Can't really help other than to say my Dad does the same thing when he sits on a couch for any length of time. He usually sites in an armchair. In my Dad's case, I've suggested therapeutic pillows several times for other issues, but if I suggest something he won't do it.

She shares the couch with her sister( and a bowl of popcorn) Its a summer cottage and adding an armchair isnt option, unfortunately. They love watching these shows together. (tonight was episode one of ”Emily in Paris”.) I should also add that its not my cottage .

OMG I hope my sister and I are like that when we grow up! How sweet they are still summering at 80+

I'd ask an OT.

I just remembered that sometimes I have seen my Dad on a couch propping himself up with a couple of stacked pillows that he rests his arms on. Sort of like creating a little armchair within the couch . . . I'll bet there are inserts you could get . . . I will be interested to see what others' experiences have been . . .

Edited to add that you need to get them a loveseat, then they can prop each other up! :)

I sounds like she could us half of a "husband pillow" (a term I've never heard before but think I know what you mean). I googled and found this...one on each side or maybe just on the side she lists to? Not pretty but maybe just wrapped in some fabric or a throw?

Arm pillow support

Or maybe something like this?

Arm Supports

this place has all kinds of bolster pillows...this wedge might work or may be too large, but one of their others might be just right:

Bolster pillows

I was thinking a bolster pillow too like they use on day beds...only take the cover off and then cut it vertically so it fits sideways on the sofa cushion...you can then have the cover tailored to fit or you can just fold up the excess fabric... which would be lumpy looking, but it would work.

Mine may be a goofy suggestion, but I often use my BF's classical guitar knee rest as a very comfortable side/arm rest when I'm sitting on the sofa. It has a firm foam filling and the shape is somehow very pleasing and comfortable. :) This is the one he bought:

https://www.stringsbymail.com/dynarette-guitar-support-cushion-xl-5-inches-4542.html

These are all great ideas. Thanks, guys. I'm going to show them to my cousin (who also has a cottage here,) but in the meantime, I've taken a very firm bed pillow, folded it in half, and jammed it into a pillowcase. Not the prettiest solution, but it may do the trick for now.

Joanne

How high would it have to be? Another goofy solution may be to use a weighted boat cup holder. we have these on a boat. They are heavy enough to stay in place and work nicely as arm rests

she would also have a spot for her beer.😊

Oly - how did I not know there was half a husband? I've never seen those!

Jo, you say she leans to the right. Does it help if she is seated on the other end of the sofa?

I'm assuming this is not her cottage? I know you said it is not an option to add a chair to that room, but I just wanted to tell you that as my grandfather lost mobility, we had great luck with a lift chair. Just in case your aunt gets to that point (he had trouble getting up out of a chair/sofa, etc. if very deep at all). It was a great help for us.

What about some physical therapy to help improve her strength? It's never too late and Medicare might cover it...

My Dad did much better when physical therapy was available. Our facility shut down during the pandemic (not because of access, because of staffing) and hasn't been able to re-open. I'm assuming/hoping it will eventually. The person running it had to have major surgery and recovery. That's how limited medical care is in my community. My Dad really enjoys it. He does not do stuff on his own. He considers going up and down the stairs once a day exercise. It is, but hardly targeted to keep him healthy. Instead, it's rather worrisome, but he isn't going to listen to anyone on that.

No pillow updates but just wanted to share that my aunts stayed up until one am binging on ”Emily in Paris”. They watched until the laptop battery died. They were tired the next day but said it was worth it and that they would do it again. Love these two broads!❤️

I enjoyed that show as well. And yes, I binged it until the wee hours one night when I couldn't sleep.