Fairy toast - who wants some?
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WANTED: cuttings of 'Fairy Castle' Acanthocereus tetragonus
Comments (2)I apologize for my delayed reply - hadn't had opportunity to log in even for email in well over a week! I'm good to go though, while they weren't posted to the thread some private contacts were made and now my beloved "Fairy Castle" has had a more than suitable replacement received. Thanks so much to everyone who took the time to read my request and reply in kind! It was great to "meet" others that like and have this plant in their collections!...See MoreFor Pagan--Fairy standard--the way The Fairy should be grown
Comments (11)That is Macie who we lovingly call Macie-Moo. She is a Shih Tzu but she does look a lot like a Tibetan Terrier. Tibetians get up to 25 pounds. Moo weighs in at 10. She was up to almost 12 after spending a week at my moms while I was out of town. Mom couldn't resist that little begging face....and Macie came back looking like a stuffed sausage!! She doesnt mind posing for pictures. Here she is with her 'summer cut' smiling for the camera from her favorite place in the yard....the pond's edge. By the way...couldn't you over-winter a Fairy standard (in a pot) in your garage? Might be worth a try!...See Morefather of the groom toast
Comments (4)First of all -- my sympathies to you. I can only imagine how hard it would be to have my child marry someone who seemed to have no interest in our family. I hope that someday -- perhaps when there are grandchildren, or she just matures a bit -- that will change. I understand how you feel. And I understand the line you are trying to walk: you want to be polite and not unpleasant, but you don't want to be hypocritical. I urge you not to try to do that by being terse and distant yourselves, and certainly not in a toast. I fear it will backfire for you. Recently, our very close friends' daughter married a guy they don't especially like, and they really dislike his parents. At the wedding, the bride's brother gave a toast that sounded like he was trying to do exactly what you said you want to do, but his hostility and disappointment were obvious. It made everyone uncomfortable, it probably made his sister unhappy, and it made him look small and mean. The parents had as little to do with their new son-in-law's family as they could all weekend, and they refused to attend the reception his parents gave in their city. We who love them dearly are watching all this with alarm. They think they are being "true to their feelings." We all see that they couldn't be pushing their beloved daughter away from them more effectively if they were trying. Acceptance does work two ways, even if our child's spouse wouldn't have been our choice. Please don't let that happen with your son. A toast is like a eulogy -- it's not a time to focus on negatives, and no one thinks it's hypocritical to say nice things that may not quite be true. I would try to choke it back and make as warm and as nice a toast as I could. Start by thanking your hosts and saying how lovely everything is. Then thank all your family and friends from sharing this milestone with you. Now you're halfway through! But eventually you have to say something to the couple, I know. If you simply can't say that you love Petunia and you are so glad your son chose her, perhaps tell a sweet story about when he was a little boy, or pass on a story or bit of wisdom from your own marriage, or how you knew that he was in love with her, or something like that. Then wish them many years of health and happiness -- I assume you do wish that! -- and you are done. Good luck. I hope it turns out better than you fear....See MoreA Fairy who didn't believe in children
Comments (5)We had a set of those books as well, that our children (now26-35) did read. When the oldest was a babe in arms, my husband's aunt gave them to us...I don't know if they had been her books, or her children's. The oldest two read them a lot, the others not so much. I should get them out of the attic. What's wonderful about having them, is that they have stories in them that are no longer available...like "Little Black Sambo", which is such a fun story! And can be used to teach so many things, including changing views of the world, censorship, political correctness...and that sometimes a story is just a story....See More- 4 years ago
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