I don't trust future son-in-law, what should I do?
My daughter is old enough to be his mother. I have no right to butt in to her life, I know that. These are some reasons. He told me he faked his results on a term paper. His parents said they're so glad he has my daughter because "he's crazy and she provides stability". He plays practical jokes on people all the time, to get back at them. He lies all time, just to be funny or to be an instigator. He's trying to establish a relationship with an estranged relative, I believe to acquire an inheritance. He had 2 pet birds that "flew away". He was alone in the house with my pet conure and when he left, the perch which had been tightly screwed on, fell off the cage. My daughter pays for everything. He lives with her, drives her car. Can't pay for things because he's paying off his student loan. She's old enough to make her own decisions, and I don't want to get in the way of her happiness, but I'm so worried for her. I'm getting sick over this and it's hard to plan a wedding under these circumstances.