Gift card shower?
Djc12
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Comments (10)Concerning gift cards, be sure to check to see if they have an expiration date (many of them actually do!). If you have a daily-reminder wall calendar, mark the expiration dates down. I'd put a note on, say, 6 months in advance and other sporadic dates saying "You have a $50 Borders card to use up!" so that they remind you that you've got them tucked away and need to redeem them. There's nothing worse than realizing too late that you've lost out on $50 of shopping power. For all those store "preferred customer cards," here's what I do. Most of them I put on a keyring. For cards I use frequently that didn't offer a keyring version, I punch a hole in the corner (away from the bar code or swipey strip). In my purse, I also carry a small rectangular zip pouch that I carry coupons, receipts, paint chips, etc. in, and I tuck in most of the other cards I have and the Bed Bath & Beyond 20%-off coupons (I never shop there without one!). Sometimes I'm tempted to just leave that pouch in the glove compartment (as long as none of those receipts have my full credit card number on them!), so it's there if I need it. Always happens that if I leave the pouch at home, that'll be the time that I need something in it....See MoreMy Shower
Comments (6)"f you don't need gifts, then don't have a shower. Ah, but you aren't the one having a shower--your MOH is having it FOR you. "all the things"--by "things," do you mean: a shower, a bachelorette party, people asking you about your dress, etc.? Or do you mean pots and pans, specially chosen china, crystal, etc.? Since gift cards are your solution, since you don't need stuff, I'm betting that you mean you want to have some time when you're the center of attention, and your friends and family fuss excitedly over you. What a very understandable desire! I think all brides SHOULD have people fuss over them, and I'm tickled that you have a friend who wants to. That means you can enjoy it instead of wishing someone loved you enough to bother. However, i think I'm the person who said, gift cards aren't much fun at a shower. So.....register for gifts! Give your hostess & other friends some ideas! Or, let them pick a theme that will influence gifts (the way an "around the clock" shower does). Trust your friends and family to know that you have an established household. And enjoy the surprise that comes each time you open the present. (that's part of the fun of showers, and Christmas--the surprise. Sure, you'll get some "misses," but that's part of the fun, to me) Maybe it would be nice to choose a china pattern, and end up with really nice things that remind you of that time every time you serve a special dinner. Or maybe it would be nice to get fresh things, given with great love behind them. New sheets, in a new color scheme to mark a new time in your lovelife? So, just let your friends throw any kind of shower they want--let even the theme be their gift to you, and bask in their attention. And, stop trying to micromanage the guests at your shower or wedding. "If the host of the shower is called for ideas they can say you're all set and suggest a gift card" This seems even ruder, actually--if you're all set, then why is she throwing a shower for you? Why not a tea or luncheon? I think you should register for at least a few things, and you should give your considerate hostess a list of ideas she can pass on if asked--that your decorating style is modern or country or Victorian, what color your bedroom is and whether you have a queen-size bed, how big your dining-room table is, whether your towels are starting to wear out, or that you really want to concentrate on the garden next year and would love plants from the nursery, or power tools. what does it mean that it's an "out-of-state shower"--you'll have to travel TO the shower? There's a theme--a shoebox shower. Your hostess can point out that you'll have to travel back w/ the presents, and that it would be fun if each item they give you would fit inside a shoe box. Or that the total accumulation of them fits inside a shoebox, or something. They may think of gift cards on their own then, or maybe they'll buy you a neat gadget, or something....See MoreHelp! I don't want to offend guests
Comments (5)I agree with the other posters (and I'm touched by the use of "Cuthbert"! :-) ) MOTB14, search this forum for strings on the idea of gift card showers (mostly negative, I'm sorry to say) and on the problem of showers for brides who have to travel and/or move. People have written a lot about these topics. In a nutshell, many people dislike "gift card showers" because they seem too close to a "cash shower" and because they are very boring to attend. Avoiding the boredom by skipping opening the gifts in the guests' presence is even worse -- then it's just an admission charge. (I realize that many people consider watching someone open gifts to be boring, too! But that's what a shower is.) At my daughter-in-law's shower, in her home town, most of the gifts came from her registries at 2 big stores with branches in most cities. Both stores were very happy to help us: her mom and I simply took the gifts back to the 2 stores in that city, and the stores shipped them -- free -- to the city where the couple lived. (Our original idea had been to return the items for store credit and then for the couple to use the credit to buy the identical items at the branches in their city, but the stores for some reason preferred to ship.) In your situation, I wouldn't worry about it. Anything that is too hard to ship and that they don't need to have immediately can stay at your home or someplace until they move back from Hawaii. My kids still have plenty of stuff at my house (including a couple of wedding presents). But the bottom line is, don't over think this. Most people have a few little problems moving stuff from one place to another, and that's just the way it is. Don't make your guests be the ones to solve it. (One poster even asked if she could ask the guests to pay for shipping!) http://ths.gardenweb.com/forums/load/wedding/msg0309412323245.html (this one even includes a post involving a move to Hawaii) http://ths.gardenweb.com/forums/load/wedding/msg120914427306.html http://ths.gardenweb.com/forums/load/wedding/msg0500440511886.html...See MoreGift Cards good both in the U.S. and Canada?
Comments (15)Thank you so much for all your ideas and suggestions! After some research DH and I settled on an Eddie Bauer gift card. Eddie Bauer honors its cards both in the U.S. and Canada, regardless of where the card was purchased. The brand definitely fits the young couple's active, outdoorsy style. Eddie Bauer also sells luggage and outdoor gear which is a big plus. Need I add that my friend and her man chose to have an outdoor BBQ wedding in a nature park? Casual dress - T-shirts, shorts and sandals are fine. Besides, I liked the message on the gift card!...See Moreashleyrourk_vpsb_k12_la_us
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