Thanks! I looked online for a database with the varieties I misplaced, couldn't find one with all. This one does, I'm certainly adding it to my favorites!

My boys had RSV when they were 3 and 3 months. It's very scary. The 3 y/o was much worse, he got it first, was misdiagnosed and so worsed for several days before it was diagnosed right. So we were on the lookout for the symptoms in the baby, and caught it right away. But the 3 y/o was horrible. About as scared as I've ever been. He would not move, he didn't even cry anymore, he just laid there with quiet tears seeping from his eyes. Getting him to be still was not a problem, which is scary for a child. He just could not breathe. We got a nebulizer and had to do breathing treatments at home every couple hours. He had chest x-rays, but was not hospitalized, but it was close. He required constant care for a few days at home by me, and doctor visits every other day for a couple weeks. Even after he got over it, his lungs were weakened. Every little cold went straight to his chest with a cough that would last for weeks after other symptoms were gone. In fact, the doctor wrote us a prescription for the breathing treatment meds (name won't come to me right now) good for a year at a time. For a couple years after that bout, we continued to use the nebulizer with most colds. It was almost like asthma, his lungs were so weakened by that illness. So I'm sending good thoughts for your boys. And for you. Ya know, honestly, some of your posts lately have been... off. Your "voice" doesn't sound like you. But this one sounds better. Please take care of yourself, Stacie. Your kids need you healthy, so it's not selfish to put your well-being before dishes and laundry and other chores. I think the package from me should be there now. Hope they like it! My DD helped me fill the package, she enjoyed that even though she has no idea who we were sending it to! LOL!

Stacie, you posted about the sippy cup episode on the Cooking forum back in November, so your MIL's recent behavior shouldn't come as a shocking new development. It's unfortunate you lost so many precious things, but I'm glad to see you recovered the social security cards. You and your husband know the issue, so you either figure out how to control it, or you adopt preventative measures to live with it. You've gotten a lot of good suggestions here and I hope you find some of them helpful. Either way, the real concern is the safety of your children. I'm glad to see you removed the satellite photo with your exact street address from your website. However your accuweather.com link still shows your town and of course your last name is posted on your website. Along with all those adorable photos of your kids and their names. I know how much fun it can be to have your kids and family photos on a public website, but consider the possibilities, particularily with 3 known sex offenders living in your small town. Even in a population of 473, you just can't be too careful. And if I remember correctly, you recently posted a lengthy post about your brother being an alcoholic and your concerns about your daughter and his possible sexual abuse. I'm very glad to see you are getting locks on your doors to protect your home and children. Please take another look at your website and consider any other personal information that might not be in the best interests of your family to publish on the world wide net. Best of luck to you and here's hoping the mother in law issue will not continue to be problematic once you can lock her out of the house.

From Pottery Barn's site, here is the Peyton drape in Oatmeal. Personally, I much prefer the sectional in Pewter. It's beautiful! You can order swatches from Room and Board, and I would highly recommend that before you purchase. I was surprised at the color variations that didn't show up on my monitor when I received swatches from Room and Board. If you need more opinions, take a picture of the swatch with the curtains and the wall color. Also, keep in mind that it's cheaper to replace paint and curtains than a sectional. So if you prefer the Pewter, I'd be more likely to purchase that and change the paint and even the drapes if necessary.