I had a problem when I didn't correct my card when I got divorced a long time ago. Something about then my earnings didn't get on as my correct name. If your SS is your SS I don't get that. I would think your DOB does make a big difference, too many people with the same name, now when you think there can't be the same SS that's different. I have a girlfriend who knows mine. We lived in a small town and signed up together, hers is exactly one number different than mine. And, because she has a memory she knows what mine is, which direction mine is, up a number or down a number. Good thing she's completely trustworthy because she knows my full name and DOB also:) Too many people stealing identities, it's the honest ones who suffer. I'm sorry for the hassle and I bet it is a big one.

Bunny girl, your meds had me thinking about take one down pass it around LOL...NAH, just kidding. Yes, I do say when it rains it pours and also that in which does not kill us makes us stronger, AND everything happens for a reason. SOOOOOO you hit them all up there LOL. I also say God doesn't put more on us then we can take, BUT God how much do you THINK I CAN take? You bet, I have my moments too. This month has been one for us. BUT we are getting through it and I BLESS the little things like for instance. Yesterday the SO was going to run somewhere and our truck wouldn't start. Well he says, I THINK it is out of gas... My youngest son just happened to break up with he GF this past weekend and is staying here for the time being. So I asked him if he had gas money and would run up to the store to get us some. WELL, while he was gone to the store to get the gas a guy pulls up needing some things done and was wondering if it could be done. IF the truck would have started then the work wouldn't have been able to get done. SO, it was either a blessing or good timing that the truck ran out of gas, and it WAS a blessing it ran out sitting in the yard! WEIRD and amazing all at the same time! I mean, it ran out as soon as he pulled in and turned it off the day BEFORE, in a spot I want him to start parking in NOT where HE usually parks. I think it was amazing AND weird LOL, I said that right? Point is, be thankful for every little detail we get. It is the little things that count and all is well. I will be glad when THIS month is over. I want to get things BACK in order!!! Bunny, I am glad you are starting to feel a little better. I can't imagine NOT being without an A/C unit. I am sure some organization can help with something since you have the kids there, esp little Lilie. I surely HOPE everything is going well for the rest of our group. I tell you some months are more the others aren't they? WOW, I just realized tomorrow is the LAST day of this month!!! Bunny, when you feel like it, will you email me the name of that Daylily Farm close to you? I am comparing prices on different farms before I put in a Daylily order. It is amazing how DIFFERENT some of these places are! I mean from 10.00- 20.00 different on some! Some are only 2.00-6.oo different BUT I am cheap and I want to make sure I get my money's worth and since you shop there they must be a good place. Do they have a website or do you know? If they do if you would email me the link to their site please. THANKS!!! Ok, I am headed off here. I am about to start some more seeds. Hey, I didn't tell you all I almost have ALL my stuff planted did I? YEAP, everything expect for the daylilies, I have them in large buckets until the daylily bed gets done. BUT everything else is basically in the ground. ALBEIT may NOT be where it is staying at least it IS in the flower bed!!! LOL, he told me I couldn't join ANYMORE swaps until I took care of the plants I had sitting around. Well so I did, he DIDN'T SAY I had to put them where they were to be planted he just said to TAKE care of them! SO THERE, whose the smartest of us all? LOL :) Fran

Thank you everyone! I actually didn't have a party per se and it was actually just my parents and best friend (we celebrated on Saturday more or less). My cake was an ice cream cake from Dairy Queen (I took a picture of it, I'll post it later on). We had KFC for lunch and salmon cakes for supper (me and my friend's favorite homemade dish). My mom just picked up a birthday present for me today too (she had to order it): Fried Green Tomatoes At The Whistle Stop Cafe (the book, which as I mentioned before has recipes)! It's been an awesome 21st birthday and one of the best birthdays I can remember in a long time! On Sunday (the day of), my gram (the one who's cooking I've been talking about) and my uncle came up to have a slice of cake. I also planted seeds (I'm doing winter sowing) for my garden this year (hoping to draw in lots of butterflies). Jessy, how do you add your favorite forums to your page? I have more than two that I like lol! Brad AKA Moonwolf

Oh yes, Annie, lemonade would be better for them than soft drinks. It still has sugar in it, but at least not all of the other things sodas have in them. I do drink soda, but I never turn down a glass of lemonade. I'm happy to hear that my Gram's recipe is well liked by your grandchildren :-). Sounds like you need that new beverage container I got from Ginny's lol. Brad AKA Moonwolf