13 year old girl and ACL surgery
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13 year old child is a FATHER! (Article link w/ pics)
Comments (11)Thirteen year old boys becoming fathers, is not big news around where I live. The difference is the attitude. Many teenage boys think it's "cool" to become a father and a status symbol, and since they are living on welfare and grew up with it, they know that the baby will get benefits too. According to this article the boy did not plan the pregnancy with the girl and none of the quotes from the boy seem to indicate he is proud of this. I think this story made the news because the boy in this situation looks so young. Some boys that age are 6' tall and shave. I'm sure someone at the hospital tipped off the newspaper for a story with photos that is packed with all the shock value needed to sell those extra newspapers....See Moretplo surgery for acl question
Comments (5)My OES had TPLO and was (prior to the surgery) in significantly more pain (and far further gone) than the surgery is suggested for. In short, we had nothing at all to lose, and went into it knowing that there were no guarantees. He's doing really well. We are looking forward to doing his other knee (also well past the cut off for how bad it should be to do). He put weight on it the next day. But I do think he's a pretty rare exception. He was in a great deal of pain prior to the operation and I think he really didn't notice the difference. We were told not to expect weight bearing for two to three weeks, but nothing this dog does suprises me. Despite having bad knees, and advanced arthritis he appears to be part mountain goat. He was not on paid meds (his body will not tolerate any meds, and I didn't want to add violent vomiting to his recovery). I tell this story to emphasize that all dogs are very different. If yours finds it painful (and isn't especially used to pain) that may be why weight bearing is being avoided. But, for your peace of mind it certainly wouldn't hurt to call the vet who did the surgery and ask questions. Also, I wouldn't panic and push the dog to try to put weight on it if she isn't ready. It's not worth the risk of injury. I'm sure the vet can advise you of when it's safe to do so. Our guy's bone showed almost no regrowth at his first x ray (six weeks I believe) and we were in panic mode. When he went back at ten weeks we saw our vet's partner and she looked at the x ray and said, "Wow, that sure healed nicely and ahead of schedule." Just more evidence of how each animal's recovery is different. We have, however, had some difficulty in getting him to bend the leg fully in daily use, and are still doing some physio with him (now four, almost five months after surgery). His function is great, and the pain has lessened greatly, but he runs a bit "funny." We're thrilled with the results anyway. Remember, he was in signficantly worse condition than he was supposed to be to be a candidate for his operation. Good luck to you both. It may take a little more time for your girl, but she'll get there. Take care....See More13 year old looking at Porn
Comments (8)Very good point justmetoo! To get to the root of the problem you need to find out what is triggering it. Although I'm sorry the whole sex addict thing is a boy for you. I know they all hit pueberty at different ages, have you noticed any physical changes about him yet? Get passwords on that computer just so he doesn't end up costing you $$ but you will never stop him from looking at naked pictures altogether. He will settle for the JC Penny catalogue if he has to. You said he admitted he was on the computer and didn't lie so that itself is a positive thing. I really think he needs someone to talk with, prefferably a male role model. Since it seems he hasn't gotten a grasp on proper behavior. It's not that "sex" is bad/dirty nor is having the uncontrollable hormones he is most likely experiencing.. but these are things I'm sure he's just not comfortable discussing with Grandma. My son is nearly 13 and just starting to go into puberty. my computers are locked down so tight they need me to research breastcancer for school projects. However; I walked into his room the other day to see on the wall a scantily (and I mean VERY scantily) clad model on a motorcycle. I thought about tearing it down but decided against it. Instead I sat with him and asked him why he liked that picture.. and without skipping a beat he looked right at me and said "Mom she's beautiful and that bike is awesome." I realized you know what he's right. She IS beautiful, and the bike IS awesome. And he is searching for some way to make the confusing feelings he is going through "OK" This conversation led into a very open conversation where he opened up to me about feeling different because alot of his friends weren't going through this yet. Granted my parenting style is a combination of old school hard a$$ and new age openess.. Depends on the situation. But in our discussion I admitted to him that there are things he is going to go through that I won't understand and his Dad may have to fill in for me. Surprizingly he told me "nah you'll do ok Mom you've never lied to me before and when it comes to girls if I ask you it gives me an inside track!" Sorry got off track there =) My whole thought process here is your grandson IS at that age. and depending on the issues, alot of it is probably centered around the stage of life he's in at the moment. He needs guidance from someone he can feel comfortable with. He needs to know he ISN't abnormal for feeling those feelings and having those urges. It has to be someone who is comfortable with explaining to him appropriate and inappropriate actions in relation to sex. In my case my husband has a hard time with that he still uses nicknames for bodyparts with our oldest daughter for goodness sakes (she's 21) If you can't look at the child and say the actual word for the sex organ, You are not the one they need to speak with that has been my motto. Be ready to openly disscuss what is ok and what is not and explain in detail why. Kids want knowledge they want to feel normal....See MoreACL surgery?
Comments (19)My DD3 injured her knee kickboxing. She had meniscus surgery first, and the ACL done a few months later. The ACL is more intensive in recovery than the meniscus. She had a choice of either grafting the ACL replacement with her own hamstring or the patellar. Because she is more into skiing than other sports, the choice was hamstring. Having the cold cuff was extremely helpful. The surgeon applied it over and under a layer of bandages at the time of the surgery. It stayed on for several days until the first post-op. In the first days we refilled the icebox about every 4-6 hours, leaving it plugged in to circulate the cold water over the recovering area. Just unplug the water tube when going for walks and then plug it back in easily. Recovery from the anaesthetic was not an issue. Pain was manageable and greatly improved after a day or two. Doing the recommended exercises and physio is very important. After enduring not only these two surgeries but shoulder surgery, DD is so looking forward to getting back to skiing after two years off. Good luck to your son!...See More- 9 years ago
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