How not to be rude about unwanted food?
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Rude and Noisy Neighbors (Need Solutions)
Comments (7)I thinkdobermom is right they are getting back at you for complaining about the noise mess and bugs. you were with in your rights to complain if roaches were coming in your apartmet because some one else in the building keeps there place like a hog pen. grated they have the right to live how they want and do what ever they wnt when ever they want but those rights end when it effects your rights. that includes your right to live in the clean safe place you are paying to rent and your right to quiet enjoyment. check with you local law enforcement and find out what time load noise is prohidited, usually its after 10pm to midnight on to 6 or 7am the next morning. then when they make alot of noise after that time, say at 12am or 2am call the police on them since they are in general disturbing the peace by violating the local noise ordence and also call the landlord and let them know the police were called and why. if you do that a few to many times you landlord will get tired of it and either let you out of your lease so you stop complining or give the others notice to leave if he is smart....See MoreFoster dogs, rude roommates, and lease renewals
Comments (9)This comes from a true animal lover who as I type have 2 rescues laying at my feet. Lola has to go. To a home that is suitable for her in every way. Your roommates are being selfish and putting their desires above what is best for Lola. That is not love for an animal, that is pure human selfishness. But what's worse, this is a nightmare waiting to happen. And the collective lot of you will be on the hook when it does. I generally have a no pets policy, not the pets fault. Anyway, I relented & broke that policy about 5 years ago for a shepherd mix, sweet & docile as they come, on the condition my tenant secure renters insurance with high liability limits and provide proof of vaccinations. The real problems would have started with my own insurance company had that dog shown any aggression or caused harm to anyone, particularly on the property. I learned through my agent later that many insurance companies (including the one that insures our rental property) maintain a list of 'high risk' dog breeds. (Google and you'll see.) Lola is a combination of two breeds that consistently show up on these lists. This is one reason why more and more landlords are refusing pets. I've since gone back to my no pets policy and there won't be any more exceptions. Lola has already gone after multiple dogs, and dear lord, a child. I know a child who from the age of 3 has gone through multiple re-constructive surgeries to her face after the family pet with no prior aggressive tendencies bit her. Get Lola out of there. You are all sitting on a ticking bomb. One that has repercussions that go far beyond those from breaking a lease or getting booted out or something similar. Lola hurts someone and there is a lawsuit you, every last roommate, and probably your (unenlightened?) landlord as well will be named in it. One that could financially wipe every last one of you out before you even get started in life. And Lola will pay the highest price: losing her life. And if you show your roommates this, and they snicker & don't take it seriously, I'd encourage you to do some googling and research on lawsuits from dog bites as well. You are all probably too young to remember the Diane Whipple case in San Francisco. It gained national attention & has continued to stir heated debates ever since. She was attacked in the hallway of her apartment building by her neighbor's dogs. Ms. Whipple lost her life, as did the dogs, and the owners were charged with murder. On August 23, 2010, the First District Court of Appeal in San Francisco ruled 3-0 that Marjorie Knoller acted with a conscious disregard for human life when her Presa Canario escaped and killed Diane Whipple in 2001. Knoller is serving a sentence of 15 years to life.... In addition to the criminal charges, Sharon Smith also succeeded in suing Knoller and Noel for $1,500,000 in civil damages. Take this seriously. Act now. For everyone's benefit, especially for Lola. It's not worth it. It's just not....See MoreHow to dispose of unwanted Christmas gifts?
Comments (19)Well, for once I agree with Lindac. :>) Especially the bowl of thistles comment. Seriously, though, Bobby, I've been reading your posts long enough to know that you are a very warm and caring person. And even if I hadn't, I would not take your comments here as being ungrateful, calloused, or anything like that. You do sound frustrated, though. Perfectly understandable! I imagine there is not a single one among us here, That has not been in the same situation at some time or another. That is, if they are being completely honest. Your idea of leaving the items on the laundry room table is a good one. No posting on the 'net as with freecycle, No looking for a collections center as with Goodwill, Salvation Army, etc. Not much chance of the giver seeing them there. And best of all, it would be a pretty safe bet that whoever takes them, really wants them. Rusty...See MoreAfraid to Speak up to Rude Adult Stepdaughter
Comments (4)martienne, I do have experience as a step parent to a step daughter who had her first child when she was very young. In fact, she did admit to me just a while ago, that it took her an entire year to realize that she was now a mother. During that first year, she would drop the baby off at our house (her father's and I) and we sometimes didn't even know when she would come back. Dear hubby noticed this but of course would not say one single word about it to his daughter for fear that she would no longer bring the child to our house. He loves, just loves, his grand children and would be ready to do anything in this world for them and his own children. Thus, it is very hard for him to reprimand his children when they are at fault. One day ...i had enough. We had been taking care of the child since the saturday morning and it was sunday night supper time and we still didn't know where the mother was. DH was not a happy guy. I was frustrated. The next time, she dropped off the child, i left. I was gone for the entire day. Came back home late and left again the next morning. Who did she think we were? I left DH with the child. He found it hard. Funny it never happened again that she left the child so long at our house! I think for the first time it his life DH made his daughter aware that he was not very happy with her. So...how about you talk the situation over with hubby. Tell him that from now on if plans haven't been made for these children's visits, that he will be alone with them. Tell him you are not doing it out of hatered but out of respect, that yhou understand his love for his grand children, and that you love them too but you just can't afford to spend time around them when they are sick. Why doesn't he go and visit them at his daughter's house? As far as your step daughter is concerned, i wouldn't even mnetion a word to her about the situation cuz you know it will just become an argument and in the long wrong her father will side with her. Think about yourself, your health. Oh by the way, for a very, very long time, I did not answer the phone at home when i knew it was her calling. I let dear husband listen to her phone message himself. If your step daughter wants anything from your home that used to belong to her mother, just give it to her and be happy about the fact that she will be happy with these things. Don't worry about it. There is a good book someone suggested we read on this web site. It's call the Dance of Anger. It reallly helped me with my relationship with hubby and the rest of his children. Keep posting....See Moreamylou321
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