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It's July 2014- How is Your Build Progressing? Part 3
Comments (104)My first picture! We have survey markers telling the excavator where to dig. Excavators were supposed to be moving their equipment today, but no sign of them yet. The surveyor was supposed to be done in 2-3 days. So I said "go" on Thursday, they had questions, I confirmed they had everything on Friday, and I figured Wed at the latest. On Wednesday, I get an email from the survey company. "Did you want us to do this?" Uh, yeah! I thought it was done by now! I told them the excavators were coming today, so they made it a rush job and got it done yesterday. I went by the lot today to take some pictures. I also needed shots of the neighbour's "ready to fall down even before we start digging" fence. Just in case we get accused of damaging it. I'm driving up the alley, and a new house several doors down is having some landscaping done, and for some reason the guy has his equipment spread out in the alley. So there's not much room to get through, and there's a van coming the other way. We each take turns pulling over so the other can get through. He waves thank-you and goes on his way. As he's passing me, I realize it's BIL's friend who is going to be helping on the build. He's checking out the lot like I am, and didn't even recognize me. :P Also, while out running errands, I noticed a new bathroom showroom. It's a new location of a company I've already got quotes from. The quotes were ridiculous, like, over MSRP on every single thing. So, I'm not buying from them. But a big new showroom might give me a chance to pick out some things. Not a single item had ANY information. No price, no model number, and in some cases, not even a brand name. I asked if this is just a symptom of being new, they haven't put up the info cards yet? "Oh, no, the showroom designers decided that the info cards made the display look too busy, so we don't have any." Really? I think the fact that you have 22 shower heads in a 4'x4' square area makes it look busy. Info cards would make it USEFUL. Oh, well. I don't have to waste my time ever going in there again. It's ridiculous, this isn't some hoity-toity designer brand bathroom boutique. They've got a reputation for being a big supplier of basic plumbing supplies. Maybe they're trying to become the hoity-toity types? I think the ensuite tile is picked. I'll probably get a lighter version of the one I had originally wanted. It's also discontinued, but there's lots of stock as of yesterday. DH is going on his annual mountain bike vacation tomorrow, taking my car for 10 days because it's better on gas. That means I'll be driving his big 'ole beast of a truck, so I'll go get the tile then. If I miss it again, there are a few other options that are just as nice and only slightly more expensive. So no need to panic. As for windows, the cheaper guy's products are much nicer. But, he's still waiting on his 3rd party certification that allows him to sell his window with a sticker. If we have windows without the sticker, we won't pass the city inspection. So, we're giving him another week to find out when that's coming. I am also investigating getting a Direct Buy membership. They also sell windows. So if they can get the ones we want, at a price that makes the membership fee worthwhile, then that's another possibility. Has anyone else looked into getting a Direct Buy membership for their build? Did you find it was worth it? SIL's mother has one, and she swears by it. But she buys a lot of stuff for her 3 daughters and their families. My cousin built his house a few years ago and got the membership. But I'm not sure he calculated the cost of the membership into his "savings". I mean, it costs $5000 or $6000, depending on who you ask. So you have to save at least that much to break even. And a lot of people are probably "saving" that much only because they're buying stuff they wouldn't otherwise buy. For example, you could get a $800 dishwasher and be very happy with it. But you go to DB, and they can get you the $2000 dishwasher for $1200. So you "save" $800. But you've still spent $400 more than you would have without the DB membership. Speaking of windows, I realized that we had quoted the super insulated, fancy opening, custom coloured windows on the garage. That's a waste of money. The garage isn't heated, so single pane is fine. We want them to open, but sliders is good enough. And the colour doesn't matter. So I got a quote from Costco for 3 basic windows. I almost choked when I got it. It's almost as much as the fancy windows that were quoted with the house. I also asked for door pricing, since I don't like what the window guys are offering. And they've spec'd out 1980s Home Depot style doors at several thousand dollars each....See MoreThis made me sad
Comments (21)I think the reason I might be empathetic is because I have a 13 month old baby. Already the memory of some of the harder times when he was younger has started to fade and I expect that by the time he is 30, the worst of the worst will be long gone from memory. My little guy has an awful dairy intolerance and had horrible reflux when he was first born until I cut all dairy out of my diet (he is breastfed) - I mean hardcore - no processed foods because 95% of them have some kind of dairy in them... he was THAT sensitive. It took about 6 weeks of no dairy for all of his symptoms to go away completely and we had about 2 nights of decent sleep before the teething kicked in at 2 months. Yes, 2 months. Do you know how hard it is to deal with a baby who is teething at 2 months? All they do is scream and there is not much you can do for them - and yes, we tried everything. Now he can chew on something, hold something cold in his mouth where it hurts etc. At 2 months all they know is pain and even tylenol only did the job for 2 out of every 4 hours and he'd spend the other 2 out of every 4 hours crying. And yes, he wanted to be held constantly. And for over a year I NEVER got more than 3 hours of sleep in a row. He's breastfed and has always refused a bottle and is extremely stubborn about what he wants and when he wants to nurse, nothing else will do. He has never taken a pacifier either. Straight from the tap only and the only pacifier he has ever wanted was me. And yes, there were days when I didn't even get the 2 3 hour stretches of sleep at night. Hell there were WEEKS when I didn't even get that. There was the 2 weeks after we tried to transition to him to his crib when he woke up crying for me every half hour even after we brought him back into our bed - I finally stopped beating myself up for being a horrible mom who couldn't make her kid sleep by himself and embraced the cosleeping thing. There are the weeks he is actually CUTTING his teeth - it takes about 2 weeks from the time it starts to poke through to the time it actually pokes through where he is up every half hour wanting some comfort. And yeah, I can see that there might have been times when knowing that he doesn't understand the words I am saying anyway I might have said something less than nice to him. I remember one time going somewhere with hubby and baby in the car and he was crying in the car seat after crying all day and I JUST COULDN'T TAKE IT anymore... after months and months of no sleep and no break and no way to take a break, I just felt trapped and I snapped. I jumped out of a moving car without my jacket and walked home 5 miles along the side of the road in 22 degree weather with thin pants and a sweater. I think on my way out I said something like "I don't care what happens to either of you, just go away!!!" Nice, huh? I arrived home thoroughly frozen with a thick layer of ice caked on my face from the tears and then the sub freezing wind to hubby (who had been following me around for over an hour to make sure nothing bad happened to me) just pulling in the driveway. The baby fell asleep and had a short nap and woke up in a much better mood and I felt like the WORST mother in the world. But you know what? I forgave myself. I left the boy with his father, they were both fine, I was fine, the walk in the cold was therapeutic. 99% of the time I go out with my son and all I hear is how gorgeous he is, how good he is, how happy he looks, how he's got the best ride ever (I still wear him even though he is 23+ lbs and almost 32" tall), what a big smile he has, how well behaved he is. But catch me in a dark moment and who knows what they would think. Prolonged sleep deprivation does horrible things to even the most pulled together person. I've learned to not judge people based on a 5 minute contact (I never really did before, this has just been reinforced in spades). Maybe in 30 years I'll forget it all and I will end up like my MIL, who swears her kids never cried when they were little, loved everyone who wanted to hold them and were just all around easygoing little people who never gave her a bit of trouble. I hope not because I think empathy is a good thing to have, especially in a society where we are more and more distant from each other every day....See MoreDistributor, Fabricator, Stone Yard...
Comments (9)I'm a KD so I guess that makes me a distributor. In my area there are at over 3 dozen fabricators within range (up to an hour away), and even more full yards (in the Northeast). A few also stock slabs but are not yards. Most of fabricators will give me a small trade discount. While it is not really reasonable to "make margin" on counters as a kitchen dealer, some places try to get close. That makes the counters a bit more expensive than going directly to the fabricator. In some cases you get something for that, in others you don't. Many dealers will price your counter with several vendors and then offer you the least expensive. Having worked with many of the fabricators, either somewhere I was employed or where a client got the counters on their own, I don't find that a good way to select a fabricator. Simply put there are a very few fabricators I know of who are relatively problem free and have superior service if needed. ALL of them are NOT the cheapest. For us, instead of trying to make margin, we simply sell the tops at the same price as the fabricator. We make very little on them, yet we do include the added services of helping to source slabs at yards by phone and email, working things out with the fabricator, being present for template and install. Why? First- I want my clients ENTIRE job to come out well. I'm already using pricier sources, if I were to try and make a decent dollar on them more customers would go out price shopping. Some of those will end up with a problem, which is heartbreaking. To encourage them to use the people we use we keep the prices reasonable. It is not largesse, simply customer satisfaction. Second is self protection-, if I supply a top and the fabricator messes up it ends up costing me more in time and money than I can make on it. Finally those services are included because I think we should be doing something for our money. OTOH- We only sell counters if we are supplying cabinets, never by themselves. Will gladly supply the contact info for who we use, just won't have anything to do with it. Similarly if a kitchen client decides to use their own fabricator we have absolutely nothing to do with it other than supplying a drawing for quote, with the notation "only suitable for quote, responsibility for details of template and installation are assumed by the client". The point of all of this is that even for our business making a profit we do not shop price. We only shop service. So if you go into a "dealer" and they offer to price your top at 3 places ask why and what makes each different. Then ask what how they handle selection, template, and install. Note: I do now use 3 places only because of logistics (I cover a large area) they price within a few dollars of each other as a rule. Sure the bargain places do many jobs that come out just fine. That means that someone somewhere will recommend them, but someone else wants to kill them. The fabricators I use all have superior service so every job come out fine. Looking for good referrals- find out who the pros and dealers that care are using, they can't afford problems. There is no guarantee that paying more will get you what you pay for, due diligence is still needed. You may not get what you expect if you don't pay for it....See MoreProfession Remodel Cost - is it reasonable?
Comments (18)A fellow Pittsburgher here - over in the North Hills. And wow - your project sounds rather similar to ours - 1950's house, removing the DR/kitchen wall, getting rid of bulkheads, etc. For the health of our marriage, we are not DIY people either - better to get someone else in who can do it for us...remodels are stressful enough, would rather someone else to have to be upset with if things need fixed! Quotes for us have been ALL over the place. We thought that we had someone lined up and he disappeared off the face of the Earth! So, we're looking again. We're looking for custom cabinets because of some of the special things we want and prices for those have ranged from low 20's to around 50k - plywood, full overlay, frameless, dark stained cherry, Shaker, almost all drawers, Blum hardware - full extension, soft close....but we are going to have a load of cabinets and we're having a custom banquette built also...so, our cabinetry is pretty extensive. We're having a tough time coming up with a GC right now, but just got a quote from the guy who has done some general "handyman" work for us and we trust in him. His quote didn't include the install of the cabinets and is not inclusive of materials (he bills us at cost - picks up what we need at Home Depot or wherever)...but is tear out of old kitchen, demo of the wall, repair of the ceiling, electrical wiring, installation of two replacement windows, install vent and damper for exhaust fan, etc. and we're around 6k. But again, this isn't including the install of the cabinets and doesn't include materials costs. As others have mentioned, don't skimp on lighting. As much as I hate my current kitchen, if I had adequate lighting, it would make it much easier to work in the kitchen. Lighting can be decorative in nature, but in a kitchen it really is about making it truly functional. The value of your home is a bit higher than the value of ours and we will be putting more money into our kitchen than you are. BUT, the kitchen is going to be a very usable space for us - one that I will spend significant time in because I enjoy cooking. We are likely over-improving and wouldn't recoup our money. If we were planning on selling in the near future, we would modify our plans greatly. However, we are very happy where we are located - quiet neighborhood, easy access to major highways, and a nice piece of ground...the previous owners were the original owners (house built in the 1950's) and we absolutely know why they never moved - we have a treasure. Seeing as our plans are to stay here, we want things to be how we would like them rather than stick within numbers of what others feel is appropriate to put into a remodel of a house in our price range. What I'm saying is - if this is a longer term home for you, and you have the means, get what will make you happy to have long term. If you get the laminate countertop now, is that what you are keeping or will you want to replace in in two years or so when the honeymoon of having a new kitchen has worn off. If that's likely, then you will have paid twice for something. So, be honest too with yourself on where you've decided to cut back...if you can honestly say you can do it and be happy, then by all means, do so. But, if there's even the slightest suspicion that you will long for what you originally were planning, you may benefit yourself in modifying your overall budget, IMO....See More- 4 years agolast modified: 4 years ago
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