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Comments (35)Hey Ann, long time no "see". :) I don't know if silver eleagnus (winter blooming eleagnus) is hardy in your zone but it makes a wonderful hedge. I've got it as a secondary hedge behind the leyland cypress so when that goes, there's still some privacy left. The first plants of it that I planted (gulp) 7 years ago are 10' tall now and they were only 1 gallon specimens then. I've rooted countless others since then as it's really easy to do. Stick a trimming in the ground in fall and it's taking off the next spring. A big bonus is that it blooms in late fall and smells divine. My black bamboo is supposed to be a runner, but in 5 years, it's barely grown 4' in width. It has matured enough to reach 15' high and the canes turn black though. It's lovely! A mixture of it and some white striped passalong clumping bamboo is the basis for a future "Japanese are" if I live that long. LOL! Another neighbor has some shorter holly planted boy/girl boy/girl in a close enough configuration that it all looks like it has red berries in winter. Only problem with it has been the invasion of the honeysuckle. Crawling around under a holly trying to get to the root of they honeysuckle is BAD job! Even on a "single point" holly! LOL! The absolute cheapest hedge you can grow is probably cedar. The ones I planted 16 years ago on this property are now 20' tall and totally screen the neighbors on one side. They were just tiny "bird droppings" plants that I harvested from the woods at the back when I planted them. Those are probably lining your property everywhere waiting on you to either mow them down or brushkiller them. The quick hedge would be the silver eleagnus in larger containers and plant the tiny cedars 15' away and then you'll have a 2 layer hedge with enough room to get in and weed out the blackberries and oak seedlings. Or, there's always poke salad. It's hopeless to weed out anyway, so go with the flow and use it's invasive evil properties! :)...See MoreThis made me sad
Comments (21)I think the reason I might be empathetic is because I have a 13 month old baby. Already the memory of some of the harder times when he was younger has started to fade and I expect that by the time he is 30, the worst of the worst will be long gone from memory. My little guy has an awful dairy intolerance and had horrible reflux when he was first born until I cut all dairy out of my diet (he is breastfed) - I mean hardcore - no processed foods because 95% of them have some kind of dairy in them... he was THAT sensitive. It took about 6 weeks of no dairy for all of his symptoms to go away completely and we had about 2 nights of decent sleep before the teething kicked in at 2 months. Yes, 2 months. Do you know how hard it is to deal with a baby who is teething at 2 months? All they do is scream and there is not much you can do for them - and yes, we tried everything. Now he can chew on something, hold something cold in his mouth where it hurts etc. At 2 months all they know is pain and even tylenol only did the job for 2 out of every 4 hours and he'd spend the other 2 out of every 4 hours crying. And yes, he wanted to be held constantly. And for over a year I NEVER got more than 3 hours of sleep in a row. He's breastfed and has always refused a bottle and is extremely stubborn about what he wants and when he wants to nurse, nothing else will do. He has never taken a pacifier either. Straight from the tap only and the only pacifier he has ever wanted was me. And yes, there were days when I didn't even get the 2 3 hour stretches of sleep at night. Hell there were WEEKS when I didn't even get that. There was the 2 weeks after we tried to transition to him to his crib when he woke up crying for me every half hour even after we brought him back into our bed - I finally stopped beating myself up for being a horrible mom who couldn't make her kid sleep by himself and embraced the cosleeping thing. There are the weeks he is actually CUTTING his teeth - it takes about 2 weeks from the time it starts to poke through to the time it actually pokes through where he is up every half hour wanting some comfort. And yeah, I can see that there might have been times when knowing that he doesn't understand the words I am saying anyway I might have said something less than nice to him. I remember one time going somewhere with hubby and baby in the car and he was crying in the car seat after crying all day and I JUST COULDN'T TAKE IT anymore... after months and months of no sleep and no break and no way to take a break, I just felt trapped and I snapped. I jumped out of a moving car without my jacket and walked home 5 miles along the side of the road in 22 degree weather with thin pants and a sweater. I think on my way out I said something like "I don't care what happens to either of you, just go away!!!" Nice, huh? I arrived home thoroughly frozen with a thick layer of ice caked on my face from the tears and then the sub freezing wind to hubby (who had been following me around for over an hour to make sure nothing bad happened to me) just pulling in the driveway. The baby fell asleep and had a short nap and woke up in a much better mood and I felt like the WORST mother in the world. But you know what? I forgave myself. I left the boy with his father, they were both fine, I was fine, the walk in the cold was therapeutic. 99% of the time I go out with my son and all I hear is how gorgeous he is, how good he is, how happy he looks, how he's got the best ride ever (I still wear him even though he is 23+ lbs and almost 32" tall), what a big smile he has, how well behaved he is. But catch me in a dark moment and who knows what they would think. Prolonged sleep deprivation does horrible things to even the most pulled together person. I've learned to not judge people based on a 5 minute contact (I never really did before, this has just been reinforced in spades). Maybe in 30 years I'll forget it all and I will end up like my MIL, who swears her kids never cried when they were little, loved everyone who wanted to hold them and were just all around easygoing little people who never gave her a bit of trouble. I hope not because I think empathy is a good thing to have, especially in a society where we are more and more distant from each other every day....See MoreExperience with IKEA Quartz Fabricators?
Comments (18)Here is my experience. I received 4 quotes on 45 sq. ft. of Caesarstone. The IKEA quote was $500 less so I decided to take the chance on working with a low bidder, and working with a large corporation if something went wrong. Immediately after paying the amount of $2600, I had second thoughts. I also realized that the estimate was incorrect as several of the requested cuts were not listed on the estimate form, but were listed on the form for extra costs. The IKEA estimate had just risen by $350. And I realized that by paying the total costs upfront I did not have any leverage with the fabricator if the countertop installation was wrong. No problem, the IKEA paperwork said I could cancel with no penalty. And then it became a nightmare and time waster. IKEA said I had to cancel with Caesarstone, Caesarstone said I had to cancel with IKEA, IKEA said they have no record of my payment, the receipt has not been acknowledged.....and on and on. Three weeks later I still do not have a refund. In the meantime a local fabricator installed the countertops and they look fabuluous. I am still on hold with IKEA....See MoreAwful Tile Job - Advice needed
Comments (46)That photo that you posted of the partly tiled shower is evidence that they didn't paint on a waterproof membrane. It looks like they thinsetted the joints (the white you see), perhaps with mesh tape, and the rest if is the bare cement board. All waterproof membranes have color to them, so if they had painted something on it, you would have seen no white, and it would be red, or green, or purple, depending on the brand. It sounds to me like your GC is just getting answers from whoever did the tiling and passing them along without understanding or verifying. We used "something like this?" Really? WTH kind of explanation is that?...See More- 4 years agolast modified: 4 years ago
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