Thank you ... that looks really nice.. gives me an idea what the glass tile border will look like... i have pics.. but don't know how to add to this post.. going to repost.

I totally agree with looking at the "whites" of various paint manufacturers. Most of them are really not white. You could color match to the tile, then have it made half or quarter strength. I could see a yellow -- I am thinking of a more muted yellow, something along the lines yellow split peas (which, come to think of it, I haven't seen in the grocery for a long time) so it doesn't compete with the pop of the tiles. I wouldn't go with glossy paint for the same reason. There is a house in my neighborhood that is painted a similar shade of blue, with medium-light green shutters and trim. It looks fabulous. I wouldn't suggest that strong of a green for your wall but greenish undertones in all of your paint choice would probably work very well.

White subway tile or just paint. None of the stone look tile go with the counter. As a buyer I'd rather have to tile a backsplash than rip out a backsplash and then tile it! Discordant/jarring/glaring backsplashes are one of my biggest turnoffs. I think it's the area where most people make a mistake in their renovations... so many people want to add "interest." Most places need less interest, not more. On the other hand, lighting is crucial. Would far rather someone put in the necessary lighting and just paint the backsplash. But that's me! Your mileage may vary! Good luck :)

Walker Zanger has great tiles. I'd select something with a handmade look, with texture. Maybe a crackle, or wavy appearance. Also something with a slight color variation so it's not totally monochromatic. This Walker Zanger tile comes in several colors: This is a glazed brick and comes in various colorways: Love these green tiles! These are Moroccan Zeliige tiles: Fishtail tiles in a dark color make a great statement: Hand Glazed terracotta in turquoise works beautifully in this white kitchen: You could also use a pencil liner for an accent: Staggered 4x4 tiles in a pretty blue: These are all from my ideabook "Backsplash tiles and patterns" if you'd like to see more.