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runktrun
15 years ago

It has been so quiet here I thought I would try to needle you with a few non- gardening stream of consciousness thoughts/questions with the great hope that you yes youyou know I am talking to you might respond back. If you are a lurker or seldom post there are doubleÂno triple points for responding. Feel free to answer or respond to what I have posted or just let us know what you have been pondering lately.

Around the House

1. I donÂt understand how to read my electric bill. Do You?

2. I am considering giving up the household landline telephone and just depend on my cell phone. Do you use one the other or both?

3. Does anyone know how the he!! I can download music from my ipod into a new itunes account without shutting off the original account (original itunes acct. lost to computer with virus).

4. Do you understand your homeowners or health insurance coverage and what it really means to you and your family? I confess I just pay the bills and cross my fingers.

One Thing That Almost No One Else In The World Knows About Me.

I talked my daughter Lark into bringing her cat Ollie who I love for a return visit during Thanksgiving and used my mother super guilt powers to convince her that the cat should stay at least for the winter with us. Now all three daughters are openly questioning what might happen if and when they bring home a grandchild.


The Boob Tube

I am not ashamed to say I Love TV , here are a few of my favorites.

1. Jane GoodallÂs Escape to Chimp Eden

2. Mad Men

3. Breaking Bad

4. Weeds

5. In Treatment

Pet Peeves in the Garden

1. White plastic fencing particularly when a formal style of fencing is installed in an informal setting.

2. Receiving mail order plants that are far too young to survive if planted directly in the garden without being warned.

3. Homeowners that go to an extreme to make certain the land surrounding their vacation home is maintenance free.

4. Developers who sell the original topsoil and when the project runs out of money the top soil is never replaced.

5. Homeowner who abut a fragile pond whoÂs putting green is so manicured that the nitrogen effects are obvious to all but the local newspaper who did a spot light piece about his perfectly wonderful putting green never metioned possible effects to the pond (I must take a photo you would be outraged. )

Sorry I know that was a lot to dump on you but honestly I feel sooooo much better. Did I mention I lost most of my photo files to that computer virus? kt

Comments (18)

  • cloud_9
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    If you don't understand your electric bill then their evil plan worked!

    LOL about the cat. That is how I lost my dog. My parents convinced me to send her to Nana and Pop Pops sleep-away camp while I moved. Then she (whose name was Katy by the way) and my Dad bonded so tight that I was loath to separate them. My parents who had very strict rules about a dogs place in the world and what they could and couldnt do became weird dog people who broke all the previous rules They now completely spoil their dogs the way they never spoiled their kids! Are you a weird cat lady now? Or is she a ratter?

    My youngest brother and his wife recently had a baby boy after MANY years of trying and several failed in-vitro attempts towards the end. I cant wait to meet him. Now if I could just convince them to send that little guy to Aunt Debs sleep-away camp! Maybe sleep deprivation will convince them? Somehow I doubt it.

    Tube I only have basic cable and I have to brave my husbands derision just to watch TV at all. Im currently mourning the loss of Boston Legal.
    Favorites:
    House
    Bones
    Life
    Heroes
    Terminator: The Sarah Connor Chronicles
    The Big Bang Theory

    We STILL dont know when we are moving. Maybe we will find out on Monday. (Current thinking is beginning of January. We are really hoping that the developer that is buying our house to demolish/subdivide plays it straight with us from here on out. This has been a very long process.) Or WHERE. Our lack of a timely time frame lost us the house we really were enamored with and now we are scrambling to find something else that fits the bill. There was a house that we might have bought, but it was in negotiations when we discovered it and we didnt want to mess it up for the parties involved to get in the middle so late in the game. The current plan is to rent for a year and make sure that we: 1. like the town and school system 2. find the right house without too much pressure to settle and 3 give the housing market time to get closer to the bottom.

  • diggerdee zone 6 CT
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    I can't figure out my electric bill either, lol! I just know that it's too darn much!

    As far as TV, pretty much the only thing I watch is Rangers hockey, and as I sit here tonight watching them lose, I'm reconsidering. But after being a fan for 30 years, I guess I'm used to them losing.

    I also admit to watching soaps. All My Children, One Life to Live, General Hospital. For years - YEARS - I resisted GH and was never intersted. Even Luke and Laura didn't interest me. I'd watch part of it maybe once every month or two. Then inexplicably I got sucked in about a year ago. I try to catch at least the last 20 minutes of each show at least 3 times a week to stay current.

    Otherwise, I wouldn't know most TV actors if they walked through my front door (unless they started on soaps, lol).

    I agree with Katy on the plastic fencing in the garden - or should I say that vinyl stuff. Sorry. I know it's maintenance-free, yada, yada, yada, but fences just aren't supposed to shine in the light. Just not right.

