What to wear? Please help - I can't decide!

17 years ago

Hey all

On Fri evening DH and I are going to a black tie fundraiser for the local Chamber Orchestra. It is actually the 50th anniversary, so it will be quite the "do" at one of our local country clubs.

Anyway, DH has dusted off his tux (and is VERY pleased that he can still button the jacket LOL) but that leaves me to decide what I am wearing. Here are my options:

1. Black velvet evening gown, high neck (picture a sleeveless turtle neck) where only the neck is heavily beaded in black. Not sure if it is too early in the season for velvet though it will be chilly (40's) on Fri night.

2. Black knit dress, rounded shallow scoop neck, sleeveless. The bottom of the dress has vertical rows of black beads that are different heights. Almost like a beaded city skyline along the hem.

3. Black velvet tank dress with a few extraordinary pieces of jewelry.

4. Black velvet long skirt, taupe shiny sleeveless top with a 2 inch wide band of silver beads around the neckline.

5. Black slinky long skirt with the above top.

6. I could get really wacky and wear a long raspberry sheath dress that is very low V-necked and has a high slit, but I don't have great shoes for it.

I have a dinner jacket I could make work with either of the long velvet dresses, it is a burned out fall pattern in black and very dark jewel tones. Or I can wear either a grey cashmere wrap (sort of casual though) or an ivory lace wrap with loooong fringe. When I have it on, the fringe reaches almost to my ankles in the back. It is just a little bit funky, so I'm not sold on it. Of course, I could go without a wrap - I tend to be "hot blooded" and am unlikely to need it until we are in the car on the way home.

I have black strappy sandles and several evening bags to choose from so accessories will not be a problem once I decide on the outfit.

Which of the above sound most interesting?

Thanks

Alexa

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dgkritch
17 years ago
I think you need to model them all and let us vote!!!

Just kidding!

Will the taupe top (saythatfastfivetimes) coordinate with the dinner jacket you have in mind?? If so, I'd lean toward that outfit. Slinky or velvet skirt depending on how warm you thing it will be inside!!

Sight Unseen, Never Go Anywhere "Dressy", Opinion #1...
FWIW

Deanna
caliloo
Original Author
17 years ago
Well... no. Unfortunately the jacket will not go with the top.

I am going to go dig through the closet and see if I have missed anything with potential....

Alexa
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dedtired
17 years ago
You must have quite the bod to wear any of these!

I think it's too soon to wear black velvet. That's true winter fabric. So #2 or #5 with the #4 top. As for a wrap, just ask hubs to warm up the car ahead. Actually I'd wear it in the car and leave it there when you get out. Hopefully wherever you are going will be warm inside.

Have fun.
centralcacyclist
17 years ago
I tend to agree, too early for black velvet which always feels "holiday" to me. The other black focused outfits all sound great. The raspberry sounds fun, too. An excuse for some fabulous new shoes, don't you think? If you can skip the wrap, I would. Just one more thing to be bothered with inside. I'm always cold though!
User
17 years ago
Knowing you I'm thinking door number 3!!!

I think the extraordinary jewelery would be so you. Does the jacket work with that? I think the jacket sounds perfect and would work around that.
lindac
17 years ago
Too early for black velvet......
Slinky skirt and taupe top....and that means you need a new jacket or at least a shawl....thinking brownish, shiny silk with a fringe and lots of beads....
Linda C
susie_que
17 years ago
Hey Alexa!!

JHMO but anything YOU wear is going to be smashing!!
Those of you who never met her, Alexa is a knock out!!

I like option 3 as well. Its simple and elegant.
Perhaps treat yourself to a brown or even silver wrap. Of course pair gold jewlery with brown and silver with silver.

I saw tons of such wraps while prom dress shopping so maybe check out some plave like David Bridal or even the Golden Asp in Bensalem.

How are you planning on wearing your hair??

Cheers!
Susie
dedtired
17 years ago
We want pictures!
bunnyman
17 years ago
Depends on how they fit. I'd go for something that you can sit comfortable in and won't wrinkle on the backside. The best dress in the world looks silly when the butt gets all wrinkled. Certainly nothing that could get caught up in a folding auditorium chair. Layers would be a good idea as it sounds you will be jumping from warm crowded to chilly cold. A wrap would slide on and off your shoulders with less fuss then a jacket.

Hope you have a great time and don't forget your cough drops.

: )
lyra
kim47
17 years ago
Definitely wear the the rasberry, everyone wears black.
Have fun!
Kim
caliloo
Original Author
17 years ago
Thanks for all the great advice and insight. Lyra - you are spot on with the suggestion to choose an outfit that is "sit" friendly. No one wants to stand up and have diaper butt LOLOL!

My hair is so short right now I don't have a lot of choices so, weather permitting, it will just be blow dried under. Long gone are the days when I could put it up in a French Twist. If the weather is rainy (a possibility) then I will go with the drowned rat look LOL! I have very fine straight hair and even the slightest humidity will kill any "do".

BTW - what are the cough drops for - or should I ask Jessy? LOLOLOL!

Alexa
obxgina
17 years ago
Alexa, sounds like a blast! I would go with the raspberry dress. Black strappy heels would go fine with it or a good excuse to buy a new pair! Have fun!! Gina
PS- Which CC is it being held?
annie1992
17 years ago
Heck, I'm no good at fashion at all, but I agree with Lyra. Wear what fits best, feels best, and can stand up to sitting for a while and the changes in environment.

Other than that, I'd say go with the raspberry, just because it isn't black, LOL.

Annie
caliloo
Original Author
17 years ago
Thanks for the additional advice!

The party is a Jericho County Club - it is one of the newer ones in the area.

Here is a link that might be useful: Jericho Country Club
foodonastump
17 years ago
I vote for #3. I like the idea of being stand-out despite the color choice over stand-out because of the color choice.

(Cough drops suppress coughing - good for chamber orchestra concerts!)

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