Daniella, thank you again for helping name this brug. we are very bad at names , after all we named a brug DOOSIE, lol after we named one confusion, we decided we really needed help .lol i hope you will play NAME THAT BRUG again. i have a few more to name . emerald frost is a sport off of frosty pink . it should behave in your yard as frosty . its an easy plant to grow, from full sun to afternoon shade . i think the leaves have a better color if in afternoon shade , but it tends to flower more often in full sun . please keep in mind that i 'm only speaking for my zone . you may want to adjust for yours . i'm in the great drought state of north carolina , zone 7b

Jesus wept. No, people don't think you _actually_ belong in Pampers. Any thinking person (which clearly you aren't) would realise your mother's statements are metaphorical, that she is accusing you of behaving like a two year old. And you were. And you still are. Besides, after witnessing your performance they probably all came to that conclusion by themselves without any suggestion from your mother. "its not fair it was only ketchup we threw on people and the people in front of us were old like in 60s they wouldnt even know it was on there clothes if my mom didnt say anything." ONLY ketchup???? You shouldn't be throwing ANYTHING in a public place, not McDonalds, not the Ritz, NOWHERE (unless it's a park and you're throwing a ball or a frisbee). "Old like in their 60s"????? 60s is NOT old, and whether or not they were aware that there was ketchup on their clothes, the fact remains that damage was done and a RESPONSIBLE ADULT, which clearly your mother is and you are not, would own up to having caused damage and make reparation - the $45 your mother paid. Her choice, as you call it, was to behave as a responsible adult and to pay for the damage which was caused. In her shoes I would either stop your allowance to reclaim the $45 or if you don't get allowance, sell the X Box and give you the money less $45. YOU caused the damage, the debt is YOURS. You sure do sound like a whiny baby, and definitely too immature. Driver's Ed? I sure as heck wouldn't want to be sharing the roads with a driver with your attitude. You are NOT the victim, your mother is, for having to pay for your stupidity and for having a whiny, immature entitled 15 yo who thinks having his shortcomings pointed out in public (after publicly giving a demonstration for all to see) is child abuse. CPS has enough work to do to protect the children who are actually abused, to be bothering with your non-case. If you want to be treated like an adult, then grow up, accept responsibility for your actions and stop whining in the corner "My Mommy's a big meanie...you're all mean to me. I wish I had a different Mom". Believe me, there are a lot of Moms out there you DEFINITELY don't want. This post was edited by colleenoz on Sat, Sep 6, 14 at 5:24

Wow! That is definitely odd behavior! Is it possible that she was pregnant when she was spayed? When I was a child that happened to my sisters cat, and I know it threw that normally sweet cat out of whack for a while. Nothing as overt or aggressive as your describing, but it was a definite mood change. Interseting that she's only showing the aggression to your husband. Perhaps a male vet or vet tech frightened her before the surgery, and she's associating men with that kind of pain/disruption? In the short term, maybe try something like Rescue Remedy in her water, or Feliway on her favorite areas -- or even something of his. Maybe if she begins to associate that calming feeling with his scent, she'll get over the urge to gut him! Good luck; sounds like it's pretty unsettling for all of you.

My goodness, what a day! Before I forget, a couple of people have asked about me transferring, and I meant to respond to that but sometimes I'm scatterbrained. I wouldn't rule it out, but it would be a little difficult. I currently work in the town I live in, which is handy, because we only have one car now. My DH drives to work with DD, but sometimes their schedules don't match up and we have to work things out. If I transfer, I would have to buy another car. Also, my one of my dog's cannot go all day without going outside, and I always take her at lunch. I would have to hire a sitter to take her out every day. It's not so much the cost, but she really hates people outside our circle. So the bottom line is, I would transfer if things became impossible to bear, before the point where I would have a nervous breakdown or something...lol. Anyway, my supervisor approached me today and asked how things have been between me and Nadine since yesterday morning. This surprised me, because he usually would never refer back to an issue like that- he instead would typically just hope the subject didn't come up again. I said that she has been polite and professional since mid morning, yesterday (which was right after her meeting with him). He actually told me that he told her that it's a small team and she has to get along! He's so closed mouth I couldn't believe he even said that. He said there was more to it, and I knew that because they talked for 45 minutes. He specifically asked me to tell him if she did not do her work, and when I got up to go, he said it again. Some of those things she shirks does not show up on any report, so he wouldn't know without a complaint. He also said that he would allow me to go talk to the OHN, if I needed to, and he encouraged to do it if I thought it would help. He said he could see that she has been hard on me in the last two weeks. I'm still kind of shocked, and I have to credit this current manager we have, who I know must have directed him. This was a MAJOR change from how he usually handles things...