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This Was A Helpful Resource For Me

18 years ago

I won't post a lot, but this is something I've been wanting to share.

I was only 23 when I got divorced and my little one was 3. I searched for anything and everything to help me through this tough time. I somewhat had the support of my family, but it was a very tentative support, and I was feeling guilty sometimes even when I knew in my head I was doing the best thing for my son. About 6 months after my divorce was final, I was in a Christian bookstore one day looking for a different book in a whole different genre and I came across "The Smart Stepfamily: Seven Steps to a Healthy Family" by Ron L. Deal. Now I know that there are a lot of books out there on the subject of blended families, but this book made more sense to me than anything I had ever read. It's helped me in both being a GF and a FSM and in being a BM and dealing with BD and all that comes with him (GF, grandparents, uncle and so on). His words put some reality into those dreams that I had and why things weren't turning out like I wanted them to.

I just wanted to share it with all of you in case you hadn't heard of it. It may help some families and it may not help others. I have included the URL to Amazon's site as well as a review.

http://www.amazon.com/Smart-Stepfamily-Seven-Healthy-Family/dp/076420159X

http://www.successfulstepfamilies.com/view/60

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