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What are you looking forward to?

17 years ago

My dad put more emphasis on having fun than making sage pronouncements, but he said a number of things I took to heart. One of them was that in order for people to be happy, we had to have something to look forward to, both short- and long-term.

Last night, trying to sleep, I started thinking about a friend I had talked to earlier in the day, a person who handles money poorly and is always in debt. I told myself, No, you don't want to think about his mess right now! Then I thought about a situation at work--not a good idea either. So I asked myself, What are you looking forward to? My immediate answer was my new washer and dryer arriving tomorrow. Ah, the things that make us happy! You can tell my life is pretty low key these days. :-)

So what are you looking forward to?

Susan

Comments (55)

  • 17 years ago

    Short term, we have friends coming at the end of the month, I'm looking forward to that. Longer term, a week at the beach at the end of May, that will be glorious! Then 2 weeks in CO in Sept. So we have a lot to look forward to.

  • 17 years ago

    I'm looking forward to spring/summer and spending time in my garden. It was only a few months ago that I thought it would be impossible and now I already have veggies out there growing ...I also have a little rabbit that comes in every night and has his dinner ...buffet style.

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    I'm looking forward to my son coming home from college today for two days.

    I'm looking forward to our vegetable garden and being outside in short sleeves!

    I'm looking forward to going home to Texas sometime this summer.

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  • 17 years ago

    I am looking forward to doing a KT Texas Tour hopefully by the end of April.

  • 17 years ago

    It is very critical to have something to look forward to, even just a small thing. I think people who are depressed, like people in nursing homes, often are that way because they have nothing to look forward to.

    I have lots to look forward to, little and big. Planted carrots and onions yesterday. Looking forward to seeing a harvest.

  • 17 years ago

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  • 17 years ago

    I'm looking forward to March 21st because I'll be home from the hospital & starting rehab after knee replacement on March 17th. I'll be so glad when it's over!

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  • 17 years ago

    okwriter--Friday is also my mother's birthday, she will be 84. I wonder if she'll know who I am next year.

    I'm looking forward to going to Shawnee on Friday. It's going to be 80 degrees.

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  • 17 years ago

    Looking forward to spring, gardening, and eventually getting that kidney transplant. I got two letters from my insurance that they have approved the transplant. The date is "to be determined."

  • 17 years ago

    I looking forward to being able to go to the cabin, and getting my bluebird trail going for the spring/summer. It won't be long now. Also the return of my Purple Martins.
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  • 17 years ago

    Oh yah, I forgot to add my little flying jewels, the hummingbirds. I want to find some red flowers to set out for them.
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  • 17 years ago

    Oh, there is so much to look forward to! First, spending the weekend with my husband--we'll be planting some apple trees. I am also looking forward to grilling some really good steaks Saturday, and serving them with a new spinach lasagna recipe I found on the cooking forum. Transplanting our tomato seedlings from 4" pots to quarts, checking on the peas coming up, and harvesting lettuce and broccoli this week (my husband would argue about harvesting broccoli as being something to look forward to, but we eat a lot of veggies). I also look forward to going to the coop and seeing how many eggs the ladies have given us.
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  • 17 years ago

    I'm looking forward to Spring/Summer.

  • 17 years ago

    My dad is 83 today, still in good health and I wish I could look forward to his moving out here to join us. But it is going to take a stick of dynamite and a come-along to get him out of his rut. That said, I look forward to spring and planting, a trip to visit dad in June, taking my grandson this time. I'm hoping that seeing great grandson will get him moving to spent time with us. Told dad I would take up golf if he moved out here. And trust me, that is a HUGE committment (sp?) on my part-I hate golf!

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  • 17 years ago

    short term, I get to see my "practice" grand daughter this weekend

    this year, I get to be grandma for real in May!

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  • 17 years ago

    Spring!

    Grandkids :-) Right now I've got step-grandkids (I married them :-) but would love some of my very own!

  • 17 years ago

    I have lots to look forward to...and enjoying it all!

    Saturday, the girls & I are going wedding dress/brides maid dress shopping...just a great mom/daughters day for us! Don't plan to buy anything...just look and have fun trying things on! (unless there is that "Great Bargain" out there!!)

    Tuesday we meet at the place the kids will be married at to finalize some things.

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  • 17 years ago

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    (((Okwriter)))

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  • 17 years ago

    Tomorrow, going shopping for Nikko hydrangeas, Leyland Cypress, river birch trees and drake elm trees. That is my list but I will buy others things that look good.
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  • 17 years ago

    I'm always looking forward to something; many concurrently with different time frames.

    Right now I'm looking forward to going home ay 4 pm today.

    Looking forward to the weekend. Two days off!

    Looking forward to the warm weather ahead!

    Looking forward to going on a week's vacation at the Jersey shore in July!

    Looking forward to DD#1 & her husband finding a house at a reasonable price and giving them a hand with any plumbing, electrical or carpentry issues.

    Looking forward to retirement. A minimum of 3 years, 3 months when I turn 62; maximum of an additional 6 years which will mark 50 years service (I like round numbers).

  • 17 years ago

    I'm looking forward to my fabric order arriving so I can plan my next quilting project. I just started quilting a month or so ago and I'm so loving it!!

    I'm looking forward to seeing my G-baby this weekend. He's almost 15 months old and he has my heart in his hand.

    I looking forward to a life changing decision I made to RETIRE this July 1st. I made the announcement yesterday in my staff meeting...so it's offical. I'm so excited I feel like jumping out of my skin, then I get scared...then I get happy again. But it sure feels good to be headed into another phase of life after 40+ years in the workforce!!

    Susan

  • 17 years ago

    I just had to comment that we, as a group as well as individuals, all have so many things to look forward to and so much to be thankful for.

    Thank you Susan for a really great exercise in positive thinking! This is a wonderful thread!

  • 17 years ago

    Absolutely nothing (sorry jel). At least nothing exciting. But I was looking at air fares earlier and they're very low so who knows, I may have something to look forward to in the near future.

  • 17 years ago

    I was going to say, "Not much" ... then thought ...

    Picking up my new computer with son this afternoon - I had trouble with it the other day, as it would sometimes print letters that I didn't want.

    It appears that I had inadvertently punched a key that turned it to a French keyboard ... for a while ... then punched it again, I guess, to make it work " ... the way it should have".

    Life has its interesting moments.

    Hope you're having an interesting day.

    ole joyful

  • 17 years ago

    I am looking forward to nice weather so I can get to know the new neighbors. I liked Mr. and Mrs. immediately, and fell in love with their two children. It will be really interesting to have those two around when I am out in the yard. The girl is 2 1/2 and the boy almost 6. They have made me think about what it would be like to have grandchildren. Their maternal Grandma is many hundreds of miles away. Maybe I can fill that void a little for them.

    I am also looking forward to my 50th high school class reunion in June. There is a website set up for all the classmates to register on and let everyone know what they have been up to these last 50 years. It has been a lot of fun so far.

  • 17 years ago

    Short term: a sunny day. However from our forecast for the next 7 days, this might need to be in the Long Term catagory.

    Another short termer: Tonights AI episode. I didn't watch it each night because I get frustrated with waiting - so I TiVoed them this week and when I have them all, it's a binge night of AI! :)

    Long Term: I planted a bunch of peony bushes. I'm just dying to see them start to poke through the ground, I've never had one before.

  • 17 years ago

    Right now I can hardly wait until spring.....the sun is shining and it's a fantastic 43º out there now. I want to get my hands in the dirt. I've done some winter sowing, but I want to do some seeding under the lights so that should satisfy me for a while.

  • 17 years ago

    I'm looking forward to my trip to Halifax at the end of June to help celebrate my aunt and uncle's 60th anniversary.

    Then our school's reunion in July. Then spending Christmas with my sister and her family in Ontario in December.

    Short term? The morning I don't have to get up and go to a meeting or some other obligation so I can sleep in. I think it's Monday, March 16th!

  • 17 years ago

    I'm looking forward to a trip to New Brunswick with my dad this summer.

  • 17 years ago

    looking forward to the economy comming back, and I'm sure in time it will. We want to retire and are waiting for property value to come back, we will then sell out, we have several pieces of comercial properties, including our buisness we are currently in, We still owe money on this one so we have to keep the doors open, happily we are not loosing money, mostly just staying afloat. Planning for 3 to 5 years being able to sell and be gone...

  • 17 years ago

    Looking forward to good friends coming for lunch/visit tomorrow. They're so sweet. They moved back to Cleveland two years ago but spend a little time here in FL in winter.

    Next week one of my sisters and DH will visit for an overnighter, I hope. They are taking a well-deserved week off and coming to FL. I really hope it works out they can come, but DH is having surgery to replace his pace maker on the 11th. Sure not looking forward to THAT!!!

  • 17 years ago

    Looking forward to get Makayla and Kaden tomorrow (Friday) and
    having them stay with until Sunday evening. They have not been here
    together for the weekend since the holidays.
    I will be taking a lot of pics and sharing them with everyone!
    Deb

  • 17 years ago

    I'm looking forward to our trip to San Diego in 3 weeks and 3 days (but who's counting!)

    I'm looking forward to getting a good job.

    I'm looking forward to my DD's psoriasis going away.

    I'm looking forward to my DH getting a transfer back to Texas.

  • 17 years ago

    Real short term, having coffee with a friend tomorrow, haven't had a chance to catch up with her many weeks. We're both in exciting places in life, starting new chapters, with me about to start my long awaited career, and she finishing her degree after a long wait.

    Sooner or later... having my own classroom! I think I'll cry with joy. *I'll* be ready in about 8 weeks, one last test to take March 28. Application is in, resume is written, getting some feedback, soon to be sent/taken to schools. I don't know if the school district is ready for me... there is a hiring freeze for now. Even the new schools are getting their teachers from other schools in the district. Still... it's something to look forward to!! ;o) (That's a really big grin!)

    And I'm looking forward to buying some new books for that future classroom next week at our school's bookfair. I've been saving up for this! I love the bookfair. I look forward to the day I'm working at it next week and get to help children choose books.

  • 17 years ago

    I'm looking forward to tomorrow.

  • 17 years ago

    Ont_gal, is anything special going on tomorrow?

  • 17 years ago

    I'm also looking forward to tomorrow...hope to go home from the hospital. Although I still feel lousy.

  • 17 years ago

    Warm weather, walked to the parking lot today after work, had training and an 8 hour day today. It was about 50 today.

    Looking forward to April 1st so I can start parking in the parking structure across from work. No more waiting on the shuttle bus, having to move my car in the evening or hoping it's not towed on stupid UK game weekends.

    Also looking forward to our trip to Germany in four months!! It's been over 19 years since I've been there.

    I signed up for an obesity seminar for medical people. It's in a couple weeks. I'm going for myself and to learn something to maybe help my patients.

  • 17 years ago

    I'm looking forward to getting the room addition done. They poured the concrete and piers today.

    I'm also looking forward to seeing my DD tomorrow. This week she has suffered her first heartbreak. Dumb boys. :-)

  • 17 years ago

    No Susan....I just look forward to each day in the hopes that its better than the last

  • 17 years ago

    Spring and summer.

    I'm looking forward to having the grand dogs stay with us later this month.

    I looking forward to some Red Hat outings we have lined up.

    I also have a friend working toward a difficult goal I hope he reaches. I'm looking forward to sharing his joy at his achievement.

  • 17 years ago

    I've enjoyed reading all your responses--thanks!!

    Now I'm looking forward to a visit from my granddaughter. She's spending the night tonight. We'll either stay home and watch a movie or attend the "First Friday" art exhibits in town. (She's 18.)

  • 17 years ago

    I just got back from visiting my daughter and her family for 10 days in Florida and I'm looking forward to possibly going back the end of April to celebrate #3 grandson's 11th birthday. Maybe the weather will be warmer then!

  • 17 years ago

    Short term:
    Going to my oldest son's for dinner on Saturday

    Long term:
    Going to Las Vegas to see my grandkids in July!!!

  • 17 years ago

    I'm looking forward to warmer days.

    I'm looking forward to some free time during my spring break to be creative!

  • 17 years ago

    Ground still frozen - but need to plan starting seeds - not enthused about picking green tomatoes in the snow.

    Looking forward to enjoying using new computer (not just another of son's cast-offs).

    Need to check training for, and needs, regarding volunteer income tax preparation program.

    I have one friend's to do, at the moment.

    ole joyful

    P.S. Also, lacking a house - investments regaining at least a portion of their former glory (those that had developed any, earlier).

    o j

  • 17 years ago

    ST Patrick's Day!!! Then after that, the warm weather and summer weekends at the Jersey shore. In the future, a wonderful winter holiday season, since I spent this last one in bed mostly.