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Comments (5)and what a cutie he is, too.Visit him as much as possible, as they just don't stay babies very long.They seem to grow up so fast,before you know what happened. jean...See MoreMy Precious Carolina Wrens
Comments (2)I,too,am blessed with CAWRS all year around. A few years ago, I bought a wren house while up in the Ozarks made from unpeeled oak boards that was immediately adopted by the CAWRS. They raised a brood of 3 chicks and I was lucky enough to be eating my lunch on the patio one day when all three fledged within minutes of each other. They have nested there every year since and one or two always roosts over winter. They are such interesting birds to watch. They are bundles of energy and I think they have explored every square inch of my covered patio where I have their house just under the eave. They are very protective of their house, and will raise a ruckus when other birds get too close, regardless of size, but seem tolerant of human traffic....See MoreMy precious SIL is leaving for Iraq
Comments (20)I'll add your SIL, your DD and the kids to my prayers and thoughts too, for strength while he's gone and for his safe return home. I'm another who is grateful for the service and protection of these brave men and women and proud of them for their choices. Elery's nephew, Nathan, came home a couple of months ago, promptly "re-upped" and went back, he says what we are doing there is so important that he wants to continue to help. It's hard to let them go, and all we can do is wish them back safely when it's time. Annie...See MoreLoss of my Precious son
Comments (5)I am so sorry. I don't know a thing that'll decrease the grief of losing someone or the initial pain. & in a way I think that we all need to go through that fire because, as Queen Elizabeth said after 9/11, grief is the price we pay for love. The deeper the love, the deeper the grief. I also like what Kahlil Gibran said in "The Prophet": ***************************************************** On Joy and Sorrow Kahlil Gibran Your joy is your sorrow unmasked. And the selfsame well from which your laughter rises was oftentimes filled with your tears. And how else can it be? The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain. Is not the cup that holds your wine the very cup that was burned in the potter's oven? And is not the lute that soothes your spirit, the very wood that was hollowed with knives? When you are joyous, look deep into your heart and you shall find it is only that which has given you sorrow that is giving you joy. When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight. Some of you say, "Joy is greater thar sorrow," and others say, "Nay, sorrow is the greater." But I say unto you, they are inseparable. Together they come, and when one sits, alone with you at your board, remember that the other is asleep upon your bed. Verily you are suspended like scales between your sorrow and your joy. Only when you are empty are you at standstill and balanced. When the treasure-keeper lifts you to weigh his gold and his silver, needs must your joy or your sorrow rise or fall. ******************************************************** I do think that you have every reason to live & to thrive: you're expecting a grandchild, your son's child, *& you are the only person who can give that child the sense of his/her father as he was when he was a baby, a tot, a child, a teen, a young man, from your perspective as his mother.* Your position in that baby's life is unique; you are irreplaceable. Your grandchild is the next link in your son's chain of life. *********************************************************** My own experience with loss & grief has given me some perspective on practical things, such as: don't expect that you will function as you did before, at least for the first year or maybe more. Go easy on yourself; don't make demands of yourself. Know that you'll have mostly dark days for a while, & that your grief will 'sneak attack' you. You'll think everything's going fine, & you'll burst into tears. Let them flow. Don't make any life changes for at least a year, & I would guess 2 years would be better, given the closeness of the relationship. We just aren't in full control of our moods for at least a year, & our moods trump our brain's logical process, so don't do anything for at least a year. Don't sell the house, don't buy a condo or a motor home or a boat, don't sell all your stocks & clean out your bank account & move to Tahiti, don't, if you're divorced or widowed, date. at all. Don't do anything. ****************** I wish you the best. Take care of yourself, be there as much as you can for your daughter-in-law, let her be there for you, & be there for that baby....See MoreNHBabs z4b-5a NH
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