    My other pet peeve in the garden is people who let their dogs run free and they come into my yard and do their business and run through my beds. Grrr.

    Our neighbor got a new dog about two years ago, a chow. That dog would come in my yard as I sat on my patio and growl at me! The nerve. It was constantly growling at me as I worked in the garden. One day I was kneeling on the ground, picking a rock with one hand out of a hole I was digging, and I still had the spade in my other hand. I heard a growl, looked up, and there she was, about 20 feet away growling. I was so pissed off I stood up and actually ran right at her, swearing at her! Stupid thing to do, I know, but I just couldn't take it any more. The dog stopped growling, looked at me in complete shock, I swear, lol, and ran away! It was soooo worth it!

    To this day, she'll be trotting down the street or through my yard and catch sight of me, and she makes a huge swerve to stay out of my way. Sweet.

    :)
    Dee

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    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

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    I had to google Weeds - I see it's on showtime, but I can't figure out if it's about gardening, or a sitcom...

    I have no gripe with people who want maintenance-free yards. Mine is pretty much unmaintained, which I guess is an altogether different thing; it might look a little better if it had been planned to be low maintenance, but I never even considered that and it's a little late to start thinking that way now.

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  • cloud_9
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Nan - DH and I are VERY location sensitive. That is a big part of why we are moving. Meanwhile, I will have a pot ghetto to rival Dee's. ;-)I am really hoping to rent someplace that I can at least have a vegetable garden, but yes, it will be hard. Especially as this past year was a throw-away. I only did what maintenance my schedule allowed and even my vegetable garden didn't produce much more than basil.

  • mskee
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

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    ONE THING...
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    THE BOOB TUBE
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    PET PEEVES IN THE GARDEN
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  • runktrun
    Original Author
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Cloud9
    Are you a weird cat lady now? I confess that I am so enamored with this critter that it takes everything I have to hold back posting pages of cute photos and writing on and on about his daily antics. I will tell you because I cant resist is his name is Oliver Twist aka Ollie, aptly named after the twist in his tale as a result of losing one third of it prior to his being rescued by my daughter. He really is the coolest cat.
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  • diggerdee zone 6 CT
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    I'll bite. Yes, I am a pack rat. I am the type who will find a box in the closet full of stuff I haven't looked at in ten years, but at that point I could never throw it out because I just have to have it, lol. My house is very cluttered, mostly papers/mail, and clothes/laundry that is not put away (on the part of all family members, not just me!). I figure I have better things to do than clean house. As someone told me, when she dies, she didn't want the only thing to be said about her was, "She kept such a clean house!".

    Besides, lots of my papers and other things are items for recycling - paper waiting to be shredded for the compost pile, cardboard/paperboard boxes waiting to be ripped for the compost pile, milk jugs waiting for winter-sowing, clothes to be freecycled/donated, etc.

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    Crafty? Not as much as I'd like. I go to the craft store for one tiny thing, come out $150 poorer, ready to be creative and fabulous, and the stuff sits for months on my dining room table with my piles of paper waiting to be shredded (I've come full circle, lol!)

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    :)
    Dee

  • ctlady_gw
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Can't keep up with all these talking points... but thought I'd jump in on a few:

    Plastic fences: NO! The new house (built by two 80-something-year-olds two years ago) next door to us is ALL vinyl/composite/whatever. No "real" anything in or on it, including the "horse corral" fencing. Shiny white plastic. Worst part of this one: they only ran the plastic fencing partway around; then (so I've heard) they ran out of money, so they did the rest in black chainlink. Go figure. So what I see, from my house "uphill" of this monstrosity, is a run of white fencing that simply stops partway around the yard (you can't even see the black chainlink from our house so it looks as if the white just peters out and ends... making anyone not knowing the real story wonder, what keeps those dogs in the yard?? :)

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    {{gwi:1099707}}and because I CAN'T resist lots of photos:

    {{gwi:1099710}}and my personal favorite (assuming the classic "daffodil disguise" as he watches birds... a rocket scientist he is not)

    {{gwi:1099711}}... I have more! ;)

  • diggingthedirt
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Love the car!

    Pack rat? I guess so. I haven't thrown out a handbag in 25 years, and have a hard time throwing away comfortable shoes - if they hurt, they go to the Salvation Army after 2 days; if they feel good, they live forever, no matter what they look like.

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    I've got to stick my neck out on plastic pots. Some of my neighbors use them, and I guess the ones that "look just like terra cotta" are the ones I dislike most. I know clay is expensive and fragile, but it's so beautiful that I can't stand seeing it imitated in a "low maintenance" copy. It *never* looks real. Even the plain black plastic pots are preferable, to my eye.

