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Appreciating our local native plants
Comments (28)And yet those natives just keep getting better and better. Sorry if it sounds like climate bragging, but winter is our season of rebirth here in coastal northern California, and things are just jumping. I've already seen the first Califoria poppies blooming, (along with seeding a whole hillside of them on this latest spec home landscape), and shrubs like the Silk Tassle, Garrya elliptica are looking fantastic right now with their long dangling earrings of white tassles against verdant green foliage. The first of the Ceanothus/California lilacs are also popping, and I have been munching on the Miner's Lettuce, a local native that can actually be kind of weedy in a garden setting, for weeks now. The flowering season will just continue to get more and more colorful through about the end of April, and the Baby Blue Eyes and several species of Clarkia I planted out from 4 inch pots from Annie's Annuals here in Richmond back in December are already bursting into bloom as well. The real possibility of severe water rationing starting later this spring is still threatening us locally, but we even have some 2 days of rains forecast to hit tomorrow, ending this unseasonably warm spell with low 70'sF here in Berkeley. I spent the day up in Sonoma County yesterday wholesale nursery shopping, and enjoyed the scenery immensely, especially the green hillsides with the massive Valley Oaks dotted here and there. I must say, a lot of the Coast Redwoods planted along the Hwy 101 freeway medians did look rather stressed out from several subpar rainfall years, but those redwoods that had planted themselves did not appear to be suffering. The first of the flowering plums are also bursting out in bloom here, as well as all the non-native Acacia dealbata and many varieties of Magnolia soulangeana, M. denudata, M. stellata, etc. The first of the South African Leucadendrons are also getting ready to pump up the volume as well. It sure would be tough to be looking out at gray skies and dirty snow and below freezing temps in comparison to our local conditions, but then again, it isn't exactly tropical swimming in the ocean weather here either, but all in all, a gorgeous California winter's day, and the promise of some much needed rains. And I can't get too worked up about nurseries pigging back on this thread to self-promote, even if it is prohibited. I understand the underlying sense of feeling a bit desperate, what with the slow down in spending, but come on! Be a little more subtle about how you do it, and I bet it would be more successful! It does seem to show that there is no one doing what Spike used to do with yanking threads into the ether......See MoreInternet intermittently hangs
Comments (2)You do not say how long ago you removed Spy Sweeper nor do you mentioned which firewall you are using. Anti spyware programs are almost as important as anti virus programs. If you do not feel inclined to use Spy Sweeper then there is AVG anti malware, Spybot Search & Destroy, Spywareblaster and AdAware. All are good, all are free. However if you select AdAware I would suggest AdAwareSE rather than the 2007 version. I use the first 3 on my computers. Are you using Zonealarm as your firewall? If so there is a possibility that might be causing your problems. It seems with a small number of computers, including mine, that Zonealarm causes problems. I removed it after a very long search and now use Comodo but there are other good free firewalls. You might consider a free online check up of your computer at PC Pitstop, linked below. Just watch where you click and go no where if money is requested. Then click each yellow or red flag showing on completion and read the comments. They will offer to fix issues for a fee but will also tell you how to fix it for free. Nice program in my mind. Here is a link that might be useful: PC Pitstop...See MoreSpecial needs children part II
Comments (109)roni, I did take Alex to an OT who specializes in sensory integration, but her response was puzzling. She had lots of great ideas, strategies, and explanations for what is happening to Alex, but she did not recommend seeing her for therapy because her motor skills were fine (?). I was so disappointed, because Alex loved going there and I think she had the most to offer us. She had lots of neat exercises and equipment for it as well as ideas for releasing stress. I need to go back and reread her report, as I can't exactly remember how she explained her reason of not taking Alex as a patient. She highly recommended having Alex tested for auditory processing, which we did today. Alex crashed after about an hour and a half, which the audiologist said was super for her age even though we have another half hour or so to finish up. She found some very interesting things, she said--areas of "brilliance" and areas of real struggle, things that affect her comprehension. Beginning next week, the audiologist, our counselor, and a child psychologist are going to be sharing a building (all their offices together with a shared reception area) and working as a team for situations like ours. When our counselor told us she was going to moving into the building, I hadn't realized what she meant! We got to see the picture they took of Alex the first time she went in for audiology when she was only 3, which was fun. We go back to finish up the testing on July 1, so we won't know any details until then. Anyway, I am now thinking the OT may have told us to first get the auditory processing testing done as she very much felt there was an issue there. Maybe she could join our "team"! Her office is right next door! But I do remember her telling us she couldn't really do much for Alex since her eye/hand and coordination difficulties do not stem from a motor skills problem. I don't understand what that means. If you have problems, why does it matter whether they are the result of a processing disorder or a motor skills (physical as opposed to neurological?) problem. I would think an OT would deal with both, particularly one who specializes in sensory integration therapy. I really appreciate what you wrote here: If her symptoms have some physical cause behind them, all the counseling in the world won't help. I think you're right on target! After today, though, I am hoping it might be a good component in a multi-faceted approach. Sheesh, that sounded hoity-toity! I mean, I like the idea of counseling much better when it's paired with the other specialties and the therapy is shared. Paige, how wonderful to have a fun summer ahead!! I'm very glad for you. After my first marriage broke up, I had a very great fear of men and swore I would never let anyone get close. I didn't, and although I can't be too sad since I got my wonderful dh by waiting (15 years), I still spent all the years of my older children's upbringing alone. In retrospect, I don't think it was very healthy for them as neither seems to be able to form close relationships with the opposite sex. I'm afraid my suspicion and fear is a legacy I've left them, sigh. They are 26 and 28 now so I guess there is still plenty of time, since it took me half my life :)...See MoreTotal Meltdown in 4, 3, 2, 1....
Comments (6)Deep breaths are a great idea. And trust yourself. Everyone 2nd guesses even the famous like Christopher Peacock, John Gray, Candice Olsen, Lauren Lake...All second guess their choices. Let me tell you, that you can rest easy because your choices are going to be great. The white kitchen with the dark floors is a classic look. It it like the little black dress that is perfect for that cocktail party. You won't go wrong. As for the counter it will look great too. Gold and White are colors that can work. The issue I hear is that you are not sure you like that combination. I suggest you look for another slab of the Giallo O or your find another stone all together. There are some gray tone Giallo that will soften the look of the white cabs but not be stark. Still adding warmth but not yellow. Your choices are really going to be lovely. Even if you go with the gold toned Giallo. It will still look stunning. No worries. To show you that your dark floors and white cabs are going to be amazing, here are some images. I was also sure to only post images with light counters. similar to GO. It is going to look great. You are on the right track!!!! I too went with dark floors and white cabs. I love it. Deep breaths, a dish of ice cream and a bubble bath to get through these worries. ~boxer Kashmir Gold counters very close to Giallo O...See More- 3 years agolast modified: 3 years ago
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