Well, that wasn't as hard as I thought it would be!

16 years ago

Friend, who lost her DH, three weeks ago, invited me to meet her for lunch.

We talked about Steve, laughed about pleasant memories, and let her share whatever she wanted.

Hasn't been alone, since Steve died, so she's going to the cottage, by herself for couple weeks. To write thank you notes, get her thoughts together and have a time to grieve.

Kinda dreading the meeting, but it went to well. We are comfortable with eachother. Guess that is why we are friends!

You been in a situation you kinda dreaded facing?

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cheri2008
16 years ago
Yes, I'm afraid it will be comming up soon. We own a rental home,we just purchased it about year and a half ago, and rented to a couple that have had many tragic events. A year ago husband had a good job, she was working, shortly after he lost his job.. she then lost her job. and just a month ago the're 10 year old son died suddenly.. they are really good people, and they have been taking excellent care of the home, but currently they are $5000.00 behind in rents.. We are making payments on this home, and we cannot continue to do so without some rent comming in, so we will have to ask them to leave.
glenda_al
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16 years ago
How sad about your tenants BUT I certainly understand why you have to ask them to leave.

Something I have a hard time doing is confronting my DS when I have an issue and need to have a discussion with him. Most times, I tend to dwell on the matter and let it slide on by.
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carol_in_california
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Glenda, you did your friend a great service. It is difficult but it means so much to the person who has lost a loved one.
Just by listening and by being there is what matters most.
Good job!
glenda_al
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Thank you, Carol!
lynn_d
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Being a friend during the good times is easy. Being a friend during the bad times is the true sign of friendship, you done good Miss Glenda!
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Glenda, I applaud you for reaching out to your friend. You are one of the good ones!

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