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  • diggerdee zone 6 CT
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    I forgot to mention above that I hope I didn't offend anyone by saying I dislike the vinyl fencing - although I see most here (at least most who posted) share my dislike.

    I don't like vinyl siding either, but I have it. My husband really, really wanted it, while I wanted to paint. I finally caved, and even though we got the shingle style, which looks better, IMO, I still dislike having a "plastic" house. Had to get used to the new sound of rain hitting it, too, lol.

    The kicker? We have a large, attached garage in the back of the house, and couldn't afford to side that too, so after the house was done, we matched the paint to the siding and had it professionally painted. My DH came home that day, walked around the garage a few times without saying a word, then said, "Wow, they did a great job. Maybe we *should have* gotten the house painted." I almost throttled him on the spot.

    No one else seems to even notice that the garage and the house are different, unless we point it out.

    Anyway, just wanted to say I hope I didn't offend.

    :)
    Dee

    who has plastic pots too, lol!

  • diggerdee zone 6 CT
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    After posting I remembered I had a photo with the house and garage, so I thought I'd post to show the two. Not a great photo, but you can see how closely the color matches, and while I think the siding itself is very obviously different (the wood and the vinyl) I'm always amazed at how no one notices!

    You can also see some of my plastic pots in the shot, lol.

    :)
    Dee
    {{gwi:224142}}

  • sunshineboy
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    I enjoyed everyones comments but mostly I enjoyed the pix of the car and the daffodil disguise.

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    Well, I gotta go to work. Thanks for the chit chat--

  • Thyme2dig NH Zone 5
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Electric bill: I definitely understand it's TOO expensive!

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    I got an ipod a few years ago from my company. My brother was so excited about how much I would love it! It's still in my desk in the box. Oh well.

    I understand that health insurance companies needs to be not-for-profit. I do understand my health insurance policy. I understand that any time we need something for my special-needs son, they generally reject it. Say the school should be taking care of therapies, etc. No wonder why they make so much money and our healthcare is so messed up. But I'm not bitter.....

    White, plastic fencing...Uh Oh! I have a wood picket fence painted white. It desperately needs another paint job. My husband and I have always sworn off ALL plastic. We have wood everything. But...we have been discussing possibly in another 5 or 7 years, when the fence would be ready for a third paint job, replacing it with white plastic depending on how far along they come with the look of it. This post is making me go back and remember how much I really do dislike white plastic fences!

    I was a pack-rat, actually of crafty things. Used to craft quite a bit and had tons of crap in a closet. One day a charity was looking for crafty stuff and I hadn't crafted in a number of years, so I donated it all. My husband is the purger in our household. Sometimes he gets in trouble for it, but I think most times I don't even know what the heck has been thrown out!

    LOVE "daffodil disguise"! Thanks for sharing those photos.

  • mskee
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    I also love the photo of the Daffodil Disguise! "Pay no attention to the cat hiding next to the peonies...!" And that car is just great.

    Regarding good reads: I'm embarrassed to admit that I haven't read a good book in years. My attention span seems to be along the lines of gardening magazine articles these days. Must be the lack of sleep!

    Regarding craftiness: Yes, although not in the scrapbooking sense. I think all of us here are crafters in the garden, for sure. I also like to play around with photography.

    Regarding pack rattiness: Oh, yes. As soon as I clear off my computer desk or kitchen table, the "mess fairies" come in the night and clutter it up again. And, the basement is filled with "stuff" that I just might be able to use some day. Unfortunately, about once every 5 years, I CAN use a piece of that stuff, so I get reinforced for hanging on to it!

    Regarding computers: I am currently running a Mac, but, I am not as thrilled with it as I had hoped. The peripherals are way too expensive, and the basic stuff it comes with aren't enough for me. I think iPhoto is sub par. And, currently, I am dealing with the "whirling beach ball of death," which means the screen freezes up with a multi-colored disc spinning around in the middle. I got rid of my PC because I was sick of it freezing up.

    Regarding pets: I have 3 rescued dogs, who I love, but, I can no longer sit on my sofa, which is perpetually covered with a sheet. Seriously, though, if I had a farm, I'd rescue more<div class='message-component message-body__image' key=c4e2cabb04cc7748><img class='img-responsive cursor-magnify' data-type=15 data-id=c4e2cabb04cc7748 data-imgid=c4e2cabb04cc7748 data-cm=8223 data-compid='body_content_img' src=https://st.hzcdn.com/fimgs/c4e2cabb04cc7748_8223-w240-h180-b0-p0--.jpg width=240 height=180 alt='' loading=eager /></div>

    Emily

  • NHBabs z4b-5a NH
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Electric bill: regardless, right now I'm feeling it's worth it since after that horrible ice storm we were back on line in less than 24 hrs, despite being on a sparsely populated rural road 1/2 mile from the end of the line while our neighbors in more populated areas on a different company didn't get power back for 3 days . . . But yes I basically understand it and my health insurance (like CTLady we are self-employed and have to get our own.) My homeowner's insurance is one of my next projects, so right now I'd have to say I'm not too clear on it.

