Changing Tastes in Entertainment
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Comments (17)Love your picture, Marianne. I gardened with perennials for years but often included a couple HTs. They never did well in my garden--BS magnets from my local garden center which did not carry any other type of rose, much less BS resistant roses. Years later when I decided I was going to grow lots and lots of roses, I can't even tell you where that idea came from--but not long after that I discovered old roses and Austin roses in one of the nursery catalogs and ordered a couple. Then I started receiving David Austin catalogs and of course went absolutely nuts over his roses. As my gardens transitioned from mostly perennials to about 2/3s roses, it was Austins and modern shrubs and floribundas that prevailed. Then I started adding a few minis and hybrid musks--but one day woke up and discovered that I missed those big big show blooms of the HTs. So I picked two spots in the gardens for HTs, but picked more wisely this time around (some BS resistance required!). So I circled around also. At this point in time, some 30+ years of gardening later, I have roughly 1/3 HTs and floribundas, 1/3 Austins and modern shrubs, and 1/3 older type roses (hybrid musks, Bourbons, polyanthas, etc.--it's a bit too cold here for some of the really wonderful Old Roses I wish I could grow). Oh yes, a number of minis also, so I guess my "thirds" doesn't quite work out, does it. LOL My point is that I have a fairly balanced number of roses from several different groups of roses. I like having a bit of each. Kate...See MoreCountertop taste changing in in the middle of the reno!
Comments (11)hi needsometips - The golden beaches is beautiful and I can't imagine tiring of looking at that each day. Whoever put those cabinet doors next to the granite will have a nice combo. It would be helpful to see YOUR doors next to it. (will you have two different finishes on your cabinets?) I know what you're going through. We started with quartz and several months later switched to granite because we saw the granite in a mock kitchen and kept wishing we had picked that. A month or two after we picked it, I started worrying that it would have a pinkish hue to it and started to entertain thoughts of changing it. I was still holding my breath on how it would look up until the moment they put the first piece on top of the cabinets. Whew - I was relieved to see it was beautiful - no pink hue. Not once since the granite was installed did I wish we had gone with the quartz. So, at some point you have to trust your decision - especially if both of you agreed on the granite choice. And, there is no limit on your "free passes" to change your mind. This is your project and you should be able to change your mind until you're satisfied. However,keep in mind that sometimes changing your mind late in the game will cost you more. My experience has been that the contractors and other businesses had no problems with a change when it involved an upgrade from the previous choice. (Ouchh - the wallet takes another hit!)...See MoreHas your decorating taste changed?
Comments (29)Ingrid VC, it's funny that you should mention English country house style, because it's the ultimate when it comes to being inclusive, rather than excusive in nature. The style was only christened with the name in the mid-20th century, but it's a look that's been around for few hundred years, and for ease & livability, it can't be beat, because rather than being about things--certain pieces or motifs (wire-fronted wooden cubboards="French Country"; pastel-painted coyote silhouettes="Southwestern")--it's about an approach, one based on comfort & practicality & hanging onto things, rather than tossing them just because their moment happens to be past. If the damask sofa's upholstery gets a little shabby, a chintz slipcover will take care of that. If the elegant curtains form the old family place are too long for the windows, we'll just call them 'puddled' and let it go at that. There are bigger things to think about. If there are rings on the mahogany finish where somebody put down a wet drink, oh well. That's patina. And threadbare rugs are welcome too, because they not only take less upkeep than pale carpeting, they're also cheaper. The ceaseless quest after perfection is a killer, and nobody does take-it-as-it-comes decorating like the English. But English Country Style it's not only inherited antiques & old stuff. The Victorian bamboo what-not over in the corner next to the Sheraton style desk was itself a brand new piece at one time, as were 192Os floor lamps, and if there was room for them in the overall scheme then, then there's also room for the 196Os brass drum table & the scratchy-looking 197Os wall hanging somebody made in the ashram, & those 198Os engravings of temples & that wire-fronted cupboard, too. It doesn't matter that it's supposedly "French Country" in inspiration. So, in the 18th Century, were Thomas Chippendale's ribbon-back carved mahogany chairs, and they fit into the mix just fine. And in the Victorian era, people began with the same room, with the same inherited family pieces both good & bad, then filled up the bare spots with Chinese vases & Japanese fans & Persian rugs & tooled leather stools from Egypt & native American baskets from Arizona & brass lanterns from Morocco & plaster casts of famous sculptures & tooled silver vases from India filled with peacock feathers or pampas grass. The eclectic look that's featured in Pier One ads or in vignettes at Cost Plus World Market is nothing more--or less--than a look that was common in millions of homes in say, 1880. So much for progress. But besides all that imported souvenir stuff in the typical English country house, there was the homey stuff, too. On one side of the elegant carved marble chimneypiece was Great-grandmother's rush-seated baby chair & on the other side was the dog's chewewd-up wicker bed & a pile of slimy doggy toys. Dogs were just as important to the overall style as were the family heirlooms. And of course there, in a prominent place, were the twin entertainment centers of the day, the upright piano & the stereopticon. As for the TV that's replaced those items today, Victorians were the ultimate believers in technology, so the last thing they would have done with an amazing gizmo like a 54" screen is hide it away in an old-timey cabinet, or othewrwise try to make it disappear. No, that's the great thing about the relaxed English Country house style, and more specifically, the ultra-forgiving, unpretentious Victorian version of it: there was room in it for everything, old & new, plain & fancy. That's why the style is still a good, practical model on which to base a room for the 21st century. Magnaverde Rule No. 16: Decorate for the life you really have, not the life you wish you had....See MoreWhen things take (lots of) time & your taste changes
Comments (24)Well, if your house style isn't leading you in a particular way (or, restricting you to a certain style) I'd say you're on the right path by just pursuing the things that please you. Personally I always enjoy visiting homes with eclectic style, because they're usually owned by interesting people. I think there are far worse things than mixing items from different periods and styles, especially if they're meaningful to you (like your mother's antiques.) So what do I do when you come to the actual substantial pieces I'd saved for and purchased that I just plain no longer like!? I'm going to disperse of some of these items via Craig's List, as you have. And I'm working up my courage for a giant garage sale. (How is your queen bed "too big to sell?") My rationale is, I enjoyed the anticipation and the purchase, and owning them for a while. So, I got that value out of them. Now, some don't work. So, shall we beat ourselves up about changing our minds about what we like? No, we shall not, because changing means we're growing, and growing is a good thing. Growing means we're aware, alive, having fun, and becoming something new. And besides that, it's totally unfair to your queen bed to make it live in a house where it's not truly loved for its angular maple goodness. Set it free, and let it find happiness. And besides that, when you sell your queen bed, and give somebody a heck of a deal, you are singlehandedly stimulating the economy and encouraging commerce. And goodness knows we need that. Why, it's almost your civic duty. (Being able to rationalize anything is a very handy skill, have you noticed?)...See More- 5 years ago
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