worked. So there's a tip for people with problem neighbors....if being nice doesn't work at first, try being an a-hole for a while. Then when you're nice again it'll be such a relief to your neighbor they'll be happy to listen. Now, why he felt he had to lie and tell us that the cops were telling him something different than they were telling us, I don't know. I think he was counting on us not having the police reports, or maybe that they wouldn't be as detailed as they were. Oh well, I don't care. I will feel more comfortable when he's gone, but at least until then things should be much calmer....See MoreWe're spending Easter with the monkeys!
Comments (1)That sounds like fun. I haven't been to a Zoo since I went to San Diego in 1989. LOL! Traditionally, when my kids were small we went to my Mom's House (where I now reside). The kids would be sent out to collect wildflowers in their Easter Baskets. When they returned they would hunt for the Eggs placed while they were collecting flowers. Then there was lunch. And another trip outside to find that the Easter Bunny had left lots of surprises. Mostly Beach Toys. Then they would play in the Sandbox for the rest of the day. Now we just eat Ham! LOL! Gayle...See MoreWe're Having a Party
Comments (16)Oh, she hasn't been yet. Our other cat was a seasoned travellor when we adopted her, she's been down with us several times and loves it. Lex hates riding in the car, and has never been more than 2 miles from our front door (she was born about 2 miles away in one direction and her vet is about 1.5 miles in the other). I'm going to wait until we actually move, and take her down just the one time. Am truly dreading putting her through that. But will be sure there's plenty of her favorite treat on hand when we arrive!...See MoreO/T while we're admiring each other's roses..
Comments (6)That is a gripping photo. Here's a way to help, Samaritan's Purse run by Franklin Graham, son of Billie. It's the charity we usually use when responding to the heartbreaking problems all around us. Gean Samaritan's Purse...See More- 9 years ago
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