    White plastic fences: Our neighbors (who have NO sense) put them in and expected them to keep the horses in. The horses learned quite quickly that a little bit of weight against the fence would break it, but it took 6 or 8 escapes for the owners to learn. So while the aesthetics are not what I prefer, the practical aspects for farm use are nil. The same neighbors cut down every tree (and then planted saplings that are dwarfed by their huge house) and not only stripped and sold the topsoil, but dug a dangerously steep-sided pond just so they could sell that soil as well.

    By preference & for personal use, Mac, though I do dual platform for work.

    I use a cell phone for my convenience (ordering take-out as I'm leaving town to drive home) and to communicate with my husband at his shop and at craft shows. One thing I like about our landline, that in an emergency it will tell 911 my address if I can't, whereas my cell can't.

    Crafty: Not in the usual sense. I'm a wood turner and plan to learn to weld this winter so I can make garden trellises.

    Pack rat: I prefer the term cluttered, but yes I am. But my closets & computer files are pretty well organized.

    Books & TV: I read a lot. I've enjoyed '3 Cups of Tea' and 'Born on a Blue Day,' both biography/memoir, and in general read lots of garden & plant books & mysteries. TV is often evening background noise while we're reading or web cruising or when I'm too tired to do other than just veg.

    I'm quite jealous of all the pets (some great photos!) We are catless currently due to the danger cars present to pets on our road (the house is only about 15 from the road.) We have many more voles than when we had cats. Eventually we'll be further away from the road, and then we'll once again have cats.

  • ctlady_gw
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Oh Emily ... what BEAUTIFUL dogs! Two goldens (one looks OLD and the light one looks like an English golden?) and is that a Rhodesian Ridgeback or what/who is the third one?? And so wonderful that they're rescued (would someone rescue me so I can hang out on a nice, warm sofa??) They are just beautiful and must make quite a trio -- how do they get along? I always worry about introducing adult dogs into a household that has dogs -- and especially rescue dogs where sometimes they're stressed to begin with. Looks as if you manage it with flying colors!

    And to nhbabs... our neighbors (the ones with the plastic "horse" fence) also clear-cut their lot when they built, taking down magnificent old maples (claiming it was a "clear case of overcrowding" and they were "leaving the healthy ones"... that would be three (3) healthy ones, and roughly 200 that were apparently NOT healthy. Those trees were healthy enough to put on a magnificent fall color extravaganza every year -- hard to imagine they were at death's door. Then, of course, their contractor piled all the soil from the excavation (formerly a meadow, so FULL of seeds -- they spend all summer spraying herbicides everywhere!) back around the three lone survivors, way higher on the trunks than the forest floor ever was. My tree man says that he sees that "all the time" -- contractors smothering trees by piling topsoil around them to create a nice, new yard for the homeowners.

    What I'm trying to figure out is why their two dogs -- admittedly big ones -- can't co-exist WITH trees. SOME trees, anyway? I know they like to run, but can't they run AROUND trees? We have great, huge old maples and my golden knows how to run around them (she only ran into one once!) ...;)

    [Sigh.]

    So here's to real wood fencing, which has a certain charm (for me) even when it's in need of paint ... and in my experience, vinyl fences don't look so great after a few years ... and then you're stuck with them because you CAN'T spruce them up with paint ...!

    There. I'm done venting. Thanks for listening ;)

  • runktrun
    Original Author
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Simply put you all make me smile.

  • mskee
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    ctlady,
    Thanks, the pups are a good looking bunch, and people often comment on them while I'm walking the three together. Both goldens are old (10 &11), and they came as a "bonded pair." The third one came as a "lab mix," and, I agree, he looks very much like a Ridgeback! Born in a pound, I don't have any more info on him. He's almost 3 years old, and came to me when he was 4 months. They get along great--mostly I think due to the personalities of the goldens. They are mellow and very tolerant of the "youngster" behavior of the third!

    I don't blame you for venting about that tree massacre. That's totally sickening--I really don't understand why people do that. Well, except for the fact that they have no sense.

    nhbabs--I laughed when I read about the horses leaning against the fence to escape. Had no idea people stripped topsoil to sell it, either. sheesh.

    Emily