I know there is not a lot of black on this elevation, but I love how the windows are trimmed out and are a feature. You could do the same with cedar to tie in the existing cedar although, I would paint the whole body and leave the deck natural stained to be your tie-in to the new trimmed windows (I don't think it would be wrong to leave the horizontal cedar on the house, it would just look more cohesive painted out). Paint the house white and add black accents.

@Amy Gohl MY suggestions are from the lp smartside lap siding site as are houssaon's. The others are from paint companies like Benjamin Moore & Sherwin Williams. When you are using specific materials post pictures so you don't get suggestions from all over. The one above comes close to Marshland Moss

lots of things you can do. I'd first lose that reddish brown trim color, paint the garage door, add some more modern lights, numbers and take away that lattice! you could replace all of that beat up wood w/some cedar or redwood slats. easy to diy. give them a coat of marine varnish would kind of look like this. imagine the darker garage door color painted around your windows. So this photoshop I got from this: it's Westhighland White and Analytical Gray. notice all the wood accents. the address above the garage, the hardscape, plants. Here are some color combos to go w/the base color your home has the potential. I don't know what's up w/the asphalt, but you need proper edging along the sides. Brick, gravel, pavers, whatever, just do something. it's easy enough to DIY see how these edge the driveway? you can make them yourself. lots of tutorials. you could even do these cement pavers all along the side of the driveway for a more modern look add in the black pebble rock, maybe some DG. I like the wood fence. put your address in big numbers on the front of it. you have a huge expanse of grass, so don't be afraid to do something diff beds under the window

Nope.......we've got to see the total house because the style of home, roof, windows & other materials all have an effect on the colors selected. We want to see the whole front of the home standing back from it.