Pupdate- finally caught the ears
9 years ago
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Comments (5)It's mine. I think they were having a "Best Yarn" contest here at GW on the 'Favorites' forum a few years ago. I wrote it then & saved it in my "Tidbits and Choice Morsels" file in case I needed it later. This whole forum needs livening up sooo bad ..... I thought it might make someone smile. ;o) Al ... and I'm no Mark Twain! ;o)...See MoreFuture SD took my earrings
Comments (19)gerina: I agree. The ear piercing probably would not go over well with BM. And it would be some what of a reward. Serenity: I think you hit the nail on the head when you said that the stealing is taking back something that they feel was taken from them. They have told the councelor that if I was not in the picture that dad would have tried harder to make things work. They dont know the real reasons why the marriage didn't work they are just kids. They totally want me gone and they dont really even know the real person that I am. I understand why she did it. But now I have this feeling of distrust. I am afraid to leave anything out and yes I have started locking valuable things in the safe. We have a long bumby road ahead of us and the GAL is just not helping very much. Finedreams: I am staring to think that SK's take from the SP becuse they are just that SP's. I talked to my aunt about it last night and she admitted that when her step dad moved in she started taking his stuff. She said she did it becuse she wanted him gone and felt like he was invading their house. I am slowly trying to bond with all 3 kids (i even got a book). When this happend I have to admit I got a bad attitude. The 11Yo is the most vocal about her feelings and out of all of then I thought she woule be the one taht I would be closer too. Now that their dad told them they are not welcome in our room, i am sure that I am really the evil step monster now. Now I am waiting for her to take someting and destroy it that way she wont get caught and wont be humilited by giving it back....See MoreWhoa...I just got an earful!! (Care of elderly relative)
Comments (27)Oh, your last post raised HUGE red flags. The drug situation is very serious. In several ways. Unfortunately, this is another area where I've had very unfortunate experience. My SIL was demanding drs prescribe specific medications (mood elevators, narcotics, etc) to my in-laws. We don't have absolute proof, but there is circumstantial evidence that SIL was stealing those meds and subbing things like aspirin. At other times, she was doping MIL (who has Alzheimer's) up with other people's prescription sleeping pills to make caring for her easier. Then things got really hairy--SIL started stealing from MIL to support her drug habit. I'm sorry to say, we didn't believe a relative could do that--so by the time we got involved and got the courts to do something, SIL had misappropriated over a QUARTER OF A MILLION $$$$ that had been earmarked for MIL's end care. Sadly, your last post is the one that concerns me the most. You have to sit down with your husband and the far-off brother, and discuss what you're going to do to protect your MIL and her assets. Drug users have no conscience--it's the first thing drugs seem to destroy. But they're very, very, very good about scamming their relatives. And it will happen--sooner or later, for more or less $$$. You have a very serious problem on your hands. I'd strongly advise that you engage an eldercare attorney to properly set up your MIL's assets, and I'd further suggest that you and your husband need to sit down with an attorney, lay out the situation you've described here, and find out what you need to do to protect yourselves in this matter. Unfortunately, in our case, we're up over $20,000 in legal and forensic accounting fees, out of our own pockets. That doesn't include the fees that have had to be paid to the court-appointed guardian for managing MIL's affairs properly. While we've managed to stop the stealing, the situation is a long way from being resolved. I truly hope your SIL doesn't go the way mine has--but sadly, it sounds as if she's got no scruples when it comes to feeding her habit. Stop worrying about making her angry--she's USING your guilt to get over on the family. Best to face this now and get the appropriate protection in place, than to wait until you've got an expensive mess to clean up. We're 7 years into our battle, with no real end in sight. Wish someone had opened my eyes in 2002! I'm truly sitting here with my heart in my throat, thnking of the terrible time your family is likely to face. I wouldn't want to put my own worst enemy through the stress and strain we've had dealing with a thieving 'out-law' (I refuse to call her an 'inlaw' any more). My heart really goes out to you....See MoreRecord for 'Swimmers Ear'?
Comments (32)I suffer from Eustachian Tube Dysfunction, I have all my life. If my ear drums are not open I get fluid behind the ears all the time that turn into infections that have also turned into Mastoiditis NOT FUN! When I first started getting fluid in my ears the doctors would give me antibiotics and allergy meds to try and clear the infection and dry up the fluid. They would usually give it about 4 months before they'd tube my ears or my eardrum would rupture on it's own. Finally they realized it would just keep happening as soon as the tubes would fall out if I had them inserted and the eardrum closed back up. I am 46 years old. My right eardrum is completely gone and the doctors have decided to leave it that way. I have to be super careful and wear ear plugs in the shower or if I go swimming. But I am proof you do not have to have an eardrum. My left eardrum was ruptured for a long time and they also chose to leave it but I noticed around the first of the year I was getting pain and that full of fluid feeling where if I tilted my head side ways the fluid would move and the pressure would subside until I righted my head. I recently moved to Florida and had to see a new ear doctor. Even after explaining I knew what I had and needed a tube he prescribed the old antibiotic treatment and allergy meds. It of course did not work. The pain in my ear was getting severe to the point I was in tears walking around with hot compresses on it all the time. I chose to go to a different ent who looked in my ear and sent me right away to Ear surgeon in Tampa. My eardrum had grown back and retracted to the point it wrapped around the small bones in my ear. I had surgery in July to try and unwrap it but the doctor couldn't and decided to put a tube in to see if he can re-inflate. So far it isn't moving so if I go back next month and it hasn't moved the doctor plans to go in and remove my left eardrum and leave it open like my right ear. So I am living proof that ruptured eardrums aren't always that bad, they will grow back and trust me when they rupture you will know it is super painful then all that pressure and pain goes away. If your eardrum does rupture you need to wear ear plugs going into any water because any water that gets in your ear will not be stopped by the eardrum and will go all the way into your ear and can cause a massive infection. My recommendation is if it hasn't cleared up in a month see another ENT. I also have what they call glue ear. My ears drain this crap that sticks inside my ear canal and is super hard to clean off without soaking a cotton swab and loosening the gunk because if you try to clean it dry it takes your skin off....See More- 9 years ago
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