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Calla lilies, are getting weak!:(
Comments (8)Do you have them in full sun? They prefer partial shade. I have some in full sun, but they burn when it gets into the 90s. There's not much you can do about it, except cut off the burned foliage once the weather cools off this fall. I bought some paper parasols to shade tender flowers when the temps get too high. Perhaps you could do that too. Calla lilies can take as much water as you give them, as a matter of fact, they can grow in ponds. But giving them more water when they are soaked and it is in the 90s will not help this problem. It's just too hot. Good luck. Renee...See MoreEvelyn - my total weakness
Comments (16)Thanks for your nice comments, Rosybunny. One Evelyn is the very large flat bloom, front and center; below it is a smaller, not fully opened Evelyn, with a more apricot color. I love that little porcelain bunny you mentioned. It was my late mother's and she got in Denmark. Very precious to me. Iris gal, I think it's just too hot for peonies in your zone--California is great for roses, but peonies need winter chill, so it's not your fault you got no blooms. Sarah is by far my favorite of the peonies I grow. What a classic--must be well over 100 years old. Diane...See MoreHas my huge tree become dangerously weak? (pics)
Comments (22)What a beautiful gnarly old tree. But I can easily see why you're worried. One other thing to consider is the fact that when a tree starts to decline the roots might be weakening too. How many times have we seen entire trees, roots and all, fallen over in a storm? That happens all the time at our place in the PA. mountains. I'm always worried I'll find some huge hemlock on top of my house. Apple wood makes great firewood and burns beautifully. So if you do have to remove it you might be able to negotiate a reasonable price. We just had 2 huge white pines and a Bradford pear removed from our home. The pear had a partially hollow crotch so every few years we had the tree cut back to remove any excess weight. We even considered cabling the tree but the arborist said it was hollow nearly down to the core. So we opted to have it removed. We paid $2100 which wasn't bad. They couldn't drop the trees so that meant having a climber go up and cut off individual branches. They used a pulley system so the the branches could be controlled while they lowered them to the ground. That price included grinding out the stumps too and hauling it all away. Maybe an arborist could take some cuttings and you could try to grow a new tree or perhaps even graft it. Or maybe you could keep a nice slice and make a table top out of it. Does your son think he could take it down or is it leaning too much toward the house?...See MoreWatching my Mom die (sorry need help , not for the weak )
Comments (25)Hi Lisa11310, I am sad that your sister is having such a difficult time over this experience. My regrets and condolences to all of your Mom's loved ones and I pray that they may find the peace of heart that they need at this stressful time. As for your wish to hold no gathering of loved ones and friends following your death ... ... don't you think that they will want to have a gathering to honour your memory? After my brother's death, some friends wanted to come from some distance, so they held a memorial service about a week or 10 days later, with a table at the front holding a vase with a single red rose. My father died in a car smash a few miles from the farm where he'd lived and moved away from, 40 years earlier. Some friends, mainly family near where he'd lived for a number of years, wanted to attend a gathering, and his former mother-in-law was to have a 100th birthday celebration on a Saturday about 10 days later, so we held a memorial service on that Friday evening. They held another later, near the area in which he'd lived for the most recent 40 years. Folks in both areas indicated their pleasure that they'd had the opportunity for a gathering to honour his memory. Actually, such gatherings are not morbid affairs, but rather a happy time, for if there's a reception at the same time, many attenders have the opportunity to refer to some happy occasion that they remembered, relative to the deceased. Often the loved ones find such an event one that they look back on with satisfaction ... saying that it helped with their process of healing ... brought some focus to it, so to speak. They held such a gathering for my ex-wife, as well, about 10 days after the event (she'd fought cancer for most of a year) and my brother and his wife flew 1,500 miles or so for that weekend, as did some of her relatives from a distance. My children found that quite gratifying. In all three of those situations, I think that the person had been cremated, not that that fact has much bearing on the situation, I think. I think that many of us like to have an occasion related to the leave-taking of someone that we've known and loved, rather than just leaving such leave-taking being sort of left up in the air. ((((((Sister ... and Lisa ... plus other loved ones feeling bereft)))))) ole joyful...See MoreCoffee Dude
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