"I can't seem to find this in one shower system without it being an off off off brand."

You or someone knowledgeable just needs to combine the components needed to make a working system that meets your requirements. You could do that using, for example, single-brand products from Delta, Kohler, Hansgrohe, and others. Here's one from Signature Hardware. I think you would need a rough-in valve, valve trim, diverter, two shower heads, two shower arms, hand shower and wall supply/mount. You could simplify your configuration by using just the rain shower and hand shower. For flexibility mount the hand shower on a slide bar.

"I can live without the wall mount shower head as long as the handheld is powerful. I like rip your skin off strong showers lol"

Yeah, lol. Those days are gone; every valve and shower head contains a flow limiter. Flow limits are very low for components purchased in or sent to California. Manufacturers try to make the flow seem by injecting air into the water flow. Otherwise there would be just a dribble.

-- amateur shower set picker

We have hansgrohe also with slidebar and diverted. It works great! The showroom had a working shower so you could see what the water flow felt like with different manufacturers/products. It was helpful to actually feel the water flow. They are all a bit different.

Look up Kohler HydroRail and Delta Emerge. Pay attention to the flow rate of the heads that you attach to these. The strongest will be around 2.5 gallons per minute. Some states will only allow limited/restricted flow, so be aware of that.

Be less focused on the look of it. Rip out the restrictor inside. Skip the ceiling mount : ) Get a Speakman shower head for the wall mount arm, and and don't look for a blast of rip your skin off, any other way.

The purpose of ceiling is to mimic................rain lol

Thanks everyone!

IMO lose the rain shower head and concentrate on a good regular shower head with a hand held .

@Shasta: "We have hansgrohe also with slidebar and diverted"

I showered under the hansgrohe 27112 Raindance E at a hotel. It was the best shower I'd ever taken. The shower head was too wide for my 36"-wide shower so I bought the hansgrohe 27185 Croma ShowerPipe which also works well.

If you have a Fergusons near you, or another local independent plumbing showroom near you, they can put this all together for you. Not everything needs to be the same brand. Our rain head is an 8" round Jaclo (about $250), and our fixed showerhead and handheld are Delta universal fixtures. Where we live it's okay to have 2 separate valves, so we have a 3-way Delta Trinsic pressure balance valve for the rainhead and fixed head; and then we have a separate Delta Trinsic valve for the hand-held which is positioned low and next to our bench. A professional at a plumbing supply store can put it all together for you. If you live in CA or another place that has stricter water rules, you will only be allowed to have 1 valve. Just tell them what you want in terms of function, and they will make sure you have all the right rough-ins. And then you pick the trims (the look). Trims don't have to be the exact same brand and model name across valve, showerhead and rain head, just coordinate so they look nice together.