Unsafe House for Parties
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Comments (17)A story? Well, one of the first things we did was an exercise out of the Not So Big House books: We made a list of the words we want to describe our house. In our case, we had a lot of words about function: Efficient, energy-efficient, good storage. And a lot of words about the "feel" of the house: Cozy, charming, nostalgic, friendly, inviting, light-filled. And words we don't like: Dramatic, modern, impressive, funky, trendy. That's not a story exactly, but it's kind of like setting a goal for how we want the house to work /feel /look. And we're very clear on what we want: A small (1600-1800 sf) house for the two of us after the children are gone, which will be built on our 45 acres of farmland. We want it to be age-friendly and to have all the everyday living spaces on the main level, and we want it all to be easy to clean and low-maintenance. We want every space on the main level to be used every day. We want to have a small upstairs for guests. We want a great outdoor kitchen with ample seating and a small pool. And we want it all to be mortgage-free. That doesn't feel like a story to me; it feels like a goal. Two comments on this thread with which I can really agree: While I believe in electricity, plumbing and even central air...I do love old houses. So while I would never be considered a 'purist' my perfect home would probably be similar to a car build on "Fast and Loud" LOL. I want it to look vintage, I want it to pay homage to vintage....but I want the car to go fast, stop on a dime and have air conditioning :) and I guess our not-yet-finished house's story would be 1920 meets 2014 technology I like the door picture ... but I'd say it's a cottage door leading to a small, picturesque home....See MoreHouse warming party registry
Comments (9)Amanda, I can tell from your nice post that you are sincere about not wanting to look tacky or grabby. So I'm sorry to tell you what I know you don't want to hear: your situation is no different. It may not seem fair that people getting married even if they've lived on their own have registries and single people setting up housekeeping for the first time, who may need things much more, don't. But that's the way it is. Maybe it shouldn't be, but because it is, there you are. Don't put up a registry. It will look awful to many, perhaps most, people. If you need more than most people at a housewarming, then people will know that and be more likely to get you practical items than wine and chocolate and such. You don't have to select the exact items. It's no catastrophe if the dishtowels don't match your curtains. It's true that you know that people will likely buy you gifts. But you don't want to appear too focused on that or try to direct others' generosity. And you write that you hope to marry each other someday -- it will look even worse if you register now and then register again then. If people give you gifts you don't like or can't use, you do the same as when that happens at your birthday. You either use it instead of the item you would have preferred, or you exchange it, or you regift it to someone who would like it, or you donate it to charity, or you throw it away. Some gifts hit the mark, others don't. Too bad. The answer is to accept all gifts graciously, not to try to find a way to preselect them yourself. Congratulations on your new home!...See MoreHow unsafe could house be?
Comments (2)The only way to be certain would be to contact a structural engineer for an inspection. And look into any laws in your state regarding such things as well as a landlord's responsibility to provide a safe dwelling. One would think he holds some liability should the thing collapse, but I know nothing about PA laws....See MorePlant ID party at my house!
Comments (24)Garrett I was checking photos after your post - I don't doubt you have got it correct, just wanted to see photos - and found this info (I am confused even more - maybe you have more reliable source for ID?): Crassula cephalophora - Accepted Scientific Name: Crassula nudicaulis L. - CLICK HERE - Description: Crassula nudicaulis is a perennial succulent plant forming several basal rosettes with glabrous to pubescent leaves collected into a head at the crown of the root and amidst them an annual flower stalk surmounted by clusters of small greenish flowers. The typical variety is a widespread, extremely variable complex of forms that have received numerous unnecessary names, representing no more than local phenotypes. The long-leaved forms are readily known; but those with shorter and broader leaves approach the narrower-leaved Crassula canescens. The pubescence however is much more scanty. Crassula nudicaulis var. platyphylla (Harv.) Toelken: has bluish-grey, broadly oblong to orbicular leaves with marginal cilia. Distribution: mountains bordering the southern Great Karoo....See More- 11 years ago
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