I think it bothers you because it’s basically empty. I like to have a bit of a “drop zone” by the door. Maybe a small drawer unit to the left of your door, to hold gloves, sunglasses, etc. believe it or not, I found a nice one for my daughter’s apartment at the Christmas Tree Store for maybe $40 (it might not be her forever furniture, but looks great and serves a purpose during her urban apartment years). If you would use it, a small wall mounted hook unit next to your closet could stash dog leashes, coats when visitors are there, etc. You could get a magnetic picture hanger and hang something on the back of your door (eg seasonal “door” artwork, a pretty calendar, or maybe even a mirror for last minute checkups on your way out the door). These things would all be functional, and distract you from the door hardware that bothers you.

what should I do on the wood floors? im doing white oak 5". should I do regular wood or quarter sawn?

Thanks for the rug suggestions, I would have never thought to do a striped carpet. The other 2 look very nice too. I really like the suggestion for the coffee table. For the TV stand, I don't think I can get a taller one given the large picture we have above it. You pictured 2 wood TV stands, can I have a dark wood piece given my open concept and very white kitchen? We had ordered a dark wood coffee table but are returning it because it just didn't seem to go. I guess that's what I'm really stuck on, is the style of furniture we need to look for. I completely agree the console table is too small, that one was perfect in the tiny entrance of my previous home. If anyone has recommendations on dining tables and chairs that would go well in this space I would appreciate the insight. (excuse the dining room mess, all those plants are headed outside as soon as the weather warms up) As well as backsplash ideas would be great.

The only item that might be a problem is the kitchen island. You have a modern apartment, with fairly modern/eclectic bookcase and couch, but the kitchen island is a different style. If you have an overall eclectic style that would work, but otherwise it may need to be switched out for a more modern style.