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Comments (17)This happens SOOOO often. Truly, your interior designer should have been very aware of the possibility -- nay, probability that this would happen. In fact, it happens so frequently that he/she should have made specific provisions to prevent it, such as taking delivery of the slabs to a location under his/her control in the interim. My concern is that the wholesaler and fabricator have very little incentive to make this right. They've already got 50% of your money, and you have 0% of your product. So they're trying to convince you to pick another granite and 'go away'. Now I know you've fallen in love with a particular stone. That happens a lot. In fact, that seems to be the necessary precursor to the 'sold out from under you scenario.' But it's probably a good idea to see if there is something you like better. Why? Well, the ship, when it does come in, may not have any of this particular stone. Or if they do, there's NO guarantee it will be similar to the slabs you fell in love with. It might be -- but they're not offering any guarantees. My suggestion would be to look around again. You might find something very similar under a different name. Or, you might find something you like even better. (That also happens very often.) OR - and this is where things get interesting - you might find something at their yard that you like almost as much that is significantly more expensive. And this is what you agree to settle for, assuming they can't find what they agreed to provide for you. Then you'll see them start to hustle....See MoreWhat would you do in this situation?
Comments (27)i'm back. been a long day of telephone calls and tears. she said she will not be taking them back. she's come to the realization that she can't help them because they really haven't helped themselves. one positive thing, someone from her church sent someone to talk to her - not sure if this was a lawyer or a from a child agency (i'm getting some mixed info). she actually said "i have to realize the little ones kids are not my responsibility". i thought that was a big step. (we know how she means that, so don't think by not making calls to social services or the like, is what she meant). both are in school, first and third grades. she has talked to teachers, one plays sports - so his coach, etc., and no one ever thought neglect for a minute. even though the parents might be smacked azzes, they have not neglected the boys in the true sense of neglect. and she would know neglect, if you knew her story as a child. so i thank you all for your thoughts. earlier when i spoke to her, she cried when i read many of the posts and said after a while "that's enough, that's enough, i know, i know", i've heard it from all of you, i heard it from XXXX visitor. when i said do you really believe in what you are saying and she promised she did. a relative is on his way to her, he has a business trip mid week and is making a little side trip to stay for a few days and see what he can do to aid them in finding housing. she made it clear that they will not be returning and he will be with her and whoever this person was that visited earlier, so that they hear it face to face and there's no confusion. this woman is wonderful, with a heart as pure as gold. it's not the first time she has extended that heart and probably won't be the last. it's her nature. this one was hard given the circumstances of her family and the promises made. i know her heart is breaking, but i can also hear a certain relaxed manner about her knowing she has made the right decision. thank you all again....See MorePBs please help - what would you do?
Comments (7)Thank you very much for the feedback. A liitle more info on the situation-I did not request any particular placement on the foam jets and did not request the Crystal ones at all. I'd seen numerous comments on this site about kids enjoying playing in jets on sun shelves so I asked the PB about putting something like that in for my grand daughter. PB sold me on the idea of the Crystal ones so she wouldn't have problems with hitting her toes on the normal type. It took some convincing me on his part since they were considerably more expensive. So, the placement and type were totally on the PB. I looked at the Crystal website the day before the dig began and saw the limitation on water death and contacted the PB to discuss it and was told he forgot about that limitation but would adjust the plans before they began. Apparently that did not happen since the final level of water on them was even more than shown on the first plan. I don't want to complain about PB though because they have done a fabulous job and seem very willing to fix this problem. I just want to make the best decision on how I want them to attempt to fix it. Tearing it out seems drastic but my understanding is they would have to do that even to change them to the normal type foam jets. Just one more request for advice please - if they do tear it out would you take the chance on using pebble tech and hoping it matches or would you use flagstone on the sun shelf so you don't have to worry about it matching?...See MoreWhat Would You Do in This Situation?
Comments (7)What would it take to be licensed again. My hubby's ex is a nurse and has "retired" several times. Currently she lives in Idaho and attended training for something she calls emergency comunity nurse. She will be called is there is a emergency that needs a nurse. Did not go into details but one of the things she might be called for is forest fire work to check the fighters. Last winter she gave flu shots. One of the other things she does for extra money is work as a private duty nurse. There are other things in that field that do not need the license such as providing information and training to others. Interesting that the other poster mentioned Walmart. Last week we were in one of the stores and the checker mentioned that she was 73 and going back to work was much better than staying at home. If you have already passed the regular SS retirement age any income you may would be gravy. I have not worked with a temporary agency for a long time so do not know how they treat there employees currently. If you did a good job no matter how trivial some assignments could last a long time. Much better than staying at home worrying about not having enough money to live on. Hubby goes to the Y with a group of mostly older women that are in better shape now than they were at 65. He received a reminder today that one of the mermaids will turn 90 next week and to bring a card or goodie to water arobics next week. So you see life does not end at 65 sometimes it only feels like it. Good luck and get out there....See MoreWindows on Washington Ltd
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