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lucy132
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Comments (53)totallyblessed, *blushing* thank you for your kind words! We're building in the San Francisco East Bay. Oh, and don't worry, the photos in my last post are the exact same photos as what was supposed to appear in my first post, you're not missing anything. I'm going to our homesite again tomorrow and I'd like to get more photos taken, as long as the house looks likes it's somewhat progressed from last time! :) krislrob, oh yes, I was SOOO excited to see the roof tiles loaded and very, very happy with the colors (I think there are 10+ different colors/textures total) after all. It was hard putting colors together using the little sample tiles, but I couldn't be happier now that I see it all together! Anyway, yes, our lot backs to a winery that's been there since 1980. A couple of acres is manageable to DIY and viticulture is quite interesting to learn, so best of luck to you both with your future grapes!...See MorePay and Pay and Pay....
Comments (2)sieryn, Beleive me, things will continue going this way if you and only you decided that enough is enough. Been there, had the T-shirt. I've been a step parent for 18 yrs. I've always made more money that DH. Which means, i bought HIS children xmas gifts, i bought the groceries, i bought this, bought that, etc. etc. etc. etc . for YEARS until one day i said enough is enough. I am not saying DH didn't or hasn't contributed to our lives but i was always the one who was the first to spend the money. I stopped this almost one year ago when behind my back he gave his oldest daughter 500 $. Stop paying and it doesn't mean you don't love these children, it means you are not the only one who has the pay for the happiness of these children in your home. As long as you keep doing it, hubby will support you alright! what am I supposed to say? I can't afford to raise YOUR kids and OUR kids by myself???" yep, that's exactly what you are supposed to tell him. Don't be shy. When xmas comes my DH always wants to overspend for his children who are now 19, 20 and 27 - the last one has two little girls. For years, i have been paying for these xmas gifts and again got caught last year when DH asked for 500 $ extra so he could get more gifts. Stupid me ...i took it off my credit card with the understanding that HE would pay it back. I am still waiting for the money and I've mentionned it often to DH. His response is always the same. Well, you know where my money goes and of course you can see that right now i couldn't give the 500 $ back! Ya, ...well believe me, when xmas comes this year.......he will gbe sorry he hasn't paid back the 500 % back yet. I've been telling him that his adult children are of an age now where they don't need five presents under the tree anymore, and money in envelopes, etc.etc. Especially considering they have never, never, never given their father or I in the last 18 years a descent xmas gift. Always JUNK! I've always started telling DH that this year i will not be home for xmas. I am going to the cottage. I don't care if he comes or not but one thing is for sure I don't want to be home with HIS ADULT CHILDREN. P.S. I've also began to have 50$ deducted every two weeks on my paycheck so it can go to a savings account. DH doesn't really like it but who cares. For years and years, i am the one who paid for this and for that for his children and also for things for him. Today, i am thinking more about me.I am so glad i have 400$ to my name. I've already started thinking what i am going to do with it. Perhaps go see Celine Dion in concert next summer! YES" So, all of this just to say ......don't hesitate to start thinking about yourself and your needs and stop thinking so much about his needs and his children's needs! It's not only his ex-wife's fault. It is also a large part your DH fault if you pay for everything. Keep posting....See MoreKD mistake...should I pay for it? (ebse)
Comments (12)What brand are your cabinets? Most stock and semi-custom cabinets just offer the farm sink base cabinet and say "all cutout and trimming of top rail must be done on site". With the manufacturers that I carry (KraftMaid and Medallion), there is no mention of an optional overlay panel. If I were your KD, I probably wouldn't have thought to give you the option either. I do have one on display though, so that helps. This is definitely not the fault of your kitchen designer. With frameless cabinets, I would think maybe you have more of a leg to stand on...since most frameless installs have overlays on fillers...etc. With custom cabinets....this is not even a type of installation or design I would consider for a farm sink. There are much better ways to beautifully install a farm sink. This is the stock/semi-custom cabinet way of doing it. I think that you're responsible for the $85. I think it's great that your KD is able to order you something....it is probably not an optional accessory for this sink base, but rather, it will more than likely be a slab drawer head that she ends up ordering for you. It will be very difficult to cut perfectly...and you will probably have to pull your sink forward some. Did you already get your tops templated?? IF so, that could be a problem....See MoreContractor refused to fix his mistakes unless we pay
Comments (10)Thank you for responding. How elderly? My dad is in his 80's. This contractor knows that my parents are not likely to go to court (at their age). I have done my best to step in to try to get the contractor to fix his mistakes at no additional cost to my parents, but he reminded me that the contract is with my parents, not me. I do need to get on that contract. About the kitchen cabinets, my father wrote to him that there is to be no space above the cabinets. The contractor never discussed anything with us, and suddenly one day those 36-inch cabs arrived and were put up without our knowledge. I then told him about the problem, and he agreed to order taller cabinets. I thought the cabs were being made, but I found out that he never ordered them. The addition was supposed to be finished at that point, so we felt stuck with what was installed. I'm sure he would have charged us for a new set of upper cabs and labor. He made a mistake for the fridge space, and he refused to fix it unless my parents paid. This was holding up installing the appliances and other work in the kitchen. My father felt like he had to pay to get the work going again to completion. I told the contractor that he cannot charge for his mistakes, and his response was: "if you want the changes, you have to pay." This week, a subcontractor was there to do work, and the contractor was not there to supervise. If it were up to me, I would have fired his sorry butt a long time ago. The addition is almost finished now (over 8 months over). This post was edited by grass-cat on Fri, Jan 9, 15 at 10:17...See Morelucy132
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