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Comments (18)vava...so you're mixing gray and black :) It should be wonderful! Srg...my great grandfather made the round one. He's not making tables anymore.... :( But if it helps, it's a simple victorian claw foot kitchen table in oak. I just shook it up a bit by painting the base and antiqued black finish and refinishing the oak on top and it looks like new :) You could do it for half the price or less of a new table since it's not a particularly fancy piece (many grandpa's made them LOL)...See MoreFlirty or friendly? Need another woman's opinion...
Comments (53)Thanks again for the replies and thanks for the follow-up. Yes, I did talk with DH about this and that did NOT go well. He reports that after talking with Ms. Flirt that she became very upset and insisted that I was making a mountain out of a mole hill, blah, blah, blah. And then, thanks to this thread, I approached him again and that didn't go well either. I told him that when he allowed her to say those things in my home and in front of me, it hurt me deeply and that his silence implied both his consent and his agreement. He became agitated and said that I was over-reacting, etc. This is my second marriage and I'm struggling to make it work. He's not an easy man to live with and I'm probably not an easy woman to live with. Heck, I don't know what to think anymore. We have had three or four major "discussions" on this issue and he said he's tired of talking about it. The problem is, there has not been a satisfactory resolution. I do think that if it happens again, he'll be more alert to telling WHOMEVER to shut up. Or so I hope. In the meantime, I have no dealings with Ms. Flirt and I keep my distance. She is doing the same, and claiming to HIM that she is "very hurt" at my attitude and has no interest in seeing me again. Yeesh. Still glad you asked? For now, I think it's gonna be one of those messy, icky marital issues that I'm just going to build a mental fence around and just leave it alone for a time. I can't ruin my marriage over this. I'll just pay attention and see how he behaves in the future. DH is one of those guys who will rant and rave but in the end, he'll pay attention to what I say and not repeat his mistakes. I've told him that (in the words of Stephen Covey), this was a huge withdrawal from my spiritual/emotional bank account and it'll take some time for his account with me to be restored to where it was before this incident. That just makes him mad, but it's the truth. You long-term married people, how do you DO THIS???? And you long-term second marriage people, was it harder the second time? Holy canoly, this ain't easy....See More23andme fans might find these expert opinions interesting
Comments (32)More haha, you've provoked me. Just a little. They're not flippant, they're evasive. I'm not angry at all. Here's what you WON'T find on their website "We are a start-up bioinformatics company. Our goal is to accumulate enough genomic information from unique individuals so that that information can be sold as a product to researchers to provide data and insights useful for numerous types of biomedical research in this new and developing field. In return for your providing your information to us, we will provide an analysis back to you that as of today may only provide limited or perhaps even no useful information. Some of the interpretations we provide could turn out to be incorrect. As genomic understanding and investigations proceed, the information you receive from us could later become more useful. Supplying this information to you is all we owe you, you grant us a perpetual right to use your information and you understand you have no financial interest in any future income producing use we have for it." Take a look at their website, tell me what you find. I've been in town with them, it took time for the real story to get out. As with the Google example I started with at the top. I can tell you about my family member. I have frequent in-depth discussions concerning ongoing work and circumstances encountered internally and externally. Seems like it's been at least monthly (on this topic only) for years. I've visited all research facilities involved and met and spoken with colleagues. Where does all that get me? I know a fair amount for someone who knows nothing. And a lot more than someone with no exposure to the field. I have impressions and insights from perhaps a few handfuls of people. If you're a researcher, I'll immediately defer to you about research. But not about this company's conduct. If you'd had many long discussions with your Vietnam serving relative and others, the same could be said for you on that topic. Nothing more or less....See Moreanother trip report - interesting trees at Udel, summer edition
Comments (67)I hate to bump a thread that once-upon-a-time had 'drama' (albeit, a couple posts now deleted for some reason...) but I think this is the most recent one mentioning the Udel live oak. I was annoyed with a long backup on I-95 (DelDOT seems to have an interminable construction project these days) so pulled off to see the arboretum again. Alas, the famous 'northernmost live oak on the east coast' is GONE. Replaced with a Stewartia for some reason, which at least bucks the natives-only trend! (of course there are native species, but this was an Asian one) This garden has had its ups and downs over the years. It went to hell during COVID, presumably due to a lack of volunteer access, then got back in shape. Now, it's sliding again. I narrowly escaped wandering into a huge patch of poison ivy; that really would have ruined my day to have to rush home for a shower. Also, their apparent wastefulness with rare plants is beginning to be tiresome. The Torreya jackii appears to have died. I can remember a few other rare plants that seemed to not get the early-years cosseting they merited. OTOH, things like Magnolia maudiae have really taken off and demonstrate that those can grow this far north, at least with a lot of shelter. I finally got to see M. yuyuanensis blooming this time, and was very underwhelmed. I hope the F2 hybrid of it that I bought from Camforest is an improvement! (hybrids often are...) A lot of the trees and shrubs are getting too crowded; the plantings, in narrow building alcoves, weren't really planned with the mature size of some of the specimens in mind. I sense they are probably entering the part of the 'cycle of institutional ineptness' where in a few years, someone new is going to come in with guns blazing and do something very drastic to the collection. I hope it's a drastic improvement but I hope for a lot of things that don't come true. 🤣 Btw, didn't take a pic of the M. maudiae, but is is now HUGE. Up around the 3rd story of the building, so >> 25'. Both it and M. yuyuanensis looked totally undamaged. Newark hit at least 5F this winter, maybe lower....See More- 11 months ago
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