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I lost my job today

17 years ago

I don't know what else to say... I'm soo, soo, sad.

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donna_loomis
17 years ago
And I'm sad for you too, Nicki. Times are tough, but so are you. I hope you find something soon. Hugs.
shellm
17 years ago
I am so sorry to hear this,Nikki.I know you have had some rough times lately.I hope something better comes along,very soon.Hugs to you.

Shelley
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trishaw
17 years ago
Oh my gosh Nikki! I am so sorry! You will find a much better job soon.

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sheilajoyce_gw
17 years ago
So sorry to hear your news. Sign up for unemployment as soon as you can, and good luck on a job search.
aprilflower
17 years ago
I'm sorry for you too, Nicki. I'm sending all of the positive thoughts I can muster your way. Good luck and keep us posted.
susan_on
17 years ago
I'm sorry, I hope you find something better real soon.
grammahony
17 years ago
Hang in there Nicki. I hope you find something soon.
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cwnev
17 years ago
I am sorry to hear this.
I know you have done retail in the past and I know of a great site, that might find a job that will fill in till you find THE job. www.narms.com

you go to the job search and what type of job you like. Things are listed by state.sales,merchandizing,all kinds of jobs.
I have found a few jobs through this site.

Here is a link that might be useful: Job search site.
bee0hio
17 years ago
I am so sorry. I know it has to be devastating.

I really know nothing about this but the barest of info, just seeing little ads on news sites, etc & I hope it IS true (not a scam) .... something about Pres.Obama wanting working moms to go back to school to further their education or get training. Perhaps there are some incentives? Maybe you could do a web search to check into it further?

I wish you all the best & truly hope good fortune is right around the corner for you Nicki.
caflowerluver
17 years ago
Sorry to hear about it. I hope you find something you like soon. DH got laid off 6 months ago and is still looking.
Good luck.
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azzalea
17 years ago
I'm sorry to hear that.

A suggestion. When you sign up for unemployment, be sure to look into what programs are available for retraining--often courses at the county college. Sometimes, you can get free tuition if you're on unemployment.

Even if you can't get your courses paid for, why don't you consider taking an apprenticeship program at your local community college? You work during the day (getting PAID) and take classes in the evening. If you can get into a program like that, the college will help place you in an appropriate work situation. The pay probably won't be great to start with, but it's a step, and after a couple of years, you'll be qualified as a professional. Some of the apprenticeships our county college offers are things like: opticianry, paralegal, and other para-professionals. Good way to get a career and earn money while you're studying. And this is a good time of year to look into enrolling for fall. Good luck
mcmann
17 years ago
Nicki, I am so sorry that happened. I don't have any job suggestions that haven't already been mentioned. I hope you find something that you like soon. You never know when something might turn up.
caroline94535
17 years ago
I'm sending positive thoughts your way!
gneegirl
17 years ago
I hate to hear this type of news, from anyone. I am so sorry. After having been through this several times, and most recently, when the country decided it was in recessesion, I truly feel for anyone going through this now. Sending best wishes for something to come your way soon. Keep your strenth and your courage, and your faith.

gneegirl
vicki_lv
17 years ago
(((Nikki))) See your facebook.
lydia1959
17 years ago
So sorry Nicki. Hope something better comes along soon.
Mickey15
17 years ago
(((Nicki))) Saying prayers that you find another job soon.
Tammy
Pieonear
17 years ago
Oh Nicki, I am so sorry. I was hoping things were turning around and now this. Hugs, Mammie
clubm
17 years ago
Sorry to hear you lost your job. File for unemployment
asap you are entitled to it you paid into it.
glenda_al
17 years ago
Best of luck!
Silverdove
17 years ago
Best wishes, and I hope you find another job.

Where are you located?
joann23456
17 years ago
I'm sorry to hear that, and I hope you find a new job soon.
williamsburgjane
17 years ago
Sending best wishes and lots of good luck to you!
margad
17 years ago
What a shame. Hope you find a better job very soon.
joyfulguy
17 years ago
Hi Nicki,

Sorry to hear your bad news.

I send good thoughts and hopes that you'll find suitable employment soon.

Plus a prayer or two as well.

(((((Nicki)))))

ole joyful
samkaren
17 years ago
Nikki

I feel for you. My DH has been looking ever since we moved to the country. It's rough all over but hopefully you (and everyone who is unemployed) will find something soon.

SamKaren
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lunchlady1948
17 years ago
AWWWW Nicki I am so sorry:(
gingertn
17 years ago
Thinking of you Nicki. I hope you're finding some potential positions, I know these are hard times. Hang in there.

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