I'm mourning the loss of a very dear, close friend...

15 years ago

Well, really a family member is more appropriate. No more than a couple true "family" members are as close and kind and this companion that I lost last week.

My family wouldn't pick me up when I'm feeling down. Nor would they give me a gentle push and a reminder when I need to pay bills, or get up early for work or even tell me to take out the trash in a kind way!

You'd always make yourself available if I had trouble sleeping. We'd play a game or something. You'd answer the phone for me if I didn't feel like answering and even hang up on telemarketers after telling them off!

Nobody else in my family stood beside me when my shoulders were broken and helped me keep in touch with distant friends. Nor would they help me file my income taxes or even help me fix a computer for someone.

Seldom would complain, never even when the cats would climb all over you and you'd be covered with their fur! You took it all in stride. And actually you'd even suggest to get the litter boxes clean and change the water for the shedders!

You wouldn't even complain that you weren't feeling well. Actually you were doing more and acting more like your old self recently. Such good times we had! I'll miss you so!

Yes, my dear friend, my computer died last week. You had my life in you... almost. My addresses, notes, thoughts, checklists and recently even income taxes!! Yes you were backed up but it's not the same. Especially when the new computer uses Vista and can't read the backup drive....

I guess it's like animals, you should have two around in case something happens to one. Makes it easier to take doesn't it?

Oh well, live and learn. I'll be wearing black for a while. Yes, I'm depressed... :(

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carol_in_california
15 years ago
Oh, what a sad story......I lost my hard drive recently and that was bad enough.
((((((((Cynic))))))))
caroline94535
15 years ago
Cynic, I'm sorry you're sad and I do understand how you feel. ((((Cynic))))

But you're a bad boy, too! LOL I was thinking I should jump in the car and drive to the Cities just so you wouldn't be alone after such a horrendous loss. Then I read the rest of the message.

I can't imagine what I do if my computer died. I need to work on "back ups!"

I take you've gotten a new computer now, since you're posting. Get to know it; speak nicely to it; you'll learn to love it, too.

Of course, my first computer, a 1998 Dell with the first released Windows 98, could compute circles around this prissy thing I use now. I do miss my first computer.
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okwriter
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...you should have two around in case something happens...

That is precisely what I do!

After my first (and LAST) high-$$ Dell died at the age of one, I vowed to never again get emotionally involved with a hunk of parts. It's a machine I use to make a living. Period.
dirt_yfingernails
15 years ago
Cynic, you naughty little devil. You had me going for a while. We haven't gotten around to getting a computer after ours died last year. We do have Dotmom's old laptop to hook up to our old monitor, but I have to reorganize the office first. And we just have dial up service at home, what a pain.
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15 years ago
Oh, that is true grief; I had a problem and posted it at the Computer Help forum, and wondered where you were!
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Cynic, I understand how you feel and I sympathize with you. Maybe your old friend will see my old friend at electronic recycle bridge. Sadly mine will not see me when I cross over, I have some dear, sweet babies waiting for me at another bridge when the time comes. I'm glad to know my old friend won't be alone.

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kris_zone6
15 years ago
My new computer with Vista wouldn't read my backup either. I downloaded Windows NT Backup - Restore Utility and it read my backup, so I could have all my old information.

Here is a link that might be useful: Windows NT Backup - Restore Utility
sue_va
15 years ago
Cynic, go sit on the naughty chair for one minute according to your age in years!! (Ala Supernanny)

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anne_ct
15 years ago
OMG! Do I ever empathize! Been there...done that...and am continually sending prayers up to the computer Gods that I won't have to go through that again for another few years. I now have my entire system "copied" off site on a regular basis to prevent the agony that you're going through trying to copy to Vista.

Loved your presentation, Cynic!

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cynic
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15 years ago
It's amazing how reliant so many of us get on these things! Yes I have a new one and getting it organized a bit. I haven't buried my old friend yet. I'm going to see if a heart transplant can bring life back. Been wanting a second one anyway. I have plenty of machines around I could get a desktop put together but the notebook is so much more convenient. The worst part is how it happened two days before I needed to head out of town for a picnic. And of course all planning, checklists, etc, were in there! So my memory got tested. But I survived it and had a good time. Used some of the time at the motel to download some of the huge files too. 135mb just for Windows updates. Then of course antivirus, spyware programs, etc.

Thanks all for the kind words. But the reminder for building a "naughty chair" is in the old computer so it'll be a while before that'll happen! ;)

I'm getting some thunder here so I suppose I'd better log off. Don't need the new one to get zapped.
joyfulguy
15 years ago
cynic,

I feel for you in your current distressing situation.

Finding it difficult to find you ... in the dark.

ole joyful ... with a couple of vintage computers here on the desk ... both with white beards

P.S. Do you recommend two wives, as well? (In case one gets her back-up)?

o j

P.P.S. Still sorry that I missed you ... and other MN friends ... on my recent trip.

o j

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