13 year old girl and ACL surgery
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Comments (8)Very good point justmetoo! To get to the root of the problem you need to find out what is triggering it. Although I'm sorry the whole sex addict thing is a boy for you. I know they all hit pueberty at different ages, have you noticed any physical changes about him yet? Get passwords on that computer just so he doesn't end up costing you $$ but you will never stop him from looking at naked pictures altogether. He will settle for the JC Penny catalogue if he has to. You said he admitted he was on the computer and didn't lie so that itself is a positive thing. I really think he needs someone to talk with, prefferably a male role model. Since it seems he hasn't gotten a grasp on proper behavior. It's not that "sex" is bad/dirty nor is having the uncontrollable hormones he is most likely experiencing.. but these are things I'm sure he's just not comfortable discussing with Grandma. My son is nearly 13 and just starting to go into puberty. my computers are locked down so tight they need me to research breastcancer for school projects. However; I walked into his room the other day to see on the wall a scantily (and I mean VERY scantily) clad model on a motorcycle. I thought about tearing it down but decided against it. Instead I sat with him and asked him why he liked that picture.. and without skipping a beat he looked right at me and said "Mom she's beautiful and that bike is awesome." I realized you know what he's right. She IS beautiful, and the bike IS awesome. And he is searching for some way to make the confusing feelings he is going through "OK" This conversation led into a very open conversation where he opened up to me about feeling different because alot of his friends weren't going through this yet. Granted my parenting style is a combination of old school hard a$$ and new age openess.. Depends on the situation. But in our discussion I admitted to him that there are things he is going to go through that I won't understand and his Dad may have to fill in for me. Surprizingly he told me "nah you'll do ok Mom you've never lied to me before and when it comes to girls if I ask you it gives me an inside track!" Sorry got off track there =) My whole thought process here is your grandson IS at that age. and depending on the issues, alot of it is probably centered around the stage of life he's in at the moment. He needs guidance from someone he can feel comfortable with. He needs to know he ISN't abnormal for feeling those feelings and having those urges. It has to be someone who is comfortable with explaining to him appropriate and inappropriate actions in relation to sex. In my case my husband has a hard time with that he still uses nicknames for bodyparts with our oldest daughter for goodness sakes (she's 21) If you can't look at the child and say the actual word for the sex organ, You are not the one they need to speak with that has been my motto. Be ready to openly disscuss what is ok and what is not and explain in detail why. Kids want knowledge they want to feel normal....See MoreHelp with 13 year old lab's horrible itching
Comments (4)yes, she is pain. I had a pit w/two very bad knees. she was 13 and already had 4 skin cancer operations so I wasn't going to do a knee replacement. anyway, she was on pain meds and I could tell when she was hurting. It got to the point where she could barely stand to go potty and her kidneys were beginning to fail. I ended her suffering. 13 is old for a lab. Sometimes we have to think about what is best for the animal, not us. I hate to see these guys suffer. you want to put her through more pain and chemo treatment and maybe get another 6 months? have you had lab work done on her to see how the kidneys and liver are doing? The tumor is probably irritating the nerves and skin. it must be maddening to her. If you aren't planning on doing surgery then please don't let her suffer. See what the vet says and maybe up her pain meds....See MoreHELP! Sharing a room with my 13 & 10 year old daughters!!!
Comments (4)can you sketch up a rough floorplan? we can't make many suggestions without that. off the top of my head: I would turn the bunkbed so it's against the TV wall. then switch where your bed and desk are. after that, squeeze all of the smaller furniture in wherever it makes sense. then declutter, which will majorly help you just feel better in the space. it looks like there's some stuff that doesn't necessarily need to be in a bedroom. such as that small table with first aid (or vitamins)? and the skates and cleaning supplies? can any of that stuff go somewhere else in the house? is there stuff being stored under the bunkbed that belongs to your parents? move it out so your kids stuff can be stored there. for privacy, is there any way you can DIY a privacy curtain or get somebody to help you with that? it could be accomplished with curtain wires like this, plus some cheap bedsheets or cheap curtains found on amazon. just make sure they're not too heavy. if it's pretty long, you might need to add a support in the middle of the wire with a hook screwed into the ceiling. or check amazon for privacy screens. some of them are really cheap. not beautiful and they don't get stellar reviews, but could work as a temporary solution.this one is only $57:...See MoreHELP! Sharing a room with my 13 & 10 year old daughters!!!
Comments (3)Look into getting a trundle to go under the bunks. That will clear the floor space during the daytime when you're working. You can buy a metal pop-up trundle. If the bunk is too low to the floor for the trundle you find, look into adding feet to the legs. If you find what you need, you can sell your bed to help cover the cost. Maybe your mattress will fit the trundle. You could also make a cheap trundle with rollers on a sheet of plywood topped with your mattress....See More- 10 years ago
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