The approaching coronation has me thinking
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Comments (1)The other laptop is a 9300 and it appears completely incompatable with mine so it is essentially out of the picture. I was looking at the 9300 manual and see that I would need the driver and windows reinstall disks if I were going in that direction....See MoreNew approach to others' clutter--wish me luck
Comments (16)Those are all good ideas. I already have some experience with keeping track of various papers and with filing systems--I have "my own" filing areas for the kids, for family health records, for my hobbies, and when each of my parents (who were divorced) developed health problems and dementia, I kept all their accounts, papers, mail, sales of homes, etc in "my" study. And I have some idea of how I would set up a filing system for all of this other stuff if I were doing it all for me. What is a bit more difficult is first, getting to the point where I can help and second, trying to see whether "we" are setting up a filing system that works for him, or me, or both. Meaning, what's a bit new in my thinking is whether ultimately he might never be able to keep up any system and so I take over more of the system and the filing and then tell HIM where stuff is, or whether he would collaborate and let me be "the consultant" so if h e wants labelled shoeboxes instead of files, that's fine, etc.--what I am trying to go to a new level on is, how to "feel out" the situation as to whether he is overwhelmed and will never ask for help but really wants it, or whether it is some line I can't cross. So I'm moving into being more pro-active but trying (very hard for me, sometimes!) to keep saying to myself, remember the big picture, the long haul, and not instant gratification, and also, bite my tongue when I'm tired and cranky and feel like saying something that is accusatory. Since he almost never asks for help, with anything, we all in our family probably think of him as invincible, and I'm kinda hopeful that he might actually want help if it's done right. harrietthehomeowner, I don't think outside help is right for him. But again, what will help me most in trying to do something now is to focus on family needs--that clearly I would never be able to take over, or even help out, with our papers and stuff if anything happened to him(illness or other) and I'm hoping even he can see that that would be a bad situation for our family. Whereas, if it's the guy's toolshed or hobby shop, you could just shut your eyes. cocontom, great point about the electronic conversions--he is actually the most "on line" person in the family and is probably receptive to doing more--mostly we have the busy-syndrome, where you have to make yourself carve out time to do things that will save time in the long run. One thing that is obvious is that I will have to find an extended period of time--don't have that until later in the fall--to actually start the project physically, but could be planning what types of shelving or filing equipment needed. I'm free to play around with floorplans on my own! This is one of those things where, since you can't move in the room, you need to haul everything out and say, what goes back in? It's like, you can't really sort through boxes of stuff until you have alternative destinations for each category. Here is one more interesting point that may test how committed I am. When we moved to this house, "his study" was to be this destination financial stuff, tools,etc, and "my study" was the combo guest room, photo file repository, various family-use items, and whatever I wanted, I guess. So I have guest linens, out of season decorations, hobby supplies, gift wrap, family mementos from my parents, and just "stuff" of mine, pretty well organized. And folks can get and use stuff from there, or I can get it for them. So--and wonder if folks can relate to this--I have a tendency to think I am using my space "well" for the family and he is not. You know how as the DW, you tend to think that ultimately all spaces are yours--it's hard to view any areas as sacred and off-limits to your organization and cleaning and meddling. So, if it somehow turned out that he could not "share" this filing concept, but said, well, if you're going to take over, do it somewhere else than my room, I don't know if I'm big enough to sacrifice my space to put all of it--I would have to completely re-do how my space is organized and would not have room for some of the fluff and stuff I have. I don't think that would happen, but I just wondered....See MoreIt's Coronation day!
Comments (25)Oh man, went to bed early last night.. lol.. where to start - First off, Debbie.. be very very careful.. that damn movie is addicting.. lol I am 49 and a guy and that still popped in my head ;) 1 - Dog food area, well.. hard to do as my dadgum dog grabs a piece of food and hauls it to the freaking bedroom, eats it, then comes back for more.. lol.. so we are locating it in the laundry room and get him closer and out of the traffic.. heh. It is like dodging a bullet when he is on an eating run :P 2 - I totally agree with you guys on keeping the island the same color. I was thinking the same thing, it might be too much contrast. Here is the entire house layout: (ignore the red spots.. that was the water heater location picture.. lol) The fireplace is a mosaic of this: (picture the mosaic shown but in a flat tile like the second one) The walls will just be normal white walls, for now. We have not selected a paint. So, yea, we were thinking just leave the island the same color. Now, the outside of the house is a gray with white trim, but we are painting the front door a distressed Redwood Sequioia color, so the guy had an idea of "bring the outside in" and match the island, sorta like this: That was where his idea came from....but, not sure I am "feeling it" anymore.. was our original idea too.. heh.. but when we had lighter floors. @blf - I was thinking the same thing.. adding more drawers. I figured to wait till I see the current drawings, then add 2 more sections for drawers. I need some good large ones for my woks anyway. I also need a really large cabinet for my chili/stew pots. @Debbie - all appliances are stainless. We have the Capital Culinarisn 48" with a 54" hood (they ordered the hood yesterday.. heh) and we have a double fridge/freezer like this one (Frigidaire): And we upgraded the dual dishwashers to Bosch 500 series ones.. I have a friend that called a tech out two times thinking his was broken it was so quiet.. lol Let's see, what did I miss? Oh, sorry.. @desertsteph - We debated the sink on the island, and for most folks that is a thing, but for me.. I am very CDO (not ocd.. cdo.. because that is the order they go in...heh) and I generally get my stuff out and prep on the island, but have all the washing done beforehand. Counter space is my thing. Want to see me go nuts? When I wash pots and pans... in this apartment.. I have nowhere to set them so have to wash one, dry it wash another dry it.. I go nuts! lol.. I have to have space to wash wash wash and then dry, so I do not mess up my groove.. heh, so I opted not to get the sink. Oh.. the space by the sink. Here's a funny story.. who here loves "Everyone Loves Raymond". My grandmother and I were very close and before she passed away, she left me two things, no-one else would have ever wanted.. a wooden fork and spoon set and a "Last Supper" pewter framed picture she had that she gad gotten in South America in the 60's. To me, they were what I remembered from her home, and they are the corner piece of mine now. BUT.. this is funny..: So there is room on each side of the kitchen window for the fork and spoon ;) Russ...See MoreHas your approach to garden bed design changed?
Comments (40)I came across a really good article online (fine gardening magazine, I think) and it was about creating cohesiveness throughout your gardens by using color as a repetition as well as plants. For example, if you divided up a long bed into 3rds, you might have gold hostas, tall purple astilbes, and pink daylilies in the first third, then the middle third may be variegated blue and gold hostas, taller goatsbeard, shorter pink astilbes, and purple daylilies. The third section may have large blue or green hostas, gold heucheras in front, different pink daylilies, purple bellflowers or purple astilbes, etc. The point being that you can mix different types of plants and different varieties of the same plant when united by repetition of color. So for example, your eye lands on golds throughout the bed with the gold hostas, gold heuchera, perhaps a gold hakone grass, etc. The form of the daylilies and astilbes are repeated throughout, but the colors of the flowers and height can differ. At any rate, I am trying to use this technique this year to fill in some spots in the garden. Last night I divided some of my existing daylilies and placed the extras among some established hostas, I also divided a Liberty into 2 additional pieces and planted those in areas that needed the pop of gold. As everything leafs out, I will re-evaluate and continue to add more companion plants at the end of May....See More- 3 years ago
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