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Comments (35)I think you should just try to pay the guy the entire amount if at all possible. He is being very nice by taking the lower bid and he will probably lose the use of his car for a few days while its in the shop being fixed. If he wanted to, he could probably ask you to cover the charge of a rental car for his use during this time. I would consider myself lucky that he isn't doing that and just pay him if you can....See MoreSpeaking of barking dogs
Comments (5)Around here, pointing your downspout toward a neighbor is against code--don't they have to have them pointed to the street or toward the back yard? I'd be checking with the building code official on that one, sooner rather than later. Hopefully, your dogs will get used to the new neighbors after a bit. When we bought our house, the previous owners (6 dogs) moved next door. Their dogs were out back in pens in the daytime, and barked EVERYtime we went to our cars or the garage. But they soon got to recognize us and now they rarely bark for us....See MoreA car seat that may help prevent deaths in hot cars
Comments (25)I saw this the other day, and my first thought was, what a silly, ill-thought design. I don't think it will be very effective. You turn the ignition off, it makes a noise. That's it? So every time you go somewhere, you can count on hearing a very annoying noise as soon as you turn the car off (to go with all the other annoying noises), because you can't possibly make it to the car seat to undo the baby before the noise starts. In behaviour sciences / learning theory, it's clear that alert sounds and alarms can only modify behaviour if there is a correct action to take to prevent it, in this case there is not. Not to mention, over time the possibility of becoming desensitized to the "going to happen anyway" sound. It all seems very frustrating. I think it especially won't be effective because people will return the seats / throw them in the garbage. The parents who care enough to buy this kind of seat are the ones who are most unlikely to forget their child. For the person who has similarly somehow forgotten the sound (perhaps gotten out of the car to get something out of the trunk first), this new seat doesn't do anything more for that child. If I were designing a car seat with built-in protection, I would put a pressure sensor under the seat, a high tech thermometer sensing the air temperature, both connected to a transmitter with gps location. If a child is sitting in the seat and the car is over, say, something like 90 - 100 degrees or so, it puts out an immediate signal to police so they can come save the baby....See MoreTeen sentenced to 8 years in accident, but I have misgivings
Comments (75)Note: My long post is a response to a similarly long post by a member here who then deleted her post. Rather than delete mine also, I have decided to leave it because I hope some of my thoughts are relevant to the whole series of conversations here. However angry we may feel at the tragic consequences, it's clear that however long and how severe the punishment, it won't reverse what happened or bring back the poor lady who was killed, heal the gentleman's injuries any faster, or take the ache from the hearts of all concerned. Surely we have to ask ourselves what purpose is served here, that would not be equally well served by a 'short sharp shock' of jail time (not inconsiderable, if the tales we hear of what happens to 'pretty' young lads like that in jail are to be believed), a sizeable fine in relation to his potential earning power, and a long period of license cancellation along with some kind of rehabilitative programme and/or community service enabling the perpetrator to learn, grow and give back something to society. There are a number of philosophy of law books that may help understand why societies have various consequences to prohibited criminal activity and the purpose of various sentences in relation to that criminal activity. Certainly I believe it is just to hold people accountable for their actions, and while many systems of law have different rules for small children, at 19 those who are licensed drivers must be accountable for their driving. Age brings better judgment, but at 19 many have jobs, families, and are able to understand the consequences of their actions, and are able to perpetrate the sort of crimes that rules and law have been set up to handle that protect society. While diminished capacity has long been a defense to some crimes, the legal response to those who voluntarily drink or take drugs that lead to diminished capacity has been overwhelmingly on the side of holding that person accountable, and they are held accountable in a similar manner to others, not merely given a slap on the wrist which is not an adequate response if protecting society is one of the goals of law. In addition, there are a number of factors, some statutory, others that leave a judge with some leeway on sentence length. And in addition to that, there are other practical factors such as the economy which come into play, in a downturn there may be less or no funding for rehab programs as you describe. A particular sentence for a particular crime is always met with differing opinions, (the parties involved, their friends and family, readers) and it is exactly those differences that make the framework of law set up prior to the crime valuable. I believe that the anger many felt here was directed, in addition to this heinous crime (you can argue youth and lack of judgment and mitigating circumstances all day long, but backing up over someone just run over is not an 'oops' action), at the way the OP presented the situation and at his professed feeling that some lives are worthier than others. I don't believe a young person's years are worthier than an older person's years, as an older person myself, I object to and resent any thoughts that consequences for crimes against me should be discounted because of my age....See More- 5 years ago
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