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amylou321

Floof! Leaving Reviews.

amylou321
3 months ago

Do you make it a habit to leave reviews in general? For me, it depends.


I generally do not leave reviews for things I buy on Amazon, unless the product is deceptively advertised or complete junk. Though typically if I get a refund for a return on said product I do not.


For in person services like doctors, I have left a 5 star review one time, for my PCP, because while not a new doctor, he was new to town and starting a new practice. He really is great. A good listener, takes a lot of time with every concern, will order ANY test you want or send you to any specialist you ask for without question. I thought a good review on Google would help. So I left him one. My other doctors are well established and very busy, so I do not bother. The only time I had a really bad experience with a doctor was the surgeon I went to see about my biopsy after my mammogram. I found him to be arrogant, dismissive, and rushed. He was mid sentence when his phone rang. He answered his phone and walked out, without another word, His nurse informed me that he probably had nothing more to say. So i left. I just let it go. I just needed him to do the biopsy, I didnt need him to care. I said nothing to anyone about it. The next 2 or 3 visits with him, he was totally different. Attentive and nice, even compassionate. So maybe he was having a bad day or dealing with personal troubles. Everyone has off days. I am glad I did not complain about him.


I have never left a review for a restaurant. Taste is subjective and places with bad customer service will not last long anyway, so I never saw the need.


I try to help individuals with small businesses or who sell things on the side, so for Etsy or Ebay I try to make an effort to return to the site after I get the item to leave a brief positive review if the transaction and item were satisfactory. I try to refrain from leaving bad reviews. I was recently messaged by a seller on Etsy though, and I almost left a pretty bad review for her, but did not. Basically, she asked me why I had not left her a review. Didn't I like the earrings? I responded that while I did in fact like the earrings, I ordered 5 pairs from her, 2 were for gifts. And as she did not see fit to ship them for 3 weeks, the birthdays I ordered them for were past, and they had to become Christmas gifts, and I had to scramble for replacement gifts. I told her that printing a shipping label and marking the order as "shipped" was a lousy thing to do if she were going to hold the product hostage until she felt like taking her butt to the post office, and for the inconvenience, I decided to not leave a review at all, though I should probably as a warning to other people who want things that they ordered to be shipped in a timely manner. She responded that she has kids, and therefore they take precedent over anyone getting some little earrings. Then suggested that I do not buy any more from her if I had no "grace" for mothers. I responded that she need not worry about me buying anything else from her, and that if motherhood made her utterly unable to run a business properly, perhaps she should focus on that path in life and leave business to people who are more capable. I pointed out that she had the time and energy to notice that I did not leave her a review and nag me about it, but no time to ship products that she took the time to post for sale? Funny. She did not have very many reviews at all. I wonder if Etsy allows sellers to delete reviews. The reviews she did have were just talking about the product, not the customer service. I never did leave her a review, now I wonder if I should have, to warn others that she is one of those who blames her kids for all her shortcomings, and that while she will print out a shipping label and mark it as "shipped" within hours of ordering, do not hold your breath that you will get the item anytime soon. I do not expect people to jump up immediatly when I order and take my item to the post office the same day. That would be silly. But if you mark it as shipped, I do think that it needs to be actually sent off within a few days. Less than a week. Not 3 weeks. On the contrary, last week I ordered some Peanuts valentines bedsheets, 2 sets, from one seller on eBay. The seller ACTUALLY put them in the mail the very next day, the same day they marked it as shipped, and combined shipping and issued a refund for the difference without being asked. THAT is a good seller and I left a review to say so.


Do you leave reviews? Good or bad? I feel like I should leave more reviews in general, as I always look at reviews of EVERYTHING. It is hard to tell nowadays which reviews are real and which are not, so leaving reviews sometimes seems to be a useless task.

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