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Comments (68)When mr. sandyponder and I got married we were both 40, had good jobs, owned our own homes and had all the stuff we ever needed, so we sent the invitation, a map to the site and a card printed on heavy stock like the invite that said something to the effect of "We want your presence, not your presents**" in large print and at the bottom, in small print, it said "If you want to do something, please consider a donation to XXX charity or the charity of your choice in celebration of this momentous occasion!" We received a few presents anyway, but lots of $$ went to a local non-profit that we both care deeply about. IMO making a donation instead of a gift is not impersonal in any way, shape or form, rather, making a charitable gift in someone's name is *highly* personal and an honor, regardless if it's a cash donation, a gently used item of clothing, an hour of volunteer time or anything in between. sandyponder...See MoreWhat was your most Memorable Meal ever?
Comments (46)Mine was Dec. 24, 1971. My soon-to-be fiance had made reservations at a famous restaurant in Pittsburgh to celebrate Christmas. The LeMont is situated on a bluff overlooking Pittsburgh's Golden Triangle and reservations by the window are hard to obtain. He had planned on surprising me with my engagement ring that evening but was so excited that he couldn't wait until we arrived at the restaurant. While in the car he gave me a present to open. Inside was an old German Christmas ornament that had been in his family. It consisted of three balls that nestled inside each other. When I opened the smallest ball I discovered my ring. He really did surprise me, the first of many. I was so excited that I barely recall the actual meal. But it truly was my most memorable. Here's a link to the view - http://www.lemontpittsburgh.com/LeMont/images_04/images_04/homepage_r5_c1.jpg...See MoreWedding toast - what to drink?
Comments (26)No Costco in my state but I might peruse Aldi. Don't know about their quality. I just got the paper cups in tonight for the toast. Hubs says drinking champagne out of paper cups is tacky but I am not doing plastic, no way. Initially I was going to buy glass and give them out as wedding favors but the costs of these two weddings are setting me back about 1/4 of my yearly salary already. So I guess this is one of those "conventional or not?" dilemmas....See MoreIs it bad that I just want to stay home alone tonight?
Comments (59)ATK, I hear ya. I am also without much significant family at this point. No kids, not close to cousins and no nieces or nephews and my brother lives in another country and is estranged from the family so not even a sibling. And my husband is without much connection to family or friends either. But I faced the "holiday funk" long before I married him at 58. I came to realize that society puts a lot of pressure on people to buy and go and do certain things to celebrate, but what it really was consisted of a day off of work for me to do whatever I wanted. If you are christian, then Christmas is about celebrating the birth of Christ, all the rest is nice and fine and all that, but you don't need any of it to celebrate Christ, and IMHO, that can be done any day of the year. If you're not christian, then it's time to rest and regroup during the solstice. We get in funks this time of year due to the lessening of the light, (and here in the North Country it is damp, cold and miserable outside a lot of the time) so we need to figure out ways to bring light into our lives. Your solution is perfect!! I am also turning towards our screened in porch more and more during this pandemic, due to the dark nature of most of my house. Due to the garage wall and closed bedrooms taking up so much wall space, the light and windows in our house are mostly on the other side, which is bordered by the porch. I want more and more to cozy up out there and bask in the light, but no more due to it being just a screen and it is cold as heck out there. I hope next year I can figure out a way to enclose it . . . If one is without family, one needs to find connections to work, causes and communities that give you a sense of not being alone in this world and insignificant. Perhaps you can find some new outlets for that energy this year!! Your creative talent would certainly be valued by many in real life, not just us virtual friends . . . ....See More- 13 years agolast modified: 11 years ago
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