That one does.

ETA: This comment refers to the first scarf, which we can no longer see.

I have to agree with Lars. That particular scarf does add some heft to the silhouette.

With movement, I’m sure it looks better. It’s not draped well for that still shot.

In general, I don’t think scarves make your butt look big. Heck, I’ve been wearing summery kimonos — scarves x 10. :D

No way does she look slimmer!

It all depends on the size and weight of the scarf and how you tie it. This is one of my favorite how-to videos.

I think the way she has it spread over her bust and under her arms is odd.

I think it probably does add some (visual) weight. Personally, I do not care for a scarf worn that way. I don't wear scarves as much as I used to, but I wear them primarily in colder weather.

I’m sure a lot of the way the woman in the picture is wearing the scarf has to do with showing off the pattern. Mostly, I was trying to show an untied scarf draped around the neck.

Y’all have spoken. I have to learn a better way to wear a scarf.

I think it just needs to be thinner and shorte., to be worn this way. This scarf looks like it could be worn as a shawl.

I have and wear this scarf (tied a little looser) and it is a great addition to a v-neck sweater or tee shirt with a jacket/sweater. I am print-averse as well and find this is like a little necklace.

Agree - that particular scarf, worn in that way is not as flattering as one might want.

ETA: This is not me d*mn it.

rubyclaire, me too. Much more comfortable than a giant scarf. Also, not me.

Bookwoman, thank you so much! A friend has given me a scarf and I had absolutely no idea how to wear it. This is so helpful!

Oly, I was commenting on the model. I don’t know how Bbstx would wear the scarf or how it would make her look, but it certainly does not have a slimming effect on the model… and she’s a model!

Funny, I used to do scarf-tying seminars for Nordstrom in the late 80's. That scarf is too big to be worn that way. If I wear a scarf, it has to be tied in some way. I'd probably wear that one like a pashmina over my shoulder. Hermes makes (or used to make) a beautiful set of cards that show how to tie different scarves.

Spanish, I think I have one of those cards.

How do you all STORE your scarves?

My scarves are all rectangular (and most are slightly smaller than the photo I posted), except for one huge retangular scarf. I have enough room in my closet to hang them on pants hangers.

There are a ton of how to tie a scarf videos on line. This is one of my favorites...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5LYAEz777AU&t=140s

I think what makes her silhouette look less slim is the scarf is hiding her waistline. If it were tied up higher it' would be more flattering.

I love long, flowing scarves, but they need to drape and wrap properly. That is a lovely scarf, but I wouldn't wear it like that. In that arrangement, it reminds me of a vestment stole worn by clergy.

I don't think that pic is intended to show how to wear a scarf but is to reveal the whole pattern on the scarf. I think anyone would know that if she moved even a tiny bit that scarf would fold in on itself and not stay splayed open like that.

KSWL, there are lots of different size models. It's an assumption that she's skinny. Not all models are.

Love the idea of scarves but I am busty, and typical scarves worn as an accessory around the neck make me look frumpy. Only large scarves used as a wrap seem to work for me.

@bpath I usually hang them, but am having space issues right bow so they are folded in a storage box with plenty of room.

I have a ridiculous number of scarves, of all sizes and materials. I’ve never even thought about if they make me look heavier or out of style. 🤷🏼‍♀️ I like them, and need them to be warm 8 months a year, so I wear them. 🥶🧣Probably if I could stand to wear a turtleneck I wouldnt need scarves. 🐢

I just had to empty my front hall closet and temporarily relocate the main “collection” (makes them some fancy). Some are hanging on a trouser hanger with multiple bars. Others are folded and on the shelves of a hanging canvas shoe holder. There were some on the bar of the hangers with a specific coat. And still more were folded on the shelf of the closet. (There’s also a hanging scarf organizer in my bedroom closet. 😆) I could probably outfit the Mormon Tabernacle Choir, the but the mix of seasons would look silly.

I never wear any of them hanging like the model shown above. Once, during a hot flash, I removed my scarf and my bff’s daughter (known her since her birth) said IDT I’ve ever seen you without a scarf. 😂

I’m Hhireno and I have a scarf problem.

Last night two of us wearing different scarves tied (well, ”looped?”) the same way. This is the only way I know how to wear a scarf. I don’t have many, but I store them on a multi-armed thing that hangs in the corner of my closet. It’s meant to be a towel rack. Works great.

And yes it is still winter here.

I don't think your previous photo was confusing. : ) But the two scarves/outfits are totally different, so my answer is different too. LOL On this model, if I remember the first photo correctly, her clothing looks a bit more slim-line, or maybe it is just because we can see the waistband, etc. The scarf may also be a bit longer, which I could see as lengthening the torso, and the scarf is not as spread out. So in this particular photo, I don't think it is adding bulk/width. But I still don't like to see a scarf worn in this manner, in most cases. Loop it, throw one end over the shoulder, tie it, etc. I think some of the rectangular scarves are too much fabric to wear in this manner for most people. I agree with others who mentioned that scarves this large seem to work best as a wrap, etc.

@bpath I have a couple of scarf hangers. They have holes in them where you just pull a scarf through. The ones I have will accommodate alot of scarves. I don't do silk or silky type scarves that might wrinkle or imprint from hanging so all mine can be hung.

I have a ton of scarves ( I too don't like patterned clothing). They can range be flattering or unflattering. It depends on the size, the shape, how you tie it and or/wear it, the pattern, and if the color blends or contrasts with the top. Generally, if it has too much fabric it can be unflattering.

This is the way I like to wear them:

This article does a good job of how to wear them and what makes them flattering.

http://www.ladonnadicharme.it/2018/11/24/la-sciarpa-i-trucchi-che-slanciano/#:~:text=If%20you%20would%20like%20to,comparison%20between%20the%20images%20below.

hhireno: "I have a ridiculous number of scarves, of all sizes and materials. I’ve never even thought about if they make me look heavier or out of style. 🤷🏼‍♀️ I like them, and need them to be warm 8 months a year, so I wear them. 🥶🧣Probably if I could stand to wear a turtleneck I wouldnt need scarves. 🐢" Amen, sister!

I have rows of hooks in my closet and I have a long, smooth metal chain draped from one side to the other. I string my many, many scarves through the links in the chain so they are hanging out where I can see them and hold shirts and such up to them to see if I like the combo.

Scarves and other accessories that draw attention to your face and your upper body help minimize and distract from the appearance of the rest of the body.

And the Y shape (v-neck, buttoned jacket, necklace, scarf wrapped around neck and tied) is supposed to be an optical illusion to make you look taller like line B.

But then, I give up. I was thinking that in the OP the scarf acts like bold vertical stripes and vertical stripes are supposed to be slimming, right? But not so slimming if the stripes are too bold. And if they hide the waistline, they can make you look thicker. Then I came across this: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-superhuman-mind/201502/what-makes-you-look-fat-vertical-or-horizontal-lines

"When two people are the same size, a person wearing a horizontal-striped dress appears to be the thinner of the two. In order for the them to appear to be the same size, the person wearing the horizontal stripes would have to be six percent wider than the person dressed in vertically-striped clothing."

So I give up. I *know* that with my ample bosom, horizontal stripes or cables on sweaters are *not* my friend. I think the "bottom" line is do what works best for you.

Be careful who you stand next to, I guess.

Hahahah! Mtnrd, when my friend and I go out to lunch, not only is she a decade younger, but she's 5'10", very slender with legs a mile long...like a living barbie doll. I don't have to wonder who gets the 2nd glances when I'm with her!!

I don't wear scarves......but when I do....Steven Tyler is jealous! 😈🎸🎤

Does it make the OP's Butt look bigger?! You betcha...... 🤓😇🤪

Faron

(The loveable Brat!)

@Faron79, you’re killing me!!!😂😂

I have little wood cubbies on the wall of my walk-in, to keep my scarves in. I only wear infinity scarves.....but...once long ago...I draped one over my shoulder and belted it at the waist.

My favorite scarf right now...is a sheer black & grey with fringe, a plaid.

Skipped down to comment that obviously, the way the scarf is worn in the photo is to provide detail on the item being sold. If it was worn is some stylish way, you'd have little idea of the length, width, etc.

And I thought this was going to be some sort of joke - the only way I think a scarf would make someone's butt look big would be if it were wrapped around their hips 😄

Hee-Heeeeeee!!🤓🤪😜

DW often calls me a Brat. I don't know why......😇😉😈

This thread makes me remember that hilarious commercial where a Woman comes in the kitchen wearing a new dress, & asks the dreaded question, "Does this dress make my butt look big"? The Hubby is reading the paper & doesn't even look away from it, & says the "You betcha"!!! It's so damn funny!!!🤪😂🤣

Can't remember to save my life what the ad is for, but it's good humor!

Faron

I had to look it up.....it's a 2004 Geico ad! Too damn funny!!

I started to title the thread something like ”Does wearing a scarf this way add pounds?” but I figured the ”make my butt look big” would be more intriguing.

I don't think that's Jilly in that Jean-shorts pic. Maybe if it was paired with a "Highway to Hell" tee?!??!!

😈😇😉🤓😜

Besides.....who in the heck wears shorts like THAT nowadays????

Uffda.....😉 I hope that model knows how hefty she looks with that sheet.

Faron 😈😂