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Comments (17)Alexa, my good friend with whom we all had Thanksgiving last year moved to Hollywood this summer. Two of her daughters, my two children, and two of the children of our mutual friend are also either in Southern CA or closer to Hollywood than here. So it's been decided that we will all meet there for Thanksgiving. The guest list is now at about 20. Her charming but smallish Hollywood Dell home will be bursting at the seams. The division of labor isn't completely decided but we have concluded that it will be simpler to order a couple of turkeys from a market in her neighborhood than to try to cook turkeys and all the trimmings. Several of us will stay in a hotel near her. I will cook a small turkey ahead of time to have drippings and broth for stuffing (Silver Palate Grand Marnier Stuffing) and gravy. I will make both ahead of time. The stuffing I will assemble and freeze to be baked there. The gravy I will make a day ahead but not freeze. My gravy is basic, a roux from turkey drippings and some butter and flour to which I add turkey broth and white wine. Whisk like crazy. I make Silver Palate Thanksgiving potatoes which are sacrosanct in our family. I am extra excited because I invited an old friend from boarding school to join us. I haven't seen her since we were 17. She moved from Wisconsin to Scottsdale this month and is game to come to Hollywood for Thanksgiving with her daughter who is 18. The spare turkey I make here will become Thanksgiving dinner for my house bound ex. He is learning to cook and can make his own sides. So dat's da plan....See MoreStep-mom to a child who doesn't speak english...
Comments (12)Hi Cindrillon, I feel obliged to respond to your post, since it mirrors my life so closely. I am an American, married to a Frenchman living in France with 2 step sons (6 and 8 years old). Although we have them EOW plus 1-2 days per week. I have a couple of questions. How long have you been living in France? Do you work? Do you have many friends here? I ask this because I started following this forum because I was having major problems adapting to life with my step sons when I moved here 2 years ago. I felt they were rude, babied, not very kind towards me, etc. And I wasnt completely wrong. They yelled at adults and no one reprimanded them, they didnÂt do anything for themselves, couldnÂt (still canÂt) tie their shoes, didnÂt dress themselves, had at potty chair that they still used! Keep in mind they were 4 and 6 at the time. I think a lot of this has to do with culture. To me it seems the French donÂt value kids being independent as much as Americans do. It also has to do with guilt on my DHÂs side. Plus, everyone was so busy fighting and getting through the divorce earlier that I think, unfortunately the kids kind of slipped through the cracks a little bit in the "life lessons" department. However, I think a major part was me too. I was in a new country, I couldnÂt speak the language well, I felt overwhelmed, tired, and every problem was magnified. Plus, since my life was so narrow (only DH and work) when something was going wrong it felt like my entire world was going wrong. But, it gets better. The kids adjusted, your DH will adjust and YOU will adjust. My DH was good and stepped up to all the "parenting". He let (and lets) me have time by myself if needed. Whereas before he felt we needed to re-create a family and do everything together. But you canÂt force it. (It probably will come, though.) Get out and about. Do things for yourself. Pick up a hobby. I wonÂt say learn the language because thatÂll come naturally (and trust me, the last thing I wanted to do after a long day and a 3 hour round trip commute was sit my butt in a language class). Now weÂre happily married, waiting on our 1st baby together (which the Step Sons are thrilled about), with ups and downs like any other family. I still get annoyed at the kids but itÂs more for "kid" things than "step-kid" things. So, to recap my rambling post Make sure you DH does the "parenting", but jump in for the fun times and try to build a bond. Try your hardest to be nice to your SS. He can sense your feelings even if you donÂt voice them, and youÂll get nowhere. Take time for yourself and try to build your life here. Be patient. Problems always seem magnified when your dealing with so much change to begin with. I know this stuff isnÂt always easy, and IÂm still working on it, too. But I found that it helped me immensely. Also, thereÂs an online group in France for parents called MESSAGE. Maybe look into that. TheyÂve got great support and are always organizing outings. And if youÂd like, let me know and you can email me personally. ItÂs always better when someone understands your situation. Hope things get better. Hang in there....See MoreSpeaking of Green Power
Comments (2)Solar and Wind mills are getting more popular. Not so much individual windmills (a few families have them outside of the city) but wind-farms. A lot of debate.....health-issues associated with them. The newest largest Walmart has a solar roof, other businesses are run by solar, The Bay retail store has 2 windmills. A couple of homes have solar....just a few. I'd love, love to have a home run by a windmill or solar....See MoreSpeaking of Hyperloops...
Comments (0)...which I was, tangentially, in another thread, I found this article in the L.A. Times very interesting. It describes the details of how Elon Musk has inspired two companies to work on the project. One has a lot of funding and several dozen employees. The other is using the kind of let's-put-on-a-show, this-is-going-to-be-cool kind of organization that one usually sees in web startups and other application oriented development, rather than nuts and bolts engineering. They have a lot of high experience, high knowledge people who have day jobs contributing their free time and thoughts/abilities in exchange for stock options which will only pay off if the thing succeeds not just technologically, but as a profitable business. In other words, they're volunteers with lottery tickets. I find the whole idea of coming up with a massive idea and letting private sector competition sort it out very interesting. Musk has the clout and fortune to make things happen on the far end, once it's ready to be built (or, that is, one would hope that he will do once the very future time comes). Even more, however, I love the idea of getting able people working on it just because it's cool, with just enough reward incentive that they won't feel like someone else is getting all the gravy on their backs. If there's gravy, they'll get theirs. The model has already been tested on a less monumental scale, and works. Any thoughts? Would you want to work on a crowd sourced project? Are you ready to change the world?...See MoreCA Kate z9
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