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Crown in family room leaves no room for door casing. Help!
Comments (40)super jealous of your old apartment!!! now, along the lines of lowering the opening in my family room, here is a photo of that opening taken from the foyer. this picture also shows what will be the cased opening in the hallway. the hallway cased openings should probably remain 9 ft even if the family room and dining room openings get lowered a foot, right? any thoughts on how i can do this so it doesn't look terrible? is it ok for hallway cased openings to be taller than door-less entrances to rooms? by the way, the other doorway you're seeing in the hallway is a closet and then, beyond that, is the opening to the butler's pantry....See MoreProgress of Nursery/ Big Girl Rm. See Your Action at Work!
Comments (31)dekeoboe - thanks for the heads up about the owl! I went to Hallmark today and got the last one. Knock on wood - the 'L' word is really on my side so far w/ this room! The owl was 50% off! And the paint guy at ACE clearly didn't hear me when I said I wanted it mixed in the Essence paint as it is only $14.99 per gallon. I got 2 gallons for both DD's room and mine. I almost fell over when the cashier said $48! He mixed the wrong brand and it turned out that they were out of Essence so he gave me their top of the line paint for $14.99/ gallon! Sue - those alphabet fairies are just perfect! Polly - that chandy is so sweet! I wanted to name DD Penelope but DH nixed that. I really like the bunny lamp and I may have to start trolling around e-bay for something similar. Hellokitty - I was thinking of one or two small pillows - I really like the heart ones that Polly got at IKEA. I have a sweet little white one that I picked up a few months ago that has the palest of pale pink edging and is embroidered w/ 'P.S. I love you' in the same shade of pink. It's so pale you almost don't even notice it. I thought maybe a great raspberry plaid for the rocker seat. I started painting the dresser about 30 minutes ago in SW Berry Bush. I think that the deeper raspberry tones w/ that wall color are edgey but still sweet. Igloo - Maybe we can vacation swap houses like they did in The Holiday! LOL! Yes - I agree - that girls room that is decked out in all those fabulous shades of turqouise, green and white is simply wonderful! That Poster did such an amazing job at pulling that room together so well....See Moreready to pack up and leave
Comments (2)Are you ready for the me or her ultimatum? That is kind of where you are. Are you sure you are ready to throw in the towel on your husband? If sd wasn't in the picture, would you be walking away from the marriage at all? Can you try the disengaging first and see how that goes? Sounds like you feel she is running the house - and I'd bet she is right now. I went thru the same thing with my oldest stepson - he is still doing it from 1000 miles away to some extent, but I am removing myself from the game - that was my new years resolution - getting off the guilt roller coaster. Are you taking your 7 year old with you tonight? Do you not want to talk to him because you feel like you have been talking til you are blue in the face and he just doesn't get it? Accepting that they don't get it is hard. You aren't crazy - a 7 year old boy is not on the same level as a 14 year old girl. NO way! She is strong and smart and testing how powerful she can be - hell yes she is capable of towing the line around the house. I have a 14 year old daughter, I know how they are. Part of it is teenager and part is manipulation because she can - because your husband is letting her. You probably can't get the point across to him either, that he isn't doing her any favors not letting her take responsibility and consequences for her behavior. Disengaging is the key. Letting him deal with her. And if she ends up messed up, if you aren't involved with her discipline - you aren't to blame. Puts the responsibility for her behavior back on him for parenting and her for growing up. Some kids just do mess up. Detach. He says he wants you to help, but his actions tell you to butt out. Watch the actions, don't listen to the words. I'd just say go ask your Dad on everything. Keep putting it all back on him. If he does get deployed I would say send her to her mother's. He second guesses you every time you try to discipline her - so he is telling you he doesn't trust your parenting. So don't leave her with you! My husband did the same thing with his oldest son. It's not fun and the kid has been in lots of trouble and doesn't know right from wrong. He is out of the house now, but you are always waiting for a call, waiting for the other shoe to drop. Figure out what you are trying to accomplish leaving and think about the possible outcomes. Good luck...See MoreMurphys law in action.
Comments (21)ravencajun: Your experience reminded me of a story. I hope that you get a smile or two from it. THE BAPTIST CHURCH DINNER! A group of friends from the Cottonwood Baptist Church wanted to get together on a regular basis, socialize, and play games. The lady of the house was to prepare the meal. When it came time for Al and Janet to be the hosts, Janet wanted to outdo all the others. She decided to have mushroom-smothered steak. But mushrooms are expensive. She then told her husband, “No mushrooms. They are too high.” He said, “Why don’t you go down in the pasture and pick some of those mushrooms? There are plenty in the creek bed.” She said, “No, some wild mushrooms are poison.” He said, “Well, I see varmints eating them and they’re OK.” So, Janet decided to give it a try. She picked a bunch, washed, sliced, and diced them for her smothered steak. Then she went out on the back porch and gave Ol’ Spot (the yard dog) a double handful. Ol’ Spot ate every bite. All morning long, Janet watched Ol’ Spot and the wild mushrooms didn’t seem to affect him, so she decided to use them. The meal was a great success, and Janet even hired a helper lady from town to help her serve. After everyone had finished, they relaxed, socialized, and played ‘42’ and dominoes. About then, the helper lady came in and whispered in Janet’s ear. She said, “Mrs. Williams, Ol’ Spot is dead.” Janet went into hysterics. After she finally calmed down, she called the doctor and told him what had happened. The doctor said, “That’s bad, but I think we can take care of it. I will call for an ambulance and I will be there as quickly as possible. We’ll give everyone enemas and we will pump out everyone’s stomach. Everything will be fine. Just keep them calm.” Soon they could hear the siren as the ambulance was coming down the road. The EMT’s and the doctor had their suitcases, syringes, and a stomach pump. One by one, they took each person into the bathroom, gave them an enema, and pumped out their stomach. After the last one was finished, the doctor came out and said, “I think everything will be fine now,” and he left. They were all looking pretty weak sitting around the living room and about this time the helper lady came in and whispered to Janet, “You know, that fellow that run over Ol’ Spot never even stopped.”...See Morerouge21_gw (CDN Z5b/6a)
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