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I'm worried sick about my daughter !!!
Comments (20)dearest Florence.... I am so very sorry for the anguish you and your daughter are going through. I wish a word could wipe away all the tears and the pain. I don't know how else to get through the great heartaches of life any other way than to let the feelings out, grieve, then pick up the pieces and go on with life with each other's support. Even though you are a few hours away, she has a terrific mother & stepfather who will make her feel loved & supported at a time when she feels so low and rejected. I have been in her shoes myself 11 yrs. ago (with 3 little kids) and I had to go through all the stages of shock, grief, anger, betrayal, utter desperation, and loneliness. It all felt so hopeless back then that I remember not wanting to live, but my kids needed me so I had to stop wallowing in self-pity. It seemed as if it would never get better, but in time it did. Somehow we find the strength within ourselves to move past the hurt and one day it doesn't hurt so much anymore. It will take time, and 2 months later it is still raw and fresh to her. Even to this day I have spells where I feel anger towards my ex for walking out of his children's lives like he did....they were so young and had to be raised without a father. I never considered myself a strong person before that happened and didn't see myself ever having the strength to go on, and raise those kids alone. But I did...and my children reinforce all the time that I was an excellent mother and father to them. Please tell your dear Robyn that so many of us do understand what she is feeling, and that she too will survive this....we are all praying for her. I have had quite a difficult week myself and this Thanksgiving Day I find myself without my beloved daughter Grace. That lying, deceitful boyfriend convinced (brainwashed) Gracie to drive all the way to the southern part of Florida by herself 1,600 miles....she left yesterday and drove all day and night and into today...I just got a call from her this evening that she had made it there safely. My heart is broken. I haven't stopped crying. You will recall my long post about how I desperately tried to save her from this con-artist and how she had broken it off with him....or so it seemed. But he convinced her to quit her job and leave the family & friends who love her to move to FL...this was my greatest fear and now it has come true. So here we are, two loving mothers, worried sick about our daughters on Thanksgiving Day. If I could reach across the miles and give you a hug, I most certainly would. I pray for both our girls, and please know that my heart is with you as well. I understand what it feels like to want to make everything right for our daughters, and of the frustration at not being able to do so. Lots of love.... Celeste...See MoreLet me tell you about my grand daughter
Comments (6)9 pound 2 oz little bundle of love. My first. (Like I had anything to do with it) 2 weeks late, typical woman. Mom and Dad are doing fine. They intend to be down for Easter and go to Church with us. All those little old ladies at Church are just drooling to get hold of her.:)...See MoreBrag about my daughter-in-law.
Comments (3)Our grandson was also diagnosed as autistic. He is now 4 and is in several therapies plus has a special needs teacher in his preschool. He's an only child and my DD and DSIL are great parents to this little guy. It is a challenging experience, he is just learning to speak, he's slowly making progress and raising him takes a lot of patience and love. Lynn...See MoreI have a quesion about my daughter's dog.
Comments (18)Thanks Trinigemini. I already do have her on some type of antibiotic (Nitrofurin). It's an antibiotic that she can take daily on a long-term basis, as per my vet. My vet has tried pulse antibiotic treatments, but that didn't work. This seems to work well, and I take her in every few months for bloodwork and urinalysis/culture. The main problem is that she has neurogenic bladder, and cannot urinate on her own (I have to manually express her bladder), and therefore she leaks when it "overflows", hence the incontinence. Also, even though I express her bladder very thoroughly (and 3-4 times a day), I was told that it will never be fully emptied, thus causing the urine left behind to become stagnant. That's what is causing the infections. Ugh....sorry that was so long!! Prairie Love, Yes, continued use of antibiotics (even low dose) is not good. I was told that the Nitrofurin is ok on a daily basis, at least for now. The alternative is kidney failure, if my dog continues to have constant UTI's. However, I have been giving her probiotics (Acidophilus) on a daily basis since she's started taking antibiotics. Thanks for the warning though...I will be seeing my vet next week and will ask him how much longer she will be on the Nitrofurin (that's some expensive stuff too!!! 77 bucks for a 2 month supply)....See Morejim1961 / Central Pennsylvania / Zone 6
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