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Should I Back Out as Seller_Fire My Agent?

houseplantsgalore
6 years ago
last modified: 6 years ago

Called
the Realtor who helped me get into this place for no particular
reason other than I still had their card. I signed with her then she
went out of town and handed me over to an underling who used babytalk
to me on the phone and was borderline rude when I called. Magically
three buyers appeared as soon as the realtor came back from vacation
a couple days later, no had told me anyone was interested the
first week although I'd gotten a ton of drive-by's and was curious
why I hadn't heard anything. This was only about 9 days after the
house was listed. Since then I've literally been inundated with
drive-by's.

True
story: Out in backyard, son and his mother stop and ask about the
house, are interested in topping the current cash offer with a better cash offer. My Realtor showed up for our appointment at that moment, gave them the brush off and
badgered me not to talk to anyone about the house; while they're
standing there listening.

I
own my current very small property free and clear. I'm a single
middle-aged female which might put things a bit in perspective, and
I'm physically disabled as well which I think might be making my
already “go getting” realtor a bit predatory -towards me.
I have done everything the realtor has asked for immediately in
regards to things on my end she wanted done, and I'm generally a
polite easygoing person or so I'm told. She cuts me off mid-sentence, won't listen to the few things I wanted in my counter offer,
and gives me dirty looks when I say I need more time or complain
about not liking something in the buyer's offer. I'm not sure she knows I am the seller to be honest.

My
main concerns: She may have bullied me into under-pricing my home to
begin with by at least 5k. It's been two weeks since it was listed
and she is heavily pushing me into selling it to the first cash
buyer. It is a cash offer for the asking price she pestered me into accepting with a lot of doubt, but I think, based on
comps, the property, the market, my personal timeline (I can sit and
wait a bit if necessary) and the fact I'm getting hammered flat by
drive-by's, I think it could be at least slightly higher and still get cash buyers. I realize the low list price has generated a lot of interest, but for some reason she doesn't want anyone to bid higher
than the first cash buyer and really wanted me to favor them.
Suspicious?

Also: So far my only major request was I
wanted was 90 days to find a home and move out (health reasons,
emotional reasons, financial reasons) I realize this is on the long
side, but my Realtor was borderline rude, dismissive and
unsympathetic to this idea, refusing to include it in the counter
offer and made me feel like I was buying a used car: I ended up
agreeing to less than 60 days which I totally regret. That's just not
enough time for me to handle what I need to. She was so pushy my only choice would have been to walk out of her office.

Had to call her to ask
for a copy of all the contracts I signed finally despite excuses and
assurances she'd get around to emailing them...which when received
I'll be looking for a way to get out of this most likely... I'm
worrying she's just a predator for local contractors and this is easy
meat, not worth much to her bottom line, and the sooner she gets (me)
out of the way the better. Also, I think for some reason she wants to
avoid a bidding war, maybe because 5-10k doesn't mean a lot to her,
but for some reason this buyer on the line does.

I sold one house before in another state about
ten years ago at the bottom of the market, and my agent was at least
patient and listened well. I understand seller's remorse is a thing
but I just don't think that's it, I can't wait to move. I'm worried
she's not working for me but herself and the buyer.

There
is an inspection in a few days and although I'm not totally sure yet,
I'd like to halt things before it gets that far.

Let's
just say I have a bad feeling about this. I might get (her low) asking price
in cash, but I'll have to move fast and I am/will probably
lose money renting from them or somewhere else, also the humiliation
of being treated badly, which will last a lifetime.

Should
I just cave and do it or should I try and start over since I think I
have the time?

Assuming
I can back out of this offer, what do I have to lose? Will it
be hard to just say no I've changed my mind? Does it vary state to
state? How hard will it be to fire my Realtor or should I?

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