How to learn patience??
susanzone5 (NY)
7 years ago
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Comments (6)Catrose - I think that "rule of thumb" is meant to apply to climbing roses only. I have seen it in my garden lots of times - the first growth on a new baby climber is small, short canes that sometimes go sideways, and look pathetic. Then they just sit there. Then in a year or two you get the first real climbing cane, which is 3-4 times larger in diameter than those first babies, and goes up like an elevator. I totally agree about the fact that pics of pretty blossoms are not helpful when trying to decide about a rose. If I cannot find pics of the entire bush on HMF, I just google it - you would be amazed how many pictures show up. If that does not work, I ask on here, and some kind person usually will have a picture to post. Jackie...See MoreHumility and patience are painful lessons
Comments (20)As you all know, I 'm not an assiduous forum follower,but seeing as Campanula, like me, seems to be trying to do a very big project on a very small budget, I though I'll throw in my 2 cents. I think the sooner you manage to swallow the Reality Pill, the better it'll be for your wallet. I've wasted an awful lot of money (and worse yet, time and energy) in the 16 or so years that I've been working on transforming a part of my land into a garden. First, it took a while to realize that gardening in the wilds just is too different from gardening in "garden soil"! I'm beginning to think that , for example, direct sowing of seeds may well be impossible for me, at least for several more years,just because there's too much competition from weeds (not to mention brambles and broom and vitalba...)One of the reasons I got so into roses in the first place was that they can hold thier own in some pretty rough terrain. In fact, I'm still at the stage where my focus will remain on woody plants,shrubs and trees. I myself never used herbicide; I always figured that that it was as bad as it's brother "cides",insecti and fungi. I tamed areas of deep bramble jungle by chopping the plants down, and covering them with thick black plastic sheet for a year or so. This year, I'm FINALLY focusing on doing a real mulch job on as much of the cultivated area as I can,using cardboard covered with organic stuff. I'm hoping that over the summer this will tame the weeds enough so that next fall, I'll be able to plant out some perennials among the roses. Eventually I'd love to underplant with perennials as a living mulch... I hope this doesn't sound discouraging; I don't mean it to be so. I think you'll definitely be able to do this, Campanula. I don't follow your threads that much (so please forgive any impertinence), but I gather that your DH and son do help you,and probably in England I imagine that you don't have to worry as much about drought and watering young plants as I do here in Tuscany,so you have several advantages going for you! I guess if I were you, I'd just focus on one small area for my first years' garden,cultivating that, whilst surrounding areas that I was plannig to incorporate into the garden in future I'd begin taming with the chopping/black plastic technique (or whatever other thick screening material you canfind or buy cheaply). Tru, it's not pretty to look at,but you can avoid poisons that way. For the first year or so, you get your Gardening Jollies working on the small cultivated plot, and planning what you'll do with the part that's "cooking" under the plastic. Then, next year or the following, you pull up the covering and can go to it on a larger scale, recycling the covering to do a subsequent area, etc. Good luck,and try not to get too discouraged. "Rome wasn't built in a day" to coin a phrase, lol...bart...See MorePatience with Moondance
Comments (4)A couple of nice surprises, mostly from non-patent/cheap roses! 1) Honorine de Barbant - spelling? Bought on a whim as a cheap body bag, was poorly treated in a pot, then was in the ground and shot out a few long canes - so I moved it against a fence into not the greatest soil. Turns out this is a very-well regarded old rose, does well in poorer soil, and mine has shot out long thin canes covered in lovely puffy pink/burgundy striped blooms - wonderful, I am going to try to root another one. 2)Pink Twilight - an unknown cheap shrub rose bodybag that puts out Austin-like puffy peachy blooms with an interesting licorice scent. I also want to propagate this as I will NEVER find it again. 3)Mirandy - Not so impressive the first few years, was a big one-cane wonder, now regularly throws big burgundy-red full flowers with a fruity smell - an oldie but goody. Yes, I've learned if possible to let roses settle in a bit before you grab the shovel! But some, like the Arizona I had, are such a mess it's a relief to get rid of them....See MoreHow Old Were You When You Learned to Sew?
Comments (76)My mother sewed. But my mother was a psychopath who never wanted me to know how to do anything that she was famous for doing or that might shine a spotlight on me rather than on her LOL. At 13, I took homemaking in junior high. Still can't make white sauce, but once I started sewing, I never looked back! (Interestingly, the only gap in all these years was during my very bad crummy disfunctional marriage. Occasionally the thought has crossed my mind that maybe I married someone who is exactly like my mother.) The summer before my first year of high school, which was ninth grade in my small-town at that time, I got a paper route. Spent all my money on fabric, and made all my clothes for the coming year. I was purdy close to adorable! The outfit that I remember most fondly was dotted Swiss. The blouse had long sleeves gathered into cuffs, & a stand up collar. The fabric was dotted Swiss, white with black dots oh, and the buttons and Lace trim were black. The skirt was black dotted Swiss with white dots. I sewed like a maniac for quite some time. Got married, no sewing for about 5 years as husband demanded constant attention. Almost the instant I was divorced, I made my aunt a green velour robe for Christmas. Then, I had an unexpected expense, seems like it was doctor bills for a kidney infection or something. No spare money, so I took a noonlight job at cloth world. Oh I loved that job! These days, I mostly play with quilting, and lately I've been making tote bags, occasionally out of new fabric but often out of old quilt blocks and scraps. Thanks so much for posting this, it is fun reading everyone else's experiences & re-living my own!...See Moresushipup